Boyfriend keeps pushing my boundaries

[Hurricanejsms]

Bfs family is visiting and he keeps allowing them to come in my room unannounced. It’s my time of the month and I got blood on the sheets which they seen from him not telling them it’s off limits. So embarrassing. Everytime I try telling him it turns into an argument and he gets defensive and tells me about how bad I treat him and he tries so hard to please me. How am I in the wrong?

Who are you?? Are you really serious?

That’s called gaslighting. Dump

Can't you just tell them to get out ?

I wouldn't be embarrassed about blood on the sheets. But definitely put a lock on the door if they don't understand boundaries. You could be naked. And using the en-suite when you're in the room is weird. My DS preferred to go downstairs in the night than use our en-suite toilet!