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Threw an egg at a car in an insomnia fuelled rage. AIBU?

315 replies

EggVigilante · 17/03/2025 08:58

I live in a block of flats with a turning square for cars outside. It’s painted with double yellow lines.

Unfortunately, this space attracts antisocial behaviour, especially during warmer months. We tend to get cars parking up and people congregating there during the night, with people playing music and chatting/shouting away at all hours.

In the past I’ve just turned over and tried to get back to sleep (often being woken up a few more times that night). This was a real blight on our lives last summer, but we’ve had a bit of respite over the winter. Last year I thought seriously about what I could do to try and get the noise dealt with by the council, but from research (and past experience about a noisy neighbour), I don’t think this is likely to be effective. It’s not always the same cars/people. I’ve thought about going out there and asking people to be quiet, but given how inconsiderate they are being, I doubt this would work (and feels potentially dangerous). After thinking about it I decided there was nothing I could really do to solve this, and it was just one of those things, and I’d have to lump it.

Last night I was jolted awake at 3:30 am by loud music booming from a car. I looked out the window and saw it had pulled up just outside.

I had a tough week last week, getting some bad health news, and I have been suffering from a bit of insomnia. My job is always quite full-on, and I was already filled with a fair bit of post-weekend dread about the amount of work I’ve got to get through this week. I thought I’d been coping pretty well, but I do feel a bit stretched thin.

When I saw the car parked there, blaring music so loudly and probably waking at least a hundred people up in the overlooking flats, I was so incensed that I ran into the kitchen, grabbed an egg, and lobbed it from the window.

The egg splatted harmlessly next to the car, which drove away sharpish.

AIBU to become the egg vigilante?

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Ketchupbroc · 17/03/2025 08:59

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Redbushteaforme · 17/03/2025 09:01

The yob in this story was in the car.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 17/03/2025 09:01

I think you were remarkably restrained. Work on perfecting your aim though.

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FeministUnderTheCatriarchy · 17/03/2025 09:02

It was very reckless. I would be concerned about retaliation.

Throwing eggs at cars with strangers is quite stupid.

Get a white noise machine, get some ear plugs and try to ignore.

I understand how frustrating it is to have noise like that, but unless it is the same cars repeatedly (so you can take their license and report) there's nothing you can do.

You are very lucky they drive away instead of either damaging your property or trying to get to you.

People doing that at 3am could be drunk, on drugs, gang members or simply volatile people.

NaomhPadraigin · 17/03/2025 09:02

Good for you!

Porkydorky · 17/03/2025 09:02

I’m sorry OP but this made me laugh! I don’t think you are being unreasonable at all as sleep deprivation is the worst and they were being very antisocial at a ridiculous time of the night. But it might be worth going down the official route of contacting the council as well as stocking up on more eggs?

OhCalmTheFuckDownMargaret · 17/03/2025 09:03

I'm disappointed you missed. There's no excuse. Please work on your aim.

KezzaMucklowe · 17/03/2025 09:04

You will get lots of really disapproving comments and they're right it's not the best way to deal with it.. but what is. There doesn't seem to be anyone who can help.
I feel your pain we have inconsiderate people around here too and I'd love to set up a masked vigilante group.

InterestedDad37 · 17/03/2025 09:06

Not trying to egg you on, but I can understand eggsactly why you did it 😀🥚🍳

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 09:06

I’d be more worried about retaliation tbh.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/03/2025 09:06

Obviously it's not the best way to deal with it but I'd be amazed if a yob concentrating on whatever yobbish stuff was going on inside the car at 3.30 in the morning in an unlit or poorly lit car park would be able to identify the flat that the egg was thrown out of and retaliate.

madamweb · 17/03/2025 09:07

Yabu. My children are both severely allergic to egg and that is not unusual. Contact with egg could kill them.

Not that they would behave like that (I hope!). But you must not view egg or any other food as benign and harmless. It could kill.

Fountofwisdom · 17/03/2025 09:07

Is it private or council housing? If it’s council, you should definitely contact your housing officer and if you know your neighbours well enough, get them to do the same so the HO takes notice.

Also find out who your local Councillor is and you’ll easily be able to get their email address and write to them. Councillors are usually keen to keep the electorate happy.

Also contact your local neighbourhood policing team - tell them there’s drug-dealing etc going on and they should be interested.

If there are double yellow lines, the Council should be enforcing no stopping, although obviously there won’t be wardens out and about late at night.

madamweb · 17/03/2025 09:08

NaomhPadraigin · 17/03/2025 09:02

Good for you!

It's not funny. Eggs can cause lethal allergic reactions. Finding throwing food funny is grim and ignorant

Iheartmysmart · 17/03/2025 09:08

Personally I think you were quite restrained and should get a super soaker, fill it with indelible ink and fire at the bastards next time. I live in a development of flats and know how draining anti social behaviour is and how difficult it is to get anything done about it.

WhatIsCorndogs · 17/03/2025 09:08

I don't blame you at all. I'd be buying more eggs in specifically to throw at any car who stops there to make a racket and disturb my sleep. People should be so inconsiderate!!!

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LittleGreenDragons · 17/03/2025 09:09

Oh OP... I am very disappointed in you.

Aim better!

7393827gsjsbdh · 17/03/2025 09:09

Good for you
We used to live next to a block of flats and the ambulance bay was always parked on by someone in a BMW. After the ambulance couldn't get to park for an elderly neighbour one night, someone in the flats started putting rubbish bags onto of the bonnet and the roof of the car.
Can't say I have the balls to do it myself but it did the job and the neighbours all loved the man or woman who did it! (although I don't think anyone found out who it was)
so well done op. its harmless and might stop them doing it again. I'd keep an egg box by the window and the window cracked open, no-one would know its you!

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 17/03/2025 09:10

Yanbu 🥰

HelenWheels · 17/03/2025 09:11

what a great idea!

Eggsellent

Annoyeddd · 17/03/2025 09:11

Are they quite young people - could try the mosquito sound app.

Coolasfeck · 17/03/2025 09:12

madamweb · 17/03/2025 09:07

Yabu. My children are both severely allergic to egg and that is not unusual. Contact with egg could kill them.

Not that they would behave like that (I hope!). But you must not view egg or any other food as benign and harmless. It could kill.

I’m sorry your children have such a severe allergy but this comment in this context is ridiculous.