I claimed PIP for several years, with several renewals and 4 points in 4 different areas.. until my son was born (14 weeks early), relationship broke down, renewal appointment came and I went from 16 points to 0. Basically I was able to breastfeed a newborn and keep him alive so assessor decided I didn't meet any of the descriptors. Despite my physical and mental health being the worst it has been, not eating, washing, socialising, not managing adulting eg managing finances,bills etc all energy went on keeping baby fed clean and nurtured.
My support worker helped me submit a MR with further evidence and came back again with 0 points.
Son is now 7, he has significant SEND, autistic ADHD and DCD, waiting for a specialist school placement and I've had to leave my part time employment which was extremely important for my mental health, because son is only managing a part-time timetable.
So now we've gone from having two working adult household (although my contract was 28 hours a week since 2016 after being diagnosed with an autoimmune condition that affects all areas of life). To being a single parent, single income household alongside PIP. To losing the PIP.. to now losing my income and relying on bare bones UC award to survive. Basically living in poverty struggling to afford the basics and no idea when things will improve.
I've been told to apply for DLA for my son, and I've been given fit notes for stress now because the situation is freaking stressful. I'm disheartened to see the proposed changes to PIP at a time I was considering reapplying. Anyone who has been through the assessment process will know the level of evidence required to apply and even the most disabled applicants often end up having to appeal to get what they should. How awesome it would be to be physically and mentally healthy and not have to think about applying for and relying on benefits like PIP.