Are you saying that if no one ever prompted you to eat or drink you would starve to death? Would your children starve to death also because you need prompting to feed them?
What you describe sounds like the side effects of many conditions. I have struggled with fragile mental health for 40 years and take medication to manage it. My mood fluctuates massively, and when I’m feeling low, I often don’t feel like cooking, washing, or doing housework. It’s not that I’m incapable—I can cook, wash, and use a hoover—I just lack the motivation and desire to do it.
Sometimes I go weeks without making a proper meal, relying on coffee loaded with sugar for some energy.
But I don’t see myself as having a disability that the welfare state should compensate for. I’ve lived with this condition for so long that, to me, it’s just normal and something I manage myself.
I struggle to understand why someone like yourself with a good job, who has managed to give birth and parent children would claim that theoretically, you could claim PIP because you sometimes need prompting to eat and drink.
A serious eating disorder would be something like anorexia, where even with prompting, the person still doesn’t want to eat and faces a genuine risk of death or dysphagia following a stroke. Unless without prompting you would wither away and die I don't see that as a major disability that needs financial compensation.
You are clearly an intelligent woman whose cognition is intact so could easily use your mobile to set up regular reminders to eat/drink - it's not rocket science.
I acknowledge that you said you wouldn't apply for PIP but I wonder how many people like yourself would still apply out of a sense of entitlement.
I think there are too many people claiming to have a disability for minor conditions that with a bit of common sense and planning could easily be self-managed but instead, they expect the welfare state to sort it out for them.