DP wants to end relationship over misunderstanding with waitress

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Went out for a meal with DP and all was going well. That was, until the mains arrived, and DP was adamant he had ordered his meal without mushrooms, yet his food had arrived containing them. A bit of a back and forth started between him and the waitress, who was saying DP definitely didn't ask for no mushrooms.

DP then turns to me and says something along the lines of, "Tell her I ordered no mushrooms". I immediately felt embarrassed and mumbled, "I can't remember". I hate confrontation and I genuinely couldn't remember.

The waitress eventually took the food back to go and fix the apparent mistake and DP was absolutely fuming saying even if I couldn't remember, I should have lied and said that I did and he kept repeating "Don't you know I don't like mushrooms?" After about 20 mins of being in a strop, he said that he would now have to reconsider the relationship as he doesn't want to be with someone who 'doesn't have his back'

Like the emotional wreck that I am, I began crying at the table and he told me to stop because I was embarrassing him.

So my question is, was I wrong to say I couldn't remember or should I have lied?

Absolutely this! Holy shit...

He sounds awful & tbh anyone who can be that rude either to waiting staff etc or to you in public is a massive turn off, in fairness the server probably should have just taken him at his word rather than made a song & dance but either way he sounds really unpleasant

You know what they say about men who treat waitresses badly …. it’s a red flag because before long they direct that behaviour at you and it escalates. He’s already started on you and it will get worse.
So you’d be advised to get rid asap.

Tell him you’ve changed your mind about the relationship because you’ve realised he’s an arsehole.

How long have you been dating him? He’s nuts.

Get him Gone. Grown ass man is pathetic. You will end up fucked up in the head with him.

I was thinking this too. Why was the waitress debating with him? Why is everyone automatically believing that he didn't say about the nasty little slimy things.
He's still a knob though.

He sounds awful.

I couldn't be with someone like that.

Yes, she is.

You don’t ’have his back’ 🤣🤣🤣 Fucking hell, he needs something big to worry about.

even if the waitress was wrong you dont talk to people or your partner like that

Your boyfriend sounds a total bellend. You’re not, he is! That’s it really.

@WelshPool I love you for this. Made my day. 😂

So my question is, was I wrong to say I couldn't remember or should I have lied?

My question would have been 'how quickly can I get away from this idiot'.

He's a bully OP. Cut this loser loose as it won't get better.

Save him his thinking time and dump him first. What a babytwat.

Why aren't you the one ending the relationship with this arrogant, disrespectful toerag?

End it. It will be the best decision you ever made.

This man is a child.

He sounds like a twat!

He was having a tantrum and being rude to the waitress and then started on you because he couldn’t bare to be wrong.

The fact that he has to ‘rethink the relationship’ is so pathetic.

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Deary, deary me 😂

Unless he’s allergic I’d find a grown adult that doesn’t like mushrooms very unattractive. Reminds me of my little brother picking them all out because they are too healthy 🤣

Also - rude to waiting staff - yuck
Rude to you in public - double yuck.

You should be the one to say see ya later!

Get rid of him

Awful bullying man

Sounds like a bully. Life doesn't have to be like this you know.

I would not be in relationship with someone who give me instructions like that, wether I could remember or not what he ordered.

Urgh what a turn off. Leave him op. You deserve better