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To warn MNers that if you post a link copied from your Facebook or Instagram account you’re outing yourseld

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 10:27

If you’re logged in to Instagram or Facebook, and you copy a link to paste into a MN thread (or indeed anywhere), anyone clicking that link can see your profile. It pops up saying “Joe Bloggs sent you a link. Add them as a friend?” and your profile picture is accompanied.

Ive seen it loads and didnt wanna post on individual threads telling people as it feels like an invitation to check out who that person really is. Posting in AIBU for traffic - it’s shocking IMO, but thought I’d warn people who didn’t realise. Not anything MN can do about it, it’s a Meta issue.

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 10:34

Bump!

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CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 11:04

Bumping your own post 7 mins after posting? How odd.

anyways, what link did you copy, post and out yourself with?

LucyLou0527 · 09/03/2025 11:54

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 11:04

Bumping your own post 7 mins after posting? How odd.

anyways, what link did you copy, post and out yourself with?

They have literally posted this to help people avoid exposing their identity. No need to be so abrupt and rude👍🏻

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 12:24

LucyLou0527 · 09/03/2025 11:54

They have literally posted this to help people avoid exposing their identity. No need to be so abrupt and rude👍🏻

No need to be so tedious!
7 mins on a Sunday morning bumping is massively over the top.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 09/03/2025 12:34

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 11:04

Bumping your own post 7 mins after posting? How odd.

anyways, what link did you copy, post and out yourself with?

Actually it's you being odd. There is absolutely no need to be snarky when the op is trying to be helpful

myplace · 09/03/2025 12:38

Oh dear. This isn’t going well.

However I don’t think I’ve ever seen an FB post on here, so am not overly worried.

MN could have a pop up warning though, if people post links.

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:41

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 11:04

Bumping your own post 7 mins after posting? How odd.

anyways, what link did you copy, post and out yourself with?

you seem annoyed at my thread - are you angry you can’t see who people really are now?

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:42

And @CunningLinguist1 you’re more than welcome to AS if you wanna find out the real me. I’ll wait here.

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YouveGotAFastCar · 09/03/2025 12:42

It’s not just Meta. It started as a TikTok thing.

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:43

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 09/03/2025 12:34

Actually it's you being odd. There is absolutely no need to be snarky when the op is trying to be helpful

I think that poster is just angry that she can’t now find out people’s identities. Can’t think why else she’s be so angry. Especially when she’s specifically asked me if I’ve linked to a post.

I’ll bump all I like as well. It’s important that people know this

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:43

myplace · 09/03/2025 12:38

Oh dear. This isn’t going well.

However I don’t think I’ve ever seen an FB post on here, so am not overly worried.

MN could have a pop up warning though, if people post links.

What do you mean this isn’t going well?

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DappledThings · 09/03/2025 12:44

I've never seen anyone post a link from Facebook or instagram on here. Seems like a pretty small issue to be so invested in. And it is a bit ridiculous to bump a thread after only a few minutes.

myplace · 09/03/2025 12:46

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:43

What do you mean this isn’t going well?

The arguing over nothing.

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:46

My sincerest apologies my trying to be helpful everyone. I do hope you overcome your injuries from the offence taken.

Ive seen loads of posts linked to Insta and Facebook 🤷‍♀️

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repellingmnvipers · 09/03/2025 12:49

That poster is inadvertently bumping your post with her objections

Pigeonqueen · 09/03/2025 12:49

I sometimes link to Facebook groups that I think might be helpful to those with the same health conditions as me. I don’t really care if I’m outed. I don’t post anything I wouldn’t want linked to me anyway. I think seeing how many threads appear copied and pasted from here to the Daily Mail etc has made me very aware not to say anything I wouldn’t say in real life.

ilovesooty · 09/03/2025 12:55

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:41

you seem annoyed at my thread - are you angry you can’t see who people really are now?

I don't see why you think that

Perhaps this might help some people, though I think if you're going to use a public forum you really should know how not to out yourself if it's important to you.

BatchCookBabe · 09/03/2025 12:57

I don't think it would I.D anyone would it? Unless they put a link to their own posts?

BatchCookBabe · 09/03/2025 12:58

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:46

My sincerest apologies my trying to be helpful everyone. I do hope you overcome your injuries from the offence taken.

Ive seen loads of posts linked to Insta and Facebook 🤷‍♀️

Can you put a link to one of the posts where you have seen this? Because I have never seen this happen.

saveforthat · 09/03/2025 13:01

I've seen quite a few links to Facebook so I think this post is useful and if you don't, scroll on, no need to pile on the OP who is trying to be helpful.

LionME · 09/03/2025 13:06

@APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH Thank you!

I have linked to FB before, to specific group that could have been helpful to the OP or a poster.
Now I won’t.

LionME · 09/03/2025 13:06

BatchCookBabe · 09/03/2025 12:58

Can you put a link to one of the posts where you have seen this? Because I have never seen this happen.

And out the person who posted the link???

DappledThings · 09/03/2025 13:07

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:46

My sincerest apologies my trying to be helpful everyone. I do hope you overcome your injuries from the offence taken.

Ive seen loads of posts linked to Insta and Facebook 🤷‍♀️

Why do you think anyone slightly bemused and asking why you're so het up about a pretty minor issue is offended or angry? Your overreactions are quite odd.

backtothemeadow · 09/03/2025 13:09

LucyLou0527 · 09/03/2025 11:54

They have literally posted this to help people avoid exposing their identity. No need to be so abrupt and rude👍🏻

Well said

backtothemeadow · 09/03/2025 13:10

ilovesooty · 09/03/2025 12:55

I don't see why you think that

Perhaps this might help some people, though I think if you're going to use a public forum you really should know how not to out yourself if it's important to you.

I didn’t know and I’m grateful.