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To warn MNers that if you post a link copied from your Facebook or Instagram account you’re outing yourseld

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 10:27

If you’re logged in to Instagram or Facebook, and you copy a link to paste into a MN thread (or indeed anywhere), anyone clicking that link can see your profile. It pops up saying “Joe Bloggs sent you a link. Add them as a friend?” and your profile picture is accompanied.

Ive seen it loads and didnt wanna post on individual threads telling people as it feels like an invitation to check out who that person really is. Posting in AIBU for traffic - it’s shocking IMO, but thought I’d warn people who didn’t realise. Not anything MN can do about it, it’s a Meta issue.

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ThePoshUns · 09/03/2025 14:23

HelenWheels · 09/03/2025 14:05

i dont think it does

It definitely does.

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 14:29

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 09/03/2025 12:34

Actually it's you being odd. There is absolutely no need to be snarky when the op is trying to be helpful

Oh dear - slow Sunday? 😂😂😂

HelenWheels · 09/03/2025 14:31

i am sure i sent a link from a facebook reel
i wanted to test it with the one i sent before buit that has disappeared
but another link i posted just goes to the heading of the article

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 14:33

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:41

you seem annoyed at my thread - are you angry you can’t see who people really are now?

Give over - I’ve zero interest in who you are

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 14:34

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 12:43

I think that poster is just angry that she can’t now find out people’s identities. Can’t think why else she’s be so angry. Especially when she’s specifically asked me if I’ve linked to a post.

I’ll bump all I like as well. It’s important that people know this

Not angry at all!
amused mainly 🥳

Ihopeithinkiknow · 09/03/2025 15:08

I don't think the OPs reactions are over the top at all because if someone was purposely trying to make me look like a dick with their twattish responses then I would get defensive too because things like that piss me right off.
Just waiting to be told I'm now overreacting for no reason haha.

Had enough of people purposely doing that and that claiming I'm overreacting it's snidey behaviour

backtothemeadow · 09/03/2025 15:35

Ihopeithinkiknow · 09/03/2025 15:08

I don't think the OPs reactions are over the top at all because if someone was purposely trying to make me look like a dick with their twattish responses then I would get defensive too because things like that piss me right off.
Just waiting to be told I'm now overreacting for no reason haha.

Had enough of people purposely doing that and that claiming I'm overreacting it's snidey behaviour

It’s horrible and repeat offenders are doing it.

LittleGreenDragons · 09/03/2025 15:54

I didn’t know either so thank you @APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH

Consider this a BUMP! as well. Anyone would think those snarky buggers were paying the server costs 🙄

Theunamedcat · 09/03/2025 15:59

I did not know this but thankfully I have a burner Facebook account that's not linked to me personally so I can happily use that

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:00

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 14:33

Give over - I’ve zero interest in who you are

Why ask me to direct you to a link I’ve posted then? Or did you just feel in a goady mood?

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:01

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 14:34

Not angry at all!
amused mainly 🥳

Oh well takes all sorts I guess

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:01

Ihopeithinkiknow · 09/03/2025 15:08

I don't think the OPs reactions are over the top at all because if someone was purposely trying to make me look like a dick with their twattish responses then I would get defensive too because things like that piss me right off.
Just waiting to be told I'm now overreacting for no reason haha.

Had enough of people purposely doing that and that claiming I'm overreacting it's snidey behaviour

Yep - people MUST come on MN purposefully to seek out OPs to stick the boot into. It should be called out, every time.

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Londonrach1 · 09/03/2025 16:02

I asked mnhq about this 7 years ago and was told it only show you. Might be worth double checking with mnhq

ThatDoesntWorkForMe · 09/03/2025 16:02

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 11:04

Bumping your own post 7 mins after posting? How odd.

anyways, what link did you copy, post and out yourself with?

It’s not odd. Is that the best you’ve got? FGS.

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:03

Londonrach1 · 09/03/2025 16:02

I asked mnhq about this 7 years ago and was told it only show you. Might be worth double checking with mnhq

It definitely does and it’s a fairly new thing as I definitely didn’t used to.

Google tells me if you remove the last few lines of the URL it should stop it - but on testing, it doesn’t!

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BlueBatsAndOranges · 09/03/2025 16:03

CunningLinguist1 · 09/03/2025 14:29

Oh dear - slow Sunday? 😂😂😂

You can bloody talk, having a go at OP for bumping her own thread. You’ve obviously not got anything better to do.

Thanks @APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH I had no idea. Ignore the snarky responses, some posters like to hang out on AIBU and pounce on anyone and anything. They think AIBU gives them free rein to be nasty bitches. Sad really.

DappledThings · 09/03/2025 16:07

So many people attempting to escalate a thread that had some mild querying of why OP was seeming a bit over zealous into a gigantic fight.

Nobody had a go at OP, pretty sure nobody who did query the quick bumping is interested in said attempts to incite rage. It's as bemusing as the original bumping.

ThePoshUns · 09/03/2025 16:07

They only embarrass themselves. Not big and not clever.

ThePoshUns · 09/03/2025 16:08

ThePoshUns · 09/03/2025 16:07

They only embarrass themselves. Not big and not clever.

That was in response to @BlueBatsAndOranges

BlueBatsAndOranges · 09/03/2025 16:10

DappledThings · 09/03/2025 16:07

So many people attempting to escalate a thread that had some mild querying of why OP was seeming a bit over zealous into a gigantic fight.

Nobody had a go at OP, pretty sure nobody who did query the quick bumping is interested in said attempts to incite rage. It's as bemusing as the original bumping.

Not as bemusing as you keep commenting on a thread you have zero interest in.

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:11

At the risk of getting certain posters into a froth, I’ve decided to be even MORE helpful.

I’ve set up an extra account called hellumumsnet to do a test, and here’s the screenshot to show you what I mean.

This is what people see if you copy and paste a link from Instagram and it’s the same for Facebook

To warn MNers that if you post a link copied from your Facebook or Instagram account you’re outing yourseld
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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:12

DappledThings · 09/03/2025 16:07

So many people attempting to escalate a thread that had some mild querying of why OP was seeming a bit over zealous into a gigantic fight.

Nobody had a go at OP, pretty sure nobody who did query the quick bumping is interested in said attempts to incite rage. It's as bemusing as the original bumping.

you mustn’t have read the first page if you think no one had a go.

OP posts:
DappledThings · 09/03/2025 16:12

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:11

At the risk of getting certain posters into a froth, I’ve decided to be even MORE helpful.

I’ve set up an extra account called hellumumsnet to do a test, and here’s the screenshot to show you what I mean.

This is what people see if you copy and paste a link from Instagram and it’s the same for Facebook

I mean, still nobody's frothing but yes, this is helpful to see what you mean.

DappledThings · 09/03/2025 16:13

BlueBatsAndOranges · 09/03/2025 16:10

Not as bemusing as you keep commenting on a thread you have zero interest in.

Well we can all be cheerfully bemused together then. Still no need for anyone to be kicking off

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 16:14

DappledThings · 09/03/2025 16:13

Well we can all be cheerfully bemused together then. Still no need for anyone to be kicking off

I’m really not sure what there is to be bemused at TBH. Other than the fact someone got upset over a thread bump and asked me to out myself. What kind of point do you think a poster like that is making?

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