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To warn MNers that if you post a link copied from your Facebook or Instagram account you’re outing yourseld

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 10:27

If you’re logged in to Instagram or Facebook, and you copy a link to paste into a MN thread (or indeed anywhere), anyone clicking that link can see your profile. It pops up saying “Joe Bloggs sent you a link. Add them as a friend?” and your profile picture is accompanied.

Ive seen it loads and didnt wanna post on individual threads telling people as it feels like an invitation to check out who that person really is. Posting in AIBU for traffic - it’s shocking IMO, but thought I’d warn people who didn’t realise. Not anything MN can do about it, it’s a Meta issue.

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ThePoshUns · 09/03/2025 20:50

I've seen it 3 or 4 times.

ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself · 09/03/2025 21:07

HelenWheels · 09/03/2025 14:05

i dont think it does

It does.

Eldoo · 09/03/2025 21:19

HelenWheels · 09/03/2025 20:43

nope, mn can't see it, i asked them to check

Metas own page says that your profile can be shared when you share a link. That’s what the igsh part of the url is. It does happen

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 22:18

HelenWheels · 09/03/2025 20:43

nope, mn can't see it, i asked them to check

Did you not see my screenshot?

Its nothing to do with MN, they can’t control what happens when you go to another website

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 22:20

I tried taking out the bits after the slash and it still doesn’t work.

This is the link I screen grabbed (i can’t see whoever clicks on the link BTW).
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFOmkTfSLkp/?igsh=MTFxdmRmOW1jZ3dxMA==

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFOmkTfSLkp/?igsh=MTFxdmRmOW1jZ3dxMA==

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HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 05:51

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 22:18

Did you not see my screenshot?

Its nothing to do with MN, they can’t control what happens when you go to another website

no but i shared something before via fb and due to this thread i reported it, they told me they couldnt see it

HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 05:54

is that you then @APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH
with 208K followers?

Eldoo · 10/03/2025 07:29

HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 05:54

is that you then @APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH
with 208K followers?

No they’re the hellomumsnet account that pops up and says the reel was shared by.

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 07:31

HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 05:54

is that you then @APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH
with 208K followers?

No. That’s the video I copy and pasted. “Hellomumsnet” is a burner account I created

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 07:35

HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 05:51

no but i shared something before via fb and due to this thread i reported it, they told me they couldnt see it

Unless the MN person was logged into their own Facebook account it won’t pop up and it also won’t be visible to them

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HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 07:39

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 07:31

No. That’s the video I copy and pasted. “Hellomumsnet” is a burner account I created

it doesnt mention that name at all, just the instagram person

Iloafyou · 10/03/2025 07:43

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 09/03/2025 22:20

I tried taking out the bits after the slash and it still doesn’t work.

This is the link I screen grabbed (i can’t see whoever clicks on the link BTW).
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFOmkTfSLkp/?igsh=MTFxdmRmOW1jZ3dxMA==

That link doesn't show the "Hellomumsnet" account for me. Just straight to the Instagram reel.

Eldoo · 10/03/2025 07:45

Have you clicked the link previously or aren’t logged in, regardless though. This is an instagram feature not something the poster is making up, instagram has a page explaining that your profile can be shared, when you share a link, that’s what the igsh part of the url is for

edit adding ig page as the screenshot is under review https://help.instagram.com/2599848706833869

To warn MNers that if you post a link copied from your Facebook or Instagram account you’re outing yourseld
APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 07:45

Iloafyou · 10/03/2025 07:43

That link doesn't show the "Hellomumsnet" account for me. Just straight to the Instagram reel.

Are you logged into your Instagram?

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APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 07:46

HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 07:39

it doesnt mention that name at all, just the instagram person

Are you logged into your Instagram?

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Iloafyou · 10/03/2025 07:53

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 07:46

Are you logged into your Instagram?

Yes, logged in.

HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 07:54

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 07:46

Are you logged into your Instagram?

no not logged out

i am logged in

Eldoo · 10/03/2025 07:55

Idk why this thread has caused such issues and disbelief.

OP is sharing a thing that is not made up, it’s an actual feature of instagram, detailed on their site, well documented on Reddit people complaining about it etc

People have shared ig posts on mumsnet without knowing, I’ve told someone months ago that it was showing for them, does it show everytime in every situation? No but it’s worth knowing as it does happen and people clearly don’t know about judging off the reactions of this thread

purplecog · 10/03/2025 07:56

Iloafyou · 10/03/2025 07:43

That link doesn't show the "Hellomumsnet" account for me. Just straight to the Instagram reel.

Thanks for sharing OP.

I’ve just tried and it doesn’t show the account it came from for me either, and I am logged in. Just takes me straight to the video.

I won’t be posting any links in future though!

MulberryPeony · 10/03/2025 07:56

I’ve seen it and warned people of it happening before. No idea why you are getting backlash for alerting people. Thank you.

Iloafyou · 10/03/2025 07:57

Was not trying to be rude. I'm glad you shared this. Just strange that it doesn't work for everyone.

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 08:38

HelenWheels · 10/03/2025 07:54

no not logged out

i am logged in

Edited

Could be because it’s not a recently created link (a PP suggested this needs to be the case although I’m not sure what Meta’s definition of “recently” is).

Testing this one www.instagram.com/reel/DFtnJUno-p4/?igsh=MWhlMndjNmN1bG55Ng==

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Iloafyou · 10/03/2025 08:40

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 08:38

Could be because it’s not a recently created link (a PP suggested this needs to be the case although I’m not sure what Meta’s definition of “recently” is).

Testing this one www.instagram.com/reel/DFtnJUno-p4/?igsh=MWhlMndjNmN1bG55Ng==

Still nothing for that one. Very enjoyable reel though! It's odd it doesn't work for everyone.

Eldoo · 10/03/2025 08:42

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 08:38

Could be because it’s not a recently created link (a PP suggested this needs to be the case although I’m not sure what Meta’s definition of “recently” is).

Testing this one www.instagram.com/reel/DFtnJUno-p4/?igsh=MWhlMndjNmN1bG55Ng==

.

To warn MNers that if you post a link copied from your Facebook or Instagram account you’re outing yourseld
APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 08:44

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 10/03/2025 08:38

Could be because it’s not a recently created link (a PP suggested this needs to be the case although I’m not sure what Meta’s definition of “recently” is).

Testing this one www.instagram.com/reel/DFtnJUno-p4/?igsh=MWhlMndjNmN1bG55Ng==

Yep, it shows who’s shared it

The one I shared yesterday doesn’t show anymore. Must have a time limit on showing who shared it.

To warn MNers that if you post a link copied from your Facebook or Instagram account you’re outing yourseld
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