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AIBU to be utterly horrified that the US has cut off military aid to Ukraine?

992 replies

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:20

I was hoping that it was mostly just bluster from Trump. But we've woken up to the news that he has actually done it. He's literally swapped sides in the war and is now standing with the aggressor, Russia, and abandoning the victim, Ukraine.

At least some Americans are speaking out against the decision:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A8510a9e0-ea40-4895-835d-bb747d6b0339#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A43d2db68-32ae-47f3-a550-8a5bd491beb9#post

Ukraine war latest: US pauses military aid to Ukraine as EU chief says Europe is 'ready to step up'

Meanwhile, Russia says Donald Trump's move is "the best contribution to the cause of peace".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

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Papyrophile · 08/03/2025 20:51

@AthWat even the kindest person on the planet, with the kindest will in the world, could not fail to spot the obvious imbalances in that "deal".

Panterusblackish · 08/03/2025 20:55

SunnyDayInFeb · 07/03/2025 23:10

I am getting so fed up of all the misinformation / downright lies on mumsnet. It is making it unreadable.

It swamps all the attempts at reasoned discussion and means that you have to wage through utter garbage to read anything sensible.

Must be exhausting for those mumsnetters trying to refute it as well.

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Yes come on @mnhq

There's clearly disinformation from @crakajak on this thread. Zelenskyy is clearly not a dictator etc etc etc

In covid disinformation was zapped, why not now?

Papyrophile · 08/03/2025 21:02

Because there's not much need to do so? Most regular posters who don't name change because of relationship issues have been here for donkeys. I'd prefer to remain Papyrophile but if MN needed to identify me personally, I don't have any embarrassment about disclosing the other user names I have used over the years I've posted.

Papyrophile · 08/03/2025 21:08

How dangerous can one 69 yo woman living in a small village in SE Cornwall really be? My nicely sharpened Global knives are the most dangerous things I own. Mind you, they are sharp.

Panterusblackish · 08/03/2025 21:12

Crakajak · 07/03/2025 22:08

So when are you fighting for Ukraine? When is your son? Or are you just furious behind a safe keyboard?

Why even bother reposting these nonsense statements that you've picked up off Twitter and Facebook?

Do you think @crakajak that your copied points will some how wow lots of women and win them round to your amazing rhetoric? Frankly if you had a brain, you'd be dangerous.

Why on earth does anyone need to be fighting or have relatives fighting in Ukraine to have an opinion about this conflict? It's ironic that someone like you, probably a US teenager safety tucked away in his parents cellar wanking himself daft over a picture of Andrew Tate spews such utter drivel to people who will genuinely be affected by wider war in Europe.

I know what it's like to have a family member go to war, you've probably never been further than whichever shithole mid western backwater you hail from.

Off back to 4chan where you belong, you'll never have the critical thinking skills to see through Trump's bullshit.

SinnerBoy · 08/03/2025 21:27

Audhdmum · Today 13:59

DdraigGoch · Today 13:20
Have you been drinking?

Vodka, I imagine

With a good glug of turps.

SinnerBoy · 08/03/2025 21:33

user9876543211 · Today 17:42

A bigly peace plan. The best peace plan ever.

It's the most bigliest, beautifuliest peace plan since before history began. Ya know what? A lodda people have been, ya know? Ya know what they've been saying? What they've been telling me? Mr. Lord President, Sir, this is the most beautiful, the most perfect peace plan ever!

And that's the truth.

user9876543211 · 08/03/2025 21:40

SinnerBoy · 08/03/2025 21:33

user9876543211 · Today 17:42

A bigly peace plan. The best peace plan ever.

It's the most bigliest, beautifuliest peace plan since before history began. Ya know what? A lodda people have been, ya know? Ya know what they've been saying? What they've been telling me? Mr. Lord President, Sir, this is the most beautiful, the most perfect peace plan ever!

And that's the truth.

I think you might have forgot the tears in their eyes? They always have tears in their eyes. Even though they're the biggest, strongest, machoest men. They're moved beyond control by his greatness.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 08/03/2025 21:55

Papyrophile · 08/03/2025 20:46

I suspect a peace deal is not part of the package. Sign away any mining rights to Trump enterprise, and cede most of your territory to Putin. Go away and find happiness herding goats. Peace is a good thing @Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr but only if it is based on a balance that the combatants can accept as fair.

So far, the argument is not convincing me, and I am not Ukrainian.

Have you @ed the wrong person? I don't disagree with you that peace is preferable but not at any cost.

I was asking the poster @aliceinawonderland to provide of source for their claim that Zelenskyy does not have the support of his own government. Because it appears to me that it is more disinformation being spread in an attempt to discourage support for Zelenskyy.

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SinnerBoy · 08/03/2025 22:30

user9876543211 · Today 21:40

Yeah, but ya know what? When I was telling that beautiful story, the most beautiful story - and I did have tears in my eyes - I was, ya know this? I was firing 59 Mexican maids an having the deported to Guatemala. I'm a busy guy, ya know? I'm busy making Senor Putin happy, it's lodda work, but it's perfect, it's covfefe beautiful, ya know?

And ya know what? I don't care, the American people don't care that I'm deporting those maids. I don't care that their parents arrived from Poland in 1826. I'm tough on illegals, good Americans love me for being tough on illegals. No damn woke liberul is gonna stop me deporting peopwith funny names, OK?

It's why I was elected with a 135% majority. Cuz everyone hates Hitlery.

aliceinawonderland · 08/03/2025 23:00

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 08/03/2025 19:52

Please provide a link backing up that the Ukrainian government has told Zelenskyy to accept a peace deal.

I haven't heard/read this anywhere.

Maybe I’m confusing the mineral deal with a peace plan… I got the impression that they were part of the same aim to bring the war to an end.

aliceinawonderland · 08/03/2025 23:05

In my opinion one can support Zelenskyy and still want the war to end, which will inevitably involve compromises.
However the panorama programme seemed to suggest that Ukraine couldn’t win at this stage.

tommyhoundmum · 09/03/2025 08:25

AthWat · 08/03/2025 20:45

It's been widely reported on Russia Today!

Ask Ros Atkins to verify this.

Yalta · 09/03/2025 09:00

Zelenski is openly snatching young men off the streets and forcing them to fight

As I have said before this is opposed to Putin, who having worked his way through his own cannon fodder he has started working his way through the young men of North Korea’s

Ukraine can never win this war. It's impossible

Nothing in war is impossible. I mean who would have thought the USA would be supporting communism and directly opposing itself against the free western world.
How would this look if Trump and Vance weren’t in office. Trump looks not quite right and Vance given his speeches I wonder if some sort of early dementia diagnosis isn’t on the cards given that he doesn’t seem to be able to remember anything and has lost the ability to do any critical thinking. He looks like a bullies side kick and without Trump I think he would be lost

I,d love to see is peace and I really don't care, and not should anyone, about land loss. It is just land

If you are saying you want peace and land is just land then why aren’t you advocating for Ukraine to take Russian land if that will bring the peace you so want

My posts are full of respect and peace. Only moms on here are furious for some inane reason. Regardless

I can only think that people are getting annoyed because you keep posting stuff that doesn’t make any sense and are full of BS (Is that you JD?)

Biased narrative sources claiming to be fact checkers are fake. Fact checking nowadays is just another source of fake news

So what you say is probably based on fake news

Yalta · 09/03/2025 09:30

I wonder if at this stage does Ukraine really want America’s “help” to protect Ukraine citizens given they are siding with the invaders

SinnerBoy · 09/03/2025 09:52

Nothing in war is impossible. I mean who would have thought the USA would be supporting communism and directly opposing itself against the free western world.

I mostly agree with that, but Communism? Russia's a Wild West capitalist country.

Ipresumecantrecall · 09/03/2025 09:55

@Yalta I have wondered the same, Ukrainians are a proud capable and strong people, they feel utterly betrayed by the slow and steady suffocation from Trump

I wonder why Zelenskyy will not be staying on for the US talks in Saudi Arabia

user9876543211 · 09/03/2025 10:03

SinnerBoy · 09/03/2025 09:52

Nothing in war is impossible. I mean who would have thought the USA would be supporting communism and directly opposing itself against the free western world.

I mostly agree with that, but Communism? Russia's a Wild West capitalist country.

I think it's more that the USA is supporting strongman authoritarian regimes with rigged elections without being particularly fussy as to the specifics of their political and economic philosophies and practices, with an extra star added for a kleptocracy.

PerkingFaintly · 09/03/2025 10:19

Yes Russia is in no way communist.

It's authoritarian, undemocratic and with almost 100% control of the information environment – but sadly this is a game which can be played by capitalists just as well as communists.

EasternStandard · 09/03/2025 10:28

Yalta · 09/03/2025 09:30

I wonder if at this stage does Ukraine really want America’s “help” to protect Ukraine citizens given they are siding with the invaders

@Yalta do you think Ukraine will just keep fighting without US help? And no deal

aliceinawonderland · 09/03/2025 11:12

@Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

At no point did I say that Zelenskyy didn't have the support of his government

What I said was that senior Ukrainian officials had advised him to sign the minerals deal

I only read the BBC news articles or The Times so it must have come from one of those sources

But please don't put words into my mouth. Your bullying tactics are as bad as Trump's! No one is allowed to have any opinion other than the war should continue.

Anyone who thinks enough young lives have been sacrificed in a war of attrition seems to you to be a putin or a trump supporter.

Surely this is important enough to warrant discussion as opposed to being shut down!

Notonthestairs · 09/03/2025 11:32

Have I missed a peace plan?

Russia doesn't appear to be offering anything.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 09/03/2025 11:45

aliceinawonderland · 09/03/2025 11:12

@Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

At no point did I say that Zelenskyy didn't have the support of his government

What I said was that senior Ukrainian officials had advised him to sign the minerals deal

I only read the BBC news articles or The Times so it must have come from one of those sources

But please don't put words into my mouth. Your bullying tactics are as bad as Trump's! No one is allowed to have any opinion other than the war should continue.

Anyone who thinks enough young lives have been sacrificed in a war of attrition seems to you to be a putin or a trump supporter.

Surely this is important enough to warrant discussion as opposed to being shut down!

@aliceinawonderland I'm not bullying you or trying to shut you down. I also think the war needs to stop but not by just appeasing Russia in the way Trump is suggesting (i.e. let Russia keep the land it has invaded). That is not a solution as it rewards Russia for its illegal invasion and emboldens Putin to go further.

You must be aware of all the disinformation on this thread and when you posted your comment about Zelenskyy, his government and the "peace deal", I was asking for your source. Since I asked, I see that you have changed your statement to "minerals deal" rather than "peace deal", which significantly changes the meaning. My understanding is that no overall peace deal (which guarantees Ukraine's future security) has been proposed, and so of course Zelenskyy has not agreed to one. But he has said he would agree to a minerals deal IF it is part of a peace deal backed by security guarantees.

I think we are broadly of the same opinion here and have just misunderstood each other somewhat 😊

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EasternStandard · 09/03/2025 11:59

But he has said he would agree to a minerals deal IF it is part of a peace deal backed by security guarantees.

Do you mean he won't sign without this?

BIossomtoes · 09/03/2025 12:01

EasternStandard · 09/03/2025 11:59

But he has said he would agree to a minerals deal IF it is part of a peace deal backed by security guarantees.

Do you mean he won't sign without this?

Obviously. Why would he?

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