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AIBU to be utterly horrified that the US has cut off military aid to Ukraine?

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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:20

I was hoping that it was mostly just bluster from Trump. But we've woken up to the news that he has actually done it. He's literally swapped sides in the war and is now standing with the aggressor, Russia, and abandoning the victim, Ukraine.

At least some Americans are speaking out against the decision:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A8510a9e0-ea40-4895-835d-bb747d6b0339#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A43d2db68-32ae-47f3-a550-8a5bd491beb9#post

Ukraine war latest: US pauses military aid to Ukraine as EU chief says Europe is 'ready to step up'

Meanwhile, Russia says Donald Trump's move is "the best contribution to the cause of peace".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

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sleepwouldbenice · 05/03/2025 21:04

Life experience

I am not going to argue with you about the numbers ok. I am in finance ffs. Just send me the link to the independent source that backs up his figures. A load of waffle doesn't cut it

justasking111 · 05/03/2025 21:18

Meloni has said she won't send Italian soldiers to the Ukraine.

DuncinToffee · 05/03/2025 21:44

Multiple reports of Russian missiles pouring into Ukraine tonight, targeting civilians.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/03/2025 22:19

DuncinToffee · 05/03/2025 21:44

Multiple reports of Russian missiles pouring into Ukraine tonight, targeting civilians.

Where on earth is this coming from DuncinToffee? I've looked at various reputable news sites and can see nothing

Please don't tell me it's Twitter ... please?? Confused

Mrspenfold123 · 05/03/2025 22:22

Hard to know what’s going on behind the scenes but simply taking Trump at face value isn’t inconsistent with what he’s done.

  1. He says he wants to end the war.
  2. He says he thinks continuing fighting is a waste of money and won’t achieve anything while risking nuclear escalation.
  3. He wants to pry Russia away from partnering with China.
  4. He wants to exploit Arctic oil and gas reserves and needs Russia’s agreement.
  5. He doesn’t much care about the means - just the ends.
Personally I don’t think what he’s done makes him a Russian asset and for 40 mins last Friday Trump was all about the minerals deal, which he sees as a smart way of dissuading Russian aggression without formally committing to a defense agreement which he knows is beyond Putin’s red line. He might be wrong to trust Putin and he might be turning the US into an Oligarchy, but I think the above is a better read on what’s going on than him being a Russian asset.
DuncinToffee · 05/03/2025 22:33

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/03/2025 22:19

Where on earth is this coming from DuncinToffee? I've looked at various reputable news sites and can see nothing

Please don't tell me it's Twitter ... please?? Confused

This one of the news sources

https://kyivindependent.com/russian-missile-attack-on-hotel-in-kryvyi-rih-kills-2-injures-7/

CaptainRosy · 05/03/2025 22:38

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wholettheturnipsburn · 05/03/2025 23:06

Crakajak · 05/03/2025 19:13

Murder weapons no less. Any way this war can be stopped and people stop being killed is good. Zelenski is a fraudster and a criminal. If any here want to continue the war maybe se d your own kids to their front line. WAR IS NOT NICE. ITS BLOOD GUTS AND LOSS. NOT ROMANTIC LIKE THE FILMS.

Why are you spreading lies?

If Zelensky is a criminal where is the evidence

wholettheturnipsburn · 05/03/2025 23:09

pebbles8811 · 05/03/2025 18:45

I’m sorry I don’t blame trump for stopping funds to Ukraine and wish stamer would stop also, our country’s went to absolute shit the amount of people struggling to feed themselves and their kids aswell as heat and house themselves but yeah let’s throw BILLIONS of pounds at a fucking war we’re not even fighting. That money could be spent on wage rises, the nhs, better education in schools amongst other things but no most of you are happy were funding this. Also where’s all the news coverage it pisses me off that when this all kicked off it was thrown in our faces morning noon and night but now we hear nothing about it except Zelensky needs more money. Away tae fuck he wants to fight let him fight it without our country’s money our country has suffered enough without funding this nonsense

You sound lovely

Crakajak · 06/03/2025 01:18

Zelenski is a failed actor clown comic and is trying to play big man on the world stage. He is a dictator and a monster. When he goes there can be peace. Trump ain't buying his BS.

Crakajak · 06/03/2025 01:20

Do some research on his extermination of political rivals. Press gangs on Kiev streets. JOURNALISTS BEING MURDERED. ENDLESS LISTS.

rainydaysandrainbows · 06/03/2025 01:21

@Crakajak

Why are you spreading false information?

Zelenskyy was democratically elected. Why are you not calling Putin a dictator?

There could be peace tomorrow if Putin stopped Russia's invasion.

PerkingFaintly · 06/03/2025 01:23

JOURNALISTS BEING MURDERED.

That's Russia.

Although the Russian invaders have also murdered journalists in Ukraine. IIRC, in addition to carpet bombing and flattening eg the theatre with children sheltering in the basement, the Russians had lists of people to target personally as they rolled in, and journalists were high on those lists.

PerkingFaintly · 06/03/2025 01:27

Sadly Tatiana Kulyk was killed just a few days ago. The Russian drone targeted her home.

www.nuj.org.uk/resource/ukraine-journalist-tatiana-kulyk-killed-by-russian-drone.html

PerkingFaintly · 06/03/2025 01:28

Do some research on his extermination of political rivals.

Yeah, that's Putin as well.

Did you think we hadn't noticed?

Cariadm · 06/03/2025 01:53

Elissaisnotmyname · 05/03/2025 18:31

It’s not fake he has several homes abroad. Perhaps not as expensive as I said but a few holiday homes

It might have escaped your notice but previously to being President he was a very successful HIGHLY paid TV personality and entertainer so it's certainly not beyond the realms of possibility that he might have 'expensive' holiday homes in countries other than the Ukraine? 🙄Maybe do a little research and apply some actual common sense before you start slinging mud around about a man with more responsibility, worry, doubt and heartache for his fellow countrymen atm that none of us would want to swap places with? FFS!! 😡

Elissaisnotmyname · 06/03/2025 02:27

justasking111 · 05/03/2025 21:18

Meloni has said she won't send Italian soldiers to the Ukraine.

Someone else who doesn’t want to help the Ukraine. Not all countries want to get involved in this war

Elissaisnotmyname · 06/03/2025 02:30

Cariadm · 06/03/2025 01:53

It might have escaped your notice but previously to being President he was a very successful HIGHLY paid TV personality and entertainer so it's certainly not beyond the realms of possibility that he might have 'expensive' holiday homes in countries other than the Ukraine? 🙄Maybe do a little research and apply some actual common sense before you start slinging mud around about a man with more responsibility, worry, doubt and heartache for his fellow countrymen atm that none of us would want to swap places with? FFS!! 😡

You do your research, he is not as squeaky clean as he makes out. Our money should be spent at home on the NHS, pensioners, education and also the government are now making cuts to welfare. Charity begins at home imo

pebbles8811 · 06/03/2025 06:06

@wholettheturnipsburn I am a lovely person I just don’t think we should have to keep paying. Answer me this when does it stop? Right now it’s we need more money then it’s we need more soldiers and before we know it our kids will be made to sign their life away to fight a war that’s duck all to do with them. Enough is enough. I am by no means a Trump supporter but he’s got a point. We see Zelenskyy flying round the world get out there and fight with your boys and men on the front line instead of running around asking for handouts and doing vogue photoshoots

Darker · 06/03/2025 06:58

Crakajak · 06/03/2025 01:18

Zelenski is a failed actor clown comic and is trying to play big man on the world stage. He is a dictator and a monster. When he goes there can be peace. Trump ain't buying his BS.

DARVO

wholettheturnipsburn · 06/03/2025 07:32

Crakajak · 06/03/2025 01:20

Do some research on his extermination of political rivals. Press gangs on Kiev streets. JOURNALISTS BEING MURDERED. ENDLESS LISTS.

The list isn't endless. How ridiculous.

And if you're talking about the red pill "sex coach" that drank and smoked himself to death well, frankly, get a grip

wholettheturnipsburn · 06/03/2025 07:34

pebbles8811 · 06/03/2025 06:06

@wholettheturnipsburn I am a lovely person I just don’t think we should have to keep paying. Answer me this when does it stop? Right now it’s we need more money then it’s we need more soldiers and before we know it our kids will be made to sign their life away to fight a war that’s duck all to do with them. Enough is enough. I am by no means a Trump supporter but he’s got a point. We see Zelenskyy flying round the world get out there and fight with your boys and men on the front line instead of running around asking for handouts and doing vogue photoshoots

How absolutely bonkers.

Zelensky is a president. He's being doing the job of a president.

All this "go to the front" bollocks is so immature.

Petuniaspetal · 06/03/2025 07:56

Elissaisnotmyname · 06/03/2025 02:30

You do your research, he is not as squeaky clean as he makes out. Our money should be spent at home on the NHS, pensioners, education and also the government are now making cuts to welfare. Charity begins at home imo

Show us your research. Comparable to putin no matter what he has done he is a pussycat. I know who I would prefer. Navalny, Litvenenko, the Salisbury poisonings as a quick reminder about Putin.

CatMummyOf3 · 06/03/2025 07:59

Zebedee999 · 04/03/2025 15:30

I suspect that the USA will remove a lot of the bases you are referring to. They are in $36trillion of debt and can no longer to fund Europe's defence (including Ukraine). Trump is forcing the Europeans to up their defence budgets and look after themselves.

I'm British by the way, seeing lots of xenophobic American haters piling in on this thread.

It's not 'xenophopic American haters', it's disgust at Trump and his cult-like followers you are seeing.

There are many rational, intelligent Americans (who are equally disgusted by the orange buffoon), but very few left in a position to challenge Putin's puppet.

Psychostates · 06/03/2025 08:09

Darker · 06/03/2025 06:58

DARVO

"Personality measures suggest Donald Trump exerts a cult of personality over his followers, people who are psychologically susceptible to his appeal. This could help explain how he has succeeded in U.S. politics while other populists have not."

@Darker I suspect the above quote would explain posters like the one you referenced. They're weak minded, and easily brainwashed; narcissistical Trump prays on this. It is alarming to see how many are unable to think for themselves, nevermind having one ounce of humility.

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