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Angela Rayner’s glottal stops are infuriating

353 replies

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 08:50

AIBU to be so irritated by the deputy PM’s lazy speech? I was listening to her being interviewed this morning and I was distracted by her Bri-ish/righ-/wai-ed. I googled her and apparently when asking a question about the lockdown parties she said ‘Was you there or not?’
Why does it anger me so much? It is not her accent. I am northern but I don’t drop my t’s and I know when to use was and were.
Her lazy speech distracts from the content. I have my theories but I would love to hear other people’s opinions.

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CleverButScatty · 04/03/2025 23:21

Coffeeishot · 04/03/2025 19:51

I actually thinks she manages just fine.

The pp is confusing 'speaks with a particular accent' and being intelligent and well educated.
Edit as I accidentally replied to a reply!

TheAmusedQuail · 04/03/2025 23:23

hairbearbunches · 04/03/2025 11:44

@TheAmusedQuail Elocution lessons shouldn't be a requirement for public life. And if they are, it's as a result of the class bound society we live in.

You make an interesting point there but I still think there should be a minimum standard for speaking in public life. If I'm being lazy - and it is laziness - I will sometimes speak very differently when on the phone to my mother but I would no more stand at a lectern and say "am gunner" as opposed to "I am going to" than I would deliver a speech with my tits out. There is no point in having an English language if we can't adhere to minimum standards in public speech. Blair's cabinet had a lot of heavy weight Northerners. Prescott was mentioned further up the thread. I never heard him drop a single H in public. He didn't declare himself MP for 'Ull.

Who sets the standard? I don't need to sound like an Eton educated public school boy or the Queen. My own speech is fine.

As is Angela's.

CleverButScatty · 04/03/2025 23:29

TheAmusedQuail · 04/03/2025 23:23

Who sets the standard? I don't need to sound like an Eton educated public school boy or the Queen. My own speech is fine.

As is Angela's.

Also, this is the discriminatory element...
It takes extra effort to speak and eradicate all features of your natural accent.
However if that is the accent you grew up with that is the easiest accent for you to use.
It's interesting how we project ideas around 'laziness' and 'effort' in this way, to the benefit of those with privileged backgrounds.
It would take just as much effort to adopt a Scouse, or Georgie accent as it is for those with a northern accent to adopt one closer to RP.
But that doesn't have the social capital so they aren't expected to try.
The conflation of class and intelligence is so entrenched in the UK.

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 04/03/2025 23:31

hairbearbunches · 04/03/2025 10:31

No! You don't say would of, it doesn't make sense for a start. You might say would've but that's not would of. If you say would of, you're likely to write would of because you don't know the difference. No-one with an ounce of intelligence says would of, because it doesn't mean anything. It's basic comprehension.

There isn't "one size fits all" Northern woman with the same accent, for goodness sake.

Agreed, but there is only one way of saying 'you were' and would have/would've'.

*You might say would've but that's not would of. If you say would of, you're likely to write would of because you don't know the difference

😂
Biscuit

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 04/03/2025 23:34

Beetlebumz · 04/03/2025 10:37

God you sound a snob. Newsflash-not everyone in this world speaks in the same way you do, and not everyone was raised in the area you were. Horrible post.

Well said.
Some complete ignorance about accents on here, including some from who claim to be Northern but don't seem to have a clue or comprehend there are dozens of different Northern accents.

PickAChew · 04/03/2025 23:36

letsallchant · 04/03/2025 08:53

I can't get worked up about it. Boris Johnson had a very different but also distinctive style of speaking. For me it was the constant lying rather than the sound of him that was the real issue.

Most of it not even recognisable English, in Johnson's case.

ExitPursuedByABare · 04/03/2025 23:48

I’m from just up the road from Ange. As many have said, it’s the grammar not the accent. Someone mentioned Mr Hoyle. He has a stonker of an accent but his grammar and pronunciation are fabulous. As is Ange’s hair.

ScupperedbytheSea · 05/03/2025 06:58

DollydaydreamTheThird · 04/03/2025 21:32

It's colloquialism. Also a northerner. Lots of areas have these colloquialisms. I always say 'should of' instead of 'should have' when speaking as that's how people talk in my area. I would never write 'should of' in an email as I know it is grammatically incorrect.
A working class women has got to deputy prime minister and all other women can do is try to drag her back down again. I'm sarcastically slow clapping you all. 👏you massive bunch of misogynistic bastards!

Absolutely this.

I'm from the South, yet at times I speak colloquially, especially when I'm keen to get an idea across/excited/have had a drink.

I've been picked up on it in the past, particularly when I've worked in traditionally 'posher' sectors.

It's nasty, unacceptable snobbery, designed to keep the nasty commoners down. And to reinforce the idea that those who talk 'proper' are somehow better, even when they're chatting absolute shite.

Fairyliz · 05/03/2025 07:13

thepariscrimefiles · 04/03/2025 09:36

I agree. Angela Rayner was brought up in home with a mother who couldn't read. She had a bath once a week at her grandmother's house. I doubt that there was money for elecution lessons.

Her trajectory from neglected child on free school meals to Deputy Prime Minister with no leg ups or hand outs is amazing, whatever you think of her politics.

But she has a leg-up/support from the unions and now they own her. It feels a bit like the mafia; can you walk away and do your own thing?
It makes me feel like she doesn’t always have the best interests of the country at heart, just her union bosses.

thepariscrimefiles · 05/03/2025 07:29

Arraminta · 04/03/2025 19:51

No, because they are idiots. But, yes I think she would be intellectually out of her depth when conversing with politicians who attended Yale, Harvard and Oxbridge etc.

She's been head to head with Oliver Dowden (studied law at Cambridge) at PMQs quite a few times and definitely held her own. He struggled against her.

thepariscrimefiles · 05/03/2025 07:40

Fairyliz · 05/03/2025 07:13

But she has a leg-up/support from the unions and now they own her. It feels a bit like the mafia; can you walk away and do your own thing?
It makes me feel like she doesn’t always have the best interests of the country at heart, just her union bosses.

This sounds like something from the 1970's. Lots of Labour MPs have a union background and are passionate about workers' rights. The workers' rights bill is pretty much the only thing this government has done so far that is properly Labour and will help millions of working people.

Did the Tories have the best interests of the country at heart when they were giving out massive lucrative PPE contracts to their mates via the VIP lane, e.g. Michelle Mone, during Covid? PPE that turned out to be completely useless and cost money in storage and destruction?

Leeto888 · 05/03/2025 07:45

I’m a northerner with an accent. I’m one of those people who can’t do other accents to save my life so the accent I developed as a child is the accent I will have all my life.
I have experienced so many comments about my accent and at times it has really affected my confidence. With a decent educational and professional record and now I’m older it bothers me less than it did but I know there have been many times I haven’t spoken because I have been worried about how I sound compared to other people. Recently I did a Q&A as a panel member and often at these things audience members want to speak with you afterwards. A woman approached me and the first thing she did was mimic my accent. If you knew how insulting it is to comment on people’s accents and how it can destroy someone’s self confidence, I’d like to think you would stop.
Angela Rayner is awesome as far as I’m concerned.

SuddenFrisson · 05/03/2025 07:45

Fairyliz · 05/03/2025 07:13

But she has a leg-up/support from the unions and now they own her. It feels a bit like the mafia; can you walk away and do your own thing?
It makes me feel like she doesn’t always have the best interests of the country at heart, just her union bosses.

Can you ‘walk away and do your own thing’ if you’re a Tory enmeshed in the old boy network and a firm scoundrel of the Establishment? Though I suppose that would imply that your ‘own thing’ involved anything other than preserving a status quo that props up the privilege of your caste.

SuddenFrisson · 05/03/2025 07:46

SuddenFrisson · 05/03/2025 07:45

Can you ‘walk away and do your own thing’ if you’re a Tory enmeshed in the old boy network and a firm scoundrel of the Establishment? Though I suppose that would imply that your ‘own thing’ involved anything other than preserving a status quo that props up the privilege of your caste.

’Scoundrel’ is actually a typo for ‘scion’, but not inappropriate.

Leeto888 · 05/03/2025 07:50

The odious Michael Fabricant interrupted a Scottish MP mid speech in Parliament wanting him to ‘speak in English.’ It seems some of you would like a return to this sort of behaviour.

Paganpentacle · 05/03/2025 08:14

MyUmberSeal · 04/03/2025 08:55

I’m with you OP, I can’t stand to listen to her talk.

Dont move up north then.

Serpentstooth · 05/03/2025 08:20

The content is more important than the delivery so, no, I'm not infuriated by Ms Rayner's pronunciation. And I strongly suspect that it's just a small part of what you find most annoying about her. Isn't it?

DollydaydreamTheThird · 05/03/2025 08:39

ScupperedbytheSea · 05/03/2025 06:58

Absolutely this.

I'm from the South, yet at times I speak colloquially, especially when I'm keen to get an idea across/excited/have had a drink.

I've been picked up on it in the past, particularly when I've worked in traditionally 'posher' sectors.

It's nasty, unacceptable snobbery, designed to keep the nasty commoners down. And to reinforce the idea that those who talk 'proper' are somehow better, even when they're chatting absolute shite.

Here, here @ScupperedbytheSea. The area I live in has been invaded by posh media types and I openly overheard two mums discussing how horrified they were that dearest Tarquin has started speaking with our local accent because the nursery team that look after him all day speak like that. Piss off back home then if you don't like it. 😂I was raging but bit my tongue. This was when my youngest was starting school nursery a few years ago. I did not want to be that mum that they all bitch about. I just keep my head down and seek out the non-snobs now. 😊

Arraminta · 05/03/2025 11:04

CleverButScatty · 04/03/2025 23:21

The pp is confusing 'speaks with a particular accent' and being intelligent and well educated.
Edit as I accidentally replied to a reply!

Edited

If I'm the PP you mean, then I certainly don't conflate having a cut crystal accent with being intelligent/educated. I don't speak with RP and have a faint Midlands accent, I think? But I enunciate clearly and my spoken grammar is perfect.

Mydadsbirthday · 05/03/2025 14:43

Barney16 · 04/03/2025 09:19

It wasn't her accent that was irritating it was not answering the questions. Mind you I did feel sorry for her, oh just pop onto Radio 4 Angela and talk about employment law. Oh hang on Trump has just paused all aid to Ukraine, in all likelihood sealing the fate of Ukraine and the western works? Don't worry Angela, just style it out, you'll be fine.

Isn't this just emphasising the point? She's over promoted and under qualified. I don't care about her accent. She's just not very good and doesn't come across as very bright. And she doesn't have what it takes to answer those questions on radio 4.

BIossomtoes · 05/03/2025 14:58

Mydadsbirthday · 05/03/2025 14:43

Isn't this just emphasising the point? She's over promoted and under qualified. I don't care about her accent. She's just not very good and doesn't come across as very bright. And she doesn't have what it takes to answer those questions on radio 4.

Not answering those questions was diplomacy not inability.

Coffeeishot · 05/03/2025 15:09

Mydadsbirthday · 05/03/2025 14:43

Isn't this just emphasising the point? She's over promoted and under qualified. I don't care about her accent. She's just not very good and doesn't come across as very bright. And she doesn't have what it takes to answer those questions on radio 4.

🙄

CleverButScatty · 05/03/2025 17:03

Arraminta · 05/03/2025 11:04

If I'm the PP you mean, then I certainly don't conflate having a cut crystal accent with being intelligent/educated. I don't speak with RP and have a faint Midlands accent, I think? But I enunciate clearly and my spoken grammar is perfect.

Your enunciation and spoken grammar has no bearing on your intelligence or ability to do your job.
Using regional dialectal grammar, or producing speech sounds with a regional accent bear no relation to your cognitive abilities.

Arraminta · 05/03/2025 17:34

CleverButScatty · 05/03/2025 17:03

Your enunciation and spoken grammar has no bearing on your intelligence or ability to do your job.
Using regional dialectal grammar, or producing speech sounds with a regional accent bear no relation to your cognitive abilities.

Er, yes, that's what I said. I've already said I'm not bothered by her accent. But having seen AR interviewed many times she isn't articulate and certainly doesn't make me think she's quick witted, or especially intelligent? And we already know that she isn't educated beyond leaving school at 16.

I don't conflate being intelligent with being well educated either. But the fact is, the vast majority of elite politicians will be both intelligent and very well educated at some of the best universities in the world.

And, hats off to AR for getting this far. But I will never believe that she can hold her own, intellectually, with the above.

BIossomtoes · 05/03/2025 17:36

You don’t need to believe it. She can and that’s all that matters. 🤷‍♀️