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Angela Rayner’s glottal stops are infuriating

353 replies

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 08:50

AIBU to be so irritated by the deputy PM’s lazy speech? I was listening to her being interviewed this morning and I was distracted by her Bri-ish/righ-/wai-ed. I googled her and apparently when asking a question about the lockdown parties she said ‘Was you there or not?’
Why does it anger me so much? It is not her accent. I am northern but I don’t drop my t’s and I know when to use was and were.
Her lazy speech distracts from the content. I have my theories but I would love to hear other people’s opinions.

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joose · 04/03/2025 09:00

OP, can I introduce you to this hilarious comedian:

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ThatOtherAustenSister · 04/03/2025 09:01

SuddenFrisson · 04/03/2025 08:58

Exactly. It sounds to me as if you’re being a crashing snob, OP. She grew up in poverty with a mother with serious MH issues, and left school pregnant at 16, and worked her way into politics via being a trade union rep. I assume she speaks the way she’s always spoken, with a WC regional accent. It would be far stranger if she codeswitched to RP since becoming an MP.

It's totally possible to have that background and still be RP!

Being poor is not synonymous with dropping your Ts.

I think she's chosen to keep her accent and even emphasise it as some kind of solidarity with The Workers.

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 04/03/2025 09:01

SuddenFrisson · 04/03/2025 08:59

It’s hardly a new thing!

As a Northerner, I object!

Upstartled · 04/03/2025 09:02

The way politicians speak can get under your skin. Priti Patel's 'pleecin' drives me crazy. Michael Howard's 'pee-ople'. And Brown's dropped jaw.

I don't mind Rayner, though

SuddenFrisson · 04/03/2025 09:02

Namerchangee · 04/03/2025 09:00

I can’t stand people misusing ‘was’ and ‘were’. My MIL does it all the time, for example, ‘you was there wasn’t you?’ Speaking like that does her a disservice - it makes her sound unintelligent.

Only if you think quite ordinary facets of a WC regional accent make you sound ‘unintelligent’. I feel sure people thought that when I arrived at Oxford, but it wore off quickly enough when I got to work.

gannett · 04/03/2025 09:02

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TheMorels · 04/03/2025 09:02

I can’t bear the way she speaks. Her grammar is atrocious. But, it’s the way she speaks, so there’s not much she can do about it now.

Lou7171 · 04/03/2025 09:03

It's her accent and how/where she grew up. I find it really refreshing that she doesn't try to change her accent to fit in. I really admire her actually.

Legodaisy · 04/03/2025 09:04

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ThatOtherAustenSister · 04/03/2025 09:05

There are many people in the public eye who retain their accents as part of their persona.

I can think of a few off the top of my head- Ant and Dec, Robson Green, Sarah Millican...

It's actually quite hard to maintain a strong accent from the north if you move south or work with people who don't the same strong accent.

scorpiogirly · 04/03/2025 09:06

I have no idea how anyone as illiterate as her can be in any position of power.

ThatOtherAustenSister · 04/03/2025 09:06

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Wow.

So you don't agree that some accents grate and can be rather tiresome.
It's not really sensible to call someone an idiot just because they find some accents hard to understand or even grating.

ExpressCheckout · 04/03/2025 09:06

Northerner here.

Well, the irony is that some politicians deliberately used a glottal stop to appear more 'with the people', e.g. Tony Blair.

I don't agree with her politics, but Rayner has worked hard to get where she is today - no Oxford PPE, not from SE England, etc.

This said ... Mayor Khan's diction, I find him very hard to understand - it's not his accent, I'm very used to - and I like - British Asian accents from North and South - it's something to do with his diction.

ThatOtherAustenSister · 04/03/2025 09:07

scorpiogirly · 04/03/2025 09:06

I have no idea how anyone as illiterate as her can be in any position of power.

Not a single qualification to her name except sign language I think.

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 09:07

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 04/03/2025 08:57

Wow! Is being Northernist a thing now?

No, it isn’t ‘a thing.’ Why would it be? But when Angela Rayner has been criticised for her sloppy speech she has come back with ‘I’m a northerner and I say it as it is’ kind of responses. I was saying ‘ So am I but I know when to use was/were…’

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pointythings · 04/03/2025 09:07

The problem you have, OP, is that you think some ways of speaking are better than others. That is called snobbery. So maybe stop being a snob.

daisypetula · 04/03/2025 09:08

Can the Tories not manage a proper argument that isn't discriminatory?

echt · 04/03/2025 09:08

scorpiogirly · 04/03/2025 09:06

I have no idea how anyone as illiterate as her can be in any position of power.

How is she illiterate?

Do tell. Examples would help.

ThatOtherAustenSister · 04/03/2025 09:09

ExpressCheckout · 04/03/2025 09:06

Northerner here.

Well, the irony is that some politicians deliberately used a glottal stop to appear more 'with the people', e.g. Tony Blair.

I don't agree with her politics, but Rayner has worked hard to get where she is today - no Oxford PPE, not from SE England, etc.

This said ... Mayor Khan's diction, I find him very hard to understand - it's not his accent, I'm very used to - and I like - British Asian accents from North and South - it's something to do with his diction.

I don't think she has worked hard at all.

She has a 'voice' which is what most politicians have- the gift of the gab that goes down well .

She worked her way up using her 'gift of the gab' through unions.
She's like an over promoted shop steward.

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 09:10

BallerinaRadio · 04/03/2025 08:52

What's your theory?

I don't think she sounds be changing how she speaks, that's just something natural. If she put a 'posh' voice she'd be crucified for being fake.

Judge her on actions not how she speaks

You’re right. I don’t know why I find it so irritating. That’s why I think I BU.

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cramptramp · 04/03/2025 09:10

It's not her accent that annoys me, it's her grammar. It makes her sound thick, which she's obviously not.

CurlewKate · 04/03/2025 09:11

@Ilovecleaning
"Why does it anger me so much?"

I could tell you-but I'd probably get deleted.

JimHalpertsWife · 04/03/2025 09:12

Imagine being a working class northern girl / young woman interested in politics and finally someone comes along who looks and sounds like you, in a senior position. Representation matters.

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 09:12

Heronwatcher · 04/03/2025 08:55

I think unless you think she’s doing it on purpose as some kind of grifting YABU. You’ve got an unconscious bias that only people who have RP speech patterns can be credible. It’s a you problem.

Criticising speech patterns which people have grown up with them, or people’s accents in particular is a form of micro aggression, basically to make poor people feel that they don’t belong. I have a bit more sympathy where the words are actually wrong or you can’t actually understand what’s being said but that’s not the case with Angela Raynor.

Plus we have historically low voter turnout, don’t you think it’s a good thing that people can listen to her and feel that she represents someone other than a bloke from Dorking in the 1940s?

I definitely don’t think only RP speakers deserve to be listened to. I’d have to be an idiot to think that.

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Coffeeishot · 04/03/2025 09:13

It's just her accent isn't it ? But some mumsnetters hate Angela Rayner for being working class and northern ! "They " think she's common.