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To think Britain should have nothing to do with this war

594 replies

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 12:54

After yesterday's news, Britain shouldn't be the one funding war as USA has said they are out now. There's no chance Britain can fight this war alone with Ukraine against Russia.
Since this war started, our life has only become miserable with CoL increase.
AIBU to think we shouldn't have anything to do this war and we should fix our own problems first before giving away our tax money?

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kattaduck · 01/03/2025 21:38

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 21:28

USA hasn't built mighty army by borrowing money from others

Huh?
The United States has the largest external debt in the world. The total amount of U.S. Treasury securities held by foreign entities in December 2021 was $7.7 trillion, up from $7.1 trillion in December 2020.Total US federal government debt breached the $30 trillion mark for the first time in history in February 2022.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_debt_of_the_United_States

And the US has voted time and time against Universal healthcare so don't blame that on Europe. Their citizens rightly or wrongly don't want to pay for it.

StoneofDestiny · 01/03/2025 21:38

Reform is currently topping the UK polls. They will gain popularity with or without Russia’s (apparent) backing

The UK has too many fools then. Farage has spent more time sucking up to Trump than he has in Parliament and in his constituency. Does anybody seriously think Farage cares two figs about Clacton-on-Sea and imagine he has done anything to improve the lives of people there? Farage was aiming for a job in Trumps administration and then Musk burned his butt. Farage is on record as admiring Putin for gawds sake, not to mention their role in inciting street riots and discontent.

HelplessSoul · 01/03/2025 21:39

kattaduck · 01/03/2025 21:24

Who's the liar?
And why wouldn't Ukraine help the UK?
Do you have any sources for this?
There have been clear lies on this thread, not opinions. Zelensky hasn't started the war and is not a dictator that is just as factually untrue as the sky being green.
So why would somebody peddle this unless they are a Russian bot?
What is your answer to this?

Best for me to take a step back and bow out I think.

As I said before, MNHQ can attest I am not a "bot", AI or any other such thing.

Very clear that the very people lambasting Trump/JDV for their position and being loud etc, are doing the very same thing here on this discussion because other people have a different view to theirs.

Pot, meet kettle.

Yet none of you Zelensky supporters will put any of your loved ones on the front line. Pure keyboard warriors only.

TwinklyPearlPoster · 01/03/2025 21:39

ExIssues · 01/03/2025 21:12

But don't you see that the fate of the British people is unavoidably linked to what happens to Ukraine? No one is helping them out of the goodness of their heart. It's purely selfish. Russia is a threat to the UK too. Look at Reform - which is a Russian backed populist right wing party.

But don't you see that the fate of the British people is unavoidably linked to what happens to Ukraine?

If this was true we would have helped them in 2014 when Crimea was annexed.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 01/03/2025 21:39

BIossomtoes · 01/03/2025 21:22

You’re posting crap on a public forum - what’s that if not freedom of speech?

Well said blossom

Petricia · 01/03/2025 21:42

The trouble is, OP, that Russia will not stop at Ukraine.

Russia justifies what it is doing by saying that Ukraine was historically part of Russia.

On this basis Russia may also help itself to Latvia, Estonian, Lithuania, Finland and parts of Poland, all of which are in the EU and were once part of the Russian Empire and/or Soviet Union.

Even Alaska might be next.

Trump has shown he’s only up for whatever the USA can get out of it and that he isn’t interested in defending Europe.

He’s even displayed Russia-like tendencies in saying he wants to grab Greenland and Canada.

Remember, even in WW1 and WW2 they only got involved (and thank goodness they did) when American interests themselves were threatened, not out of some benevolent desire to protect Europe from Hitler.

What we need to do is draw our true friends closer (the EU, Australia, Canada, New Zealand) and, regrettable though it is, up
our defence spending.

We can’t send troops to Ukraine ourselves because that really would cause WW3 but we need to give them the tools to finish the war because the USA can’t be relied on now, sadly.

Takoneko · 01/03/2025 21:42

EasternEcho · 01/03/2025 21:25

The US has the world's mightiest military force without universal healthcare. They spend most of their money on defence. Some may think it's more important that you have a secure country first, before you think of tax payer funded programs. Europe has been able to have a robust healthcare and social safety net precisely because they've relied on the US's military instead of focusing on their own. Now it's time for Europe to step up.

Nonsense. The US government spends far, far more than the U.K. government on healthcare, both in $ per person and as a % of GDP. Once you add in the costs shouldered by citizens and not covered by the government, the US system costs well over double what ours does per capita.

They haven’t prioritised spending money on defence over spending it on healthcare. They’ve chosen to spend huge amounts on healthcare in an incredibly inefficient way.

DuncinToffee · 01/03/2025 21:42

HelplessSoul · 01/03/2025 21:16

Well, @MNHQ will happily disprove your comments.

Nice try though.

Offering a different opinion isnt a crime.

I wonder if I could freely speak my mind in say, Ukraine if I declined to be a conscript for Zelenskys war?

Hmmm....

You prefer Russian style freedom of speech?

ExIssues · 01/03/2025 21:42

TwinklyPearlPoster · 01/03/2025 21:39

But don't you see that the fate of the British people is unavoidably linked to what happens to Ukraine?

If this was true we would have helped them in 2014 when Crimea was annexed.

We should have.

juldan · 01/03/2025 21:44

HelplessSoul · 01/03/2025 21:18

If you cant understand the context and relevance, I am not here to educate you.

Very clear what I wrote - its not cryptic. Thanks.

And as for Ukraine ever helping the UK - LMAO - like a promise from a liar!

No, I do not understand your weird reasoning at all.
Were you trying to say that Ukrainians are less worthy because they are not members of UE?
If so, the joke is on you- neither is UK.
Personally, I think that in your narrow minded head you misunderstood my post as to you, Europe means EU+UK. Now you are just trying to back pedal on that.

Well, I would not blame Ukrainians if they did not help you as a person, but I have a trust that they would stand up for other nations (including UK which is not in EU) if the roles were reversed.

StoneofDestiny · 01/03/2025 21:45

I wonder if I could freely speak my mind in say, Ukraine if I declined to be a conscript for Zelenskys war?

Do you think our soldiers fighting in WW1 and WW2 were all volunteers?

EasternEcho · 01/03/2025 21:45

Takoneko · 01/03/2025 21:42

Nonsense. The US government spends far, far more than the U.K. government on healthcare, both in $ per person and as a % of GDP. Once you add in the costs shouldered by citizens and not covered by the government, the US system costs well over double what ours does per capita.

They haven’t prioritised spending money on defence over spending it on healthcare. They’ve chosen to spend huge amounts on healthcare in an incredibly inefficient way.

I said universal healthcare. Read my response in the context of my response to OP's post.

SunshinDay · 01/03/2025 21:47

@HelplessSoul I agree the irony about the sheer bot madness on here v jd vance free speech!

Joystir59 · 01/03/2025 21:48

Pigwodgeon · 01/03/2025 21:15

@Foodtimeisit You are trying to simplify a very complex issue. If the uk chooses to only focus on itself, it does not mean the hostile countries just leave us alone. World politics are complicated, volutile and require very careful balancing and diplomacy. Everyone needs to choose a side. And usually countries that share similar values stick together to keep away the ideologies that we don't want to live by. The US is changing its values under Trump. It is becoming a dictatorship. Just like Russia and China. So if Europe wants to keep its democracy going, it has to stick together. Closing your eyes from massive issues, does not make them go away. Unfortunately.

Do we share values with Ukraine then? Aren't they typically very conservative, homophobic, xenophobic, religious? Not sure I share their values.

HowardTJMoon · 01/03/2025 21:48

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kattaduck · 01/03/2025 21:49

HelplessSoul · 01/03/2025 21:39

Best for me to take a step back and bow out I think.

As I said before, MNHQ can attest I am not a "bot", AI or any other such thing.

Very clear that the very people lambasting Trump/JDV for their position and being loud etc, are doing the very same thing here on this discussion because other people have a different view to theirs.

Pot, meet kettle.

Yet none of you Zelensky supporters will put any of your loved ones on the front line. Pure keyboard warriors only.

I haven't called you a bot nor have I tried to silence you. I have just asked for sources to yous ascerstion Ukraine wouldn't help the UK. If you put force an assumption you usually have sources to provide a background. At least that's what I'll do.

You said people on this thread can't be Russian bots but there has been clear misinformation. I just asked your position onthis no reason to flounce.
Running from an argument just because people don't agree with you isn't any better than what you have accused other posters of.

And unless somebody has actually physically yelled at or cut another poster of on this thread, no nobody is like Vance and Trump. That is just a fact.

BIossomtoes · 01/03/2025 21:50

ExIssues · 01/03/2025 21:35

I hope you're right but why do you think this? Farage is a very persistent character. I think the only way reform will go is if the Tories move further right or amalgamate with them. Voters are unfortunately easily led and badly educated

Farage has no stamina. How many political parties has he founded and got tired of?

Reetpetitenot · 01/03/2025 21:50

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 20:54

With the £2.6 billion loan, I hope people understand that it's never coming back and it would be a deficit which us and our children will be paying by their taxes to fill and many years to come. We are in no state to keep funding this never ending war.

That's about 4 days of spending on the NHS. Your children are not going to be paying for it for many years. Fact check your statements.

HowardTJMoon · 01/03/2025 21:50

SunshinDay · 01/03/2025 21:47

@HelplessSoul I agree the irony about the sheer bot madness on here v jd vance free speech!

Sure. The current US government is so pro free speech that it's banned the Associated Press and Reuters from the White House press conferences.

StoneofDestiny · 01/03/2025 21:51

So, anyone shouldn't be able to discuss their point of view if it's different to you? I think US needs to liberate UK first and get us our freedom of speech

Its clear from this that the UK allows people to be terminally thick as well as giving them the right to free speech

kattaduck · 01/03/2025 21:53

EasternEcho · 01/03/2025 21:45

I said universal healthcare. Read my response in the context of my response to OP's post.

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But the US does not want Universal healthcare. That's just another way of thinking nothing to do with defense spending or Europe.

Petricia · 01/03/2025 21:53

Joystir59 · 01/03/2025 21:48

Do we share values with Ukraine then? Aren't they typically very conservative, homophobic, xenophobic, religious? Not sure I share their values.

Stereotype.

Ukraine is pluralistic regarding religion.
They have both Catholics and Orthodox. Zelenskyy is Jewish so to accuse him of being a Nazi as the Russians have done is doubly offensive.

Ukraine has democratic elections and freedom of speech.

Ukraine has universal healthcare and does not have the death penalty (and hasn’t for about 30 years).

America is a country that has freedom
of speech in the extreme but also has no universal healthcare and in some
states the criminal justice system still gasses, electrocutes, shoots or poisons their prisoners. They also lock up kids for life in prison.

In many ways we have more in common with modern Ukraine than the modern USA.

Takoneko · 01/03/2025 21:54

EasternEcho · 01/03/2025 21:45

I said universal healthcare. Read my response in the context of my response to OP's post.

Edited

That still doesn’t make sense because they spend a bigger proportion of their GDP on government-funded healthcare programs than we do. The money that they have spent on defence has not come from spending less on healthcare than Europe.

MasterBeth · 01/03/2025 21:54

The OP supports appeasement to fascists.

That didn't go well before WWII and it won't go well now.

If you give in to authoritarians like Putin they will only get worse. The whole of eastern Europe is at risk. We cannot let Russia invade the Baltic states, the rest of Ukraine, even Poland.

We are involved already because we share a continent and we share a vision of democracy.

joysexreno · 01/03/2025 21:57

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 01/03/2025 13:49

This is absolutely true. But it is the Americans that have elected a bullying fuckwit as their president, so some anger with them is probably inevitable at the moment.

Of course, there will be Americans that are horrified by Trump's behaviour, but sadly, they are not very visible or vocal at the moment.

I am American. Where do you expect to hear these Americans shouting from? Republicans and billionaires now control the entire government and basically all major US news outlets. Or do you mean the Americans of Mumsnet should come here and complain?

Everyone I personally know who isn't a Trumper is being vocal, but we don't exactly have great opportunities to share our views.

Also, Trump people are very frightening and their leader has made it clear that he will condone crushing any dissenters, so it's quite terrifying. My little brother is now unwilling to talk politics on WhatsApp due to Meta's alignment. It's quickly becoming a fascist state.