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Donotpanicoknowpanic · 01/03/2025 08:04

Watching the press conference last night which descended into an argument

I can't help think Trump was right and made good points

Thousands of troops are dying and being seriously injured every month

Trump wants it to stop

There are thousands of people who have children alive today who will not be alive tomorrow because of this war

They are clearly in a stalemate and soldiers are now dying untill peace terms are made as no side can win on the battlefield

Trump as brutal as it sounds was being realistic about what peace would be like

Ukraine has to be realistic

If Ukraine sign the rare earth deal with America then America will have a stake in Ukraine and they should then get a better security deal

Trump has not agreed what that is yet, it's clear he wants the European's to form a big part of that

The European's want American troops and for good reason

But this has to stop and the only way it will stop is by peace negotiations

And these have to be realistic and Trump is saying it as it is

OP posts:
southerngirl10 · 01/03/2025 11:03

I think we need bold leaders to end this war. There has been too much destruction on both sides.

Trump and Vance come across strongly, but it's only a part of the full meeting. It doesn't give the whole picture.

Zelensky is a former comedian/actor. He and the other leaders have very good media PR. Zelensky plays the poor me/poor us role even though he's a very wealthy man and does it every time. Trump looks like he has had enough of not knowing where the billions have gone.

Also, do we really believe that Russia would have any chance of taking over Europe, when it has been held back for three years by The Ukraine, whose military rank 18th in the world? Even with aid, that's a remarkable feat.

The Russian army bears absolutely no resemblance to the German army of 1939 - that's just media hype. They would never be able to take over a country in days or weeks, as has been proved by the war in The Ukraine.

Neither side is going to back down. Strong leadership is the only way forward to stop all the unnecessary destruction.

ZebedeeDougalFlorence · 01/03/2025 11:04

Theunamedcat · 01/03/2025 11:01

Trump wants to rape the country for minerals like Afghanistan he is wrong

His desperation reveals that US is not the power it used to be. He needs to rape the rest of the world, he needs to expand the empire for living space because America is going down the toilet. The only way to Make America Great Again is through rhetoric, rape of and theft from other countries.

Serpentstooth · 01/03/2025 11:04

Trump blackmail. That 'offer' is not a 'deal', its extortion. USA overreach. You're not as bigly as you think you are, Donny. Fingers crossed you find that out soon.

CreationNat1on · 01/03/2025 11:05

It's a land grab, and Trump and the US are getting in on the deal. Like a vigilante security "mafia", tag team.

Vance is an ignorant bully, playing up to Trump like he is the Godfather.

They are ignorant. I dread to think how much damage they will unleash.

poetryandwine · 01/03/2025 11:05

ZebedeeDougalFlorence · 01/03/2025 10:59

Personally, op, I think that you are alluding to the complexity of this situation, which I kind of agree with. I am hard pressed to understand how this war started and who was the "aggressor". Putin stated specific terms and Zelensky refused them and a war began. But did Putin's terms involve the opportunity to expand the Russian empire or were they a bid for security? I don't know.

You can tell from my post that I am not well enough informed on this subject by a long shot. However, Trump's display on that video in front of the whole world was appalling. We saw a glimpse of how he operates and it is shocking. He is ignorant and easily angered - not someone who should have custody of the codes for nuclear war. Where he is smart however is in aligning with Russia. We in Britain seem the weakest of all, cut off from the rest of Europe in so many ways which means we will eventually have to bow to whatever Trump needs us to be. I wonder if this was Farage's vision for Brexit all along?

Actually your modesty is appealing.

But why should Putin have the right to ‘state terms’ to an independent nation? That would be like France unilaterally stating new terms for our mutual relationship and declaring the UK must abide by them, then invading when we refused. (The fact that the French controlled parts of Britain earlier is neither here nor there)

Maurepas · 01/03/2025 11:05

USA has failed in all intervention wars since WW2 -
Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan .. even Korean war in 1950s was hardly a great success.
Terrible costs involved.
No wonder they do not wish to fight in Ukraine.
Also the failure of rescue attempt of American embassy staff in Iran in 1980 was another disaster.

C152 · 01/03/2025 11:06

HRTQueen · 01/03/2025 09:17

I think the time has to to accept that Ukraine is not going to win and that they shall have to allow Russia some sort of victory

will Putin stop, for a while but either way he isn’t going to stop and he has extremely powerful allies

The rest of the world isn’t concerned with Ukraine and Europe will only do so much to protect Ukraine

best to back down now make the rest of the country and close countries safer

I think the time has come to accept that Russia is not going to win...without help. Let's not forget that Putin thought he'd win in 10 days. Ukraine is still there and fighting.

Unfortunately, Russia has had an easier time persuading its allies (China, Saudia Arabia, North Korea) to provide the type of help needed than Zelenskyy has. Since Trump has aligned himself with Putin very publicly and finally, I think it has given Europe an additional push to move faster and more effectively. I think they will do more than you think to protect Ukraine. And they will do so precisely because they wish to protect their own borders. Allowing Putin to swallow Ukraine will not make Ukraine or their neighbours safer. It will put them at infinitely greater risk of invasion, not to mention edging everyone closer to another world war.

Kaja Kallas was right when she said we need to keep putting more pressure on Russia and put Ukraine (via wins on the battlefield) in a position to say no to a bad deal.

https://www.euractiv.com/section/politics/interview/exclusive-peacekeeping-is-a-putin-trap-kallas-warns/

And she's right again when she says the free world needs a new leader and it's up to Europe to pick up the challenge.

AllTheBestUsernamesHaveBeenTaken · 01/03/2025 11:06

BusyExpert · 01/03/2025 10:08

I agree. It's helpful to see the whole press conference not just the edited highlights. Zelensky blew it

Of course Russia is wrong but Ukraine is not going to win this war There will be many more deaths and there is no way that the US and Europe can continue to fund this indefinitely.

the situation is complex, most people shouting their mouth of here have little idea of the details of agreement almost reached and the safeguards to be put in place. I think when Ukraine realises what it has potentially lost Zelensky will be toppled.

@BusyExpert Please explain how Zelensky blew it? Ukraine was initially not even invited to its own recent peace talks. Russia isn’t just “wrong”, it’s a bully because it doesn’t want Ukraine to join NATO. Here’s a recent BBC article. What I don’t understand is how Trump so easily called Zelensky a “dictator without elections” and says nothing but high praises for Putin speaks volumes when it’s common knowledge how long Putin has controlled Russia and what happens to his opponents as well as Russian dissidents. So no, Russia isn’t just “wrong”. It needs to be stopped. A bully should not be facilitated to gather more strength and bully further. Zelensky has already offered to step down for NATO membership so why isn’t that accepted?

Merrymouse · 01/03/2025 11:07

You are wrong, and the point has gone flying over your head.

Trump's argument that Putin can be trusted has not grounds in reality, as pointed out by Zelensky.

As for Trump saying 'Putin went through a hell of a lot with me'. At some point you have to stop ignoring the signals that Trump is on Putin's side.

ZebedeeDougalFlorence · 01/03/2025 11:07

CreationNat1on · 01/03/2025 11:05

It's a land grab, and Trump and the US are getting in on the deal. Like a vigilante security "mafia", tag team.

Vance is an ignorant bully, playing up to Trump like he is the Godfather.

They are ignorant. I dread to think how much damage they will unleash.

I was in America just a few months before the inauguration. Every single cab driver told me that Trump was a great businessman who would be good for the country. Idiots. Reality TV is the opium of the people and is definitely rotting our brains.

Weefreetiffany · 01/03/2025 11:08

shatteredparent · 01/03/2025 11:03

I'm also disturbed to see this thread as the top in 'Trending', even though the responses are so strongly pro-Ukraine. It might be better to start commenting on the other topics so it falls off the list.

Why shouldn’t free people choose who they side with? Why dont you want pro-ukrainian opinions publicised? Why do you grt to manipulate what we discuss today?

Merrymouse · 01/03/2025 11:08

southerngirl10 · 01/03/2025 11:03

I think we need bold leaders to end this war. There has been too much destruction on both sides.

Trump and Vance come across strongly, but it's only a part of the full meeting. It doesn't give the whole picture.

Zelensky is a former comedian/actor. He and the other leaders have very good media PR. Zelensky plays the poor me/poor us role even though he's a very wealthy man and does it every time. Trump looks like he has had enough of not knowing where the billions have gone.

Also, do we really believe that Russia would have any chance of taking over Europe, when it has been held back for three years by The Ukraine, whose military rank 18th in the world? Even with aid, that's a remarkable feat.

The Russian army bears absolutely no resemblance to the German army of 1939 - that's just media hype. They would never be able to take over a country in days or weeks, as has been proved by the war in The Ukraine.

Neither side is going to back down. Strong leadership is the only way forward to stop all the unnecessary destruction.

'Both sides'.

Putin invaded Ukraine.

All he needs to do is stop invading Ukraine.

MumCanIHaveASnackPlease · 01/03/2025 11:08

Vance is the ultimate example of someone who is so dense that light bends around them. A thoroughly unintelligent individual with limited cognitive capacity to understand the complexity of the issue at hand.

Trump doesn’t give a hoot about anyone else other than himself and his rich pals and making them all richer. A traitor willing to sell out every apparent ally the US has in the west in an apparent bid to suck up the arse of a vile murderous dictator.

Biscuitsnotcookies · 01/03/2025 11:08

C152 · 01/03/2025 11:06

I think the time has come to accept that Russia is not going to win...without help. Let's not forget that Putin thought he'd win in 10 days. Ukraine is still there and fighting.

Unfortunately, Russia has had an easier time persuading its allies (China, Saudia Arabia, North Korea) to provide the type of help needed than Zelenskyy has. Since Trump has aligned himself with Putin very publicly and finally, I think it has given Europe an additional push to move faster and more effectively. I think they will do more than you think to protect Ukraine. And they will do so precisely because they wish to protect their own borders. Allowing Putin to swallow Ukraine will not make Ukraine or their neighbours safer. It will put them at infinitely greater risk of invasion, not to mention edging everyone closer to another world war.

Kaja Kallas was right when she said we need to keep putting more pressure on Russia and put Ukraine (via wins on the battlefield) in a position to say no to a bad deal.

https://www.euractiv.com/section/politics/interview/exclusive-peacekeeping-is-a-putin-trap-kallas-warns/

And she's right again when she says the free world needs a new leader and it's up to Europe to pick up the challenge.

You are optimistic- more optimistic than me. Europe should step up but it won’t, history tells us that moving swiftly and being decisive is not their strong point.

hettie · 01/03/2025 11:09

Donotpanicoknowpanic · 01/03/2025 09:37

I can support Ukraine and want peace in Ukraine

No country is going to enter the war to support Ukraine

Ukraine can not push Russia back out the country

The war needs to end

Yes if course the war needs to end and of course Ukraine alone can't reclaim it's sovereign territory.....
But that why the international community and the US in particular needs to seek a just settlement for Ukraine. If Putin gets vast tracts of land and resource he will be emboldened. He'll come back again, or try the same trick in Estonia or Latvia or Poland. He's a product of the the old USSR he wants the global power and status that went with that era when it was a USSR/USA carve up. That took us to the brink of a nuclear war and things are much more dynamic now. China will spit the dummy/use a distracted west to take on Taiwan and extend there reach in Africa....All hell will break loose...
So if you don't want your kids conscripted you better hope and pray someone in the white house comes to their senses about Putin pretty dam quick.

OneLemonDog · 01/03/2025 11:09

Biscuitsnotcookies · 01/03/2025 11:08

You are optimistic- more optimistic than me. Europe should step up but it won’t, history tells us that moving swiftly and being decisive is not their strong point.

Interesting use of "their".

Gilead · 01/03/2025 11:09

I’m disgusted at the Trump apologists on this thread. Bullying is neither leadership nor diplomacy. And what happens after Ukraine when they try it with Iceland, Alaska?

C152 · 01/03/2025 11:09

RingoJuice · 01/03/2025 09:12

Zelensky was supposed to come in and sign a mineral deal but then pushes for a security guarantee, which is not at all on the table.

What did he expect really?

Rubio looked furious. Probably because his team negotiated that deal
in the first place. Rubio then kicked him out of the WH and cut aid for power line restoration ….

He fucked around and then found out

Don't be so ridiculous. There can be no deal about Ukraine without Ukraine. Ukraine and every ally, excluding Trump, has stated very plainly, multiple times, that any negotiation must include security guarantees and there can be no end to war without security guarantees.

akiwi · 01/03/2025 11:10

Mycatsasuperstar · 01/03/2025 10:58

This post is a classic example why the ability to critically think, be aware and be questioning has gone to the dogs. Frightening thinking about it.

I think many of the people defending Russia are just Russian bots trying to influence social media.

MarvellousMarch · 01/03/2025 11:10

@Alexandra2001 what do you know of this deal it's not a USA mining company it's more than that

Featherpink · 01/03/2025 11:10

Some people are saying that trump is right. Zelensky is wrong.

I don't understand the history behind Ukraine and Russia but Russia is the aggressor and invader of Ukraine and that's wrong.

Trump was always a pig headed and he's not diplomatic. He doesn't know how to hold himself and carry himself. He's a figure of high office and he behaves like a school boy.

EasternStandard · 01/03/2025 11:11

'Kaja Kallas was right when she said we need to keep putting more pressure on Russia and put Ukraine (via wins on the battlefield) in a position to say no to a bad deal.

www.euractiv.com/section/politics/interview/exclusive-peacekeeping-is-a-putin-trap-kallas-warns/

And she's right again when she says the free world needs a new leader and it's up to Europe to pick up the challenge.'

@C152 surely this has to be backed up by military stock for daily fighting, who has it?

Biscuitsnotcookies · 01/03/2025 11:11

OneLemonDog · 01/03/2025 11:09

Interesting use of "their".

It is a collective. Europe isn’t just one country!! 🙄

YoureNotGoingOutLikeThat · 01/03/2025 11:12

Not yet read other responses but I am hoping that they all state how unreasonable OP's post is and how unreasonable Trump is being.

Of course the Ukrainians want peace. They were invaded by their neighbour and have suffered military and civilian casualties. Zelenskyy, who faces regular threats to his life simply for being the president of a country at war with Russia, knows very well that his citizens are facing not just death but also hardship. If you live in a city in Ukraine that isn't yet occupied by Russia, then your nights are spent moving to safe spaces underground so that you can stay alive. Zelenskyy and Ukrainians have been grateful publicly and privately for the support they have received. They want the war to stop but not at any cost and not just for a few months so that Russia can continue to threaten them.

Let's be clear. Russia invaded a sovereign state. This is an incontrovertible fact.

Trump is not calling on Russia to make concessions. He is not holding Putin to account. Putin is still sending drones on a nightly basis into Ukraine to attack civilians and Trump hasn't once raised this and requested that Putin cease doing so. Why?

Trump and Vance's treatment of a democratically elected HoS at the White House yesterday was shocking. It is one thing to have political differences but quite another to attack that HoS in such a public way. Zelenskyy had nowhere to go. It was a set up to sideline him as the barrier to peace and demand someone else from Ukraine to engage with. Just as Putin wants.

Trump doesn't care about the loss of life despite claiming so. If he was, he would be pressuing both sides to come to the table with US as negotiator. He is not doing this. He did not treat Lavrov the same way as he berated Zelenskyy. Trump simply wants to stop sending aid to Ukraine and to get a deal with Ukraine that benefits US most. Quite how he is going to get mining in the Donbas up and running when it is currently mined/IED to the hilt will be interesting.

RingoJuice · 01/03/2025 11:12

And she's right again when she says the free world needs a new leader and it's up to Europe to pick up the challenge

It would be nice if Europe could do this but I cannot see Europeans sending their sons to fight and die for Ukraine. They can barely find patriotic sentiment for their own country let alone a foreign one.

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