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Woman 19 dies in dog attack

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Matrixremooted · 27/02/2025 14:10

Woman 19 dies in dog attack in Bristol

Apologies if there’s already a thread on this, but how many more lives have to be taken in these horrific attacks before the Government admit that the current measures are failing. It surely has come to the point now that all XL Bullies should be euthanised.

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YesHonestly · 14/03/2025 13:37

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:04

Absolutely every person who is sick of dogs has said pet dogs are the problem, not useful ones.

No, they haven’t. There was a poster a few pages back who said that all dogs should be banned.

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 13:39

YesHonestly · 14/03/2025 13:37

No, they haven’t. There was a poster a few pages back who said that all dogs should be banned.

I said I'd be delighted if they were. I'd settle for banning pet dogs though.

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:39

YesHonestly · 14/03/2025 13:37

No, they haven’t. There was a poster a few pages back who said that all dogs should be banned.

yes but I think she's vegan so doesn't count 😁

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 13:41

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:39

yes but I think she's vegan so doesn't count 😁

Ha! 😂

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:45

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:31

more and more places are not dog free and more and more dogs are not on a leash when outside.
If I want to impose my beliefs that I find it disgusting to have a dog in a food place then I should have every right to.

Not unless you own the food place.

You can hold the belief, but not impose it.

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:47

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:45

Not unless you own the food place.

You can hold the belief, but not impose it.

hence why I said i should have the right

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:48

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:33

oh, and restricting a dog to certain areas of a restaurant/ cafe is bollocks.
owners have them on long leads / no leads so they wander anyway
owners don't always sit in the dog only bit
I don't want to be startled by a dog barking every 5 minutes
I find the sight of a dog in a cafe pretty revolting no matter where it is.
( don't bother with saying " but guide dogs" that has been done to death)

So go to a different cafe.

The simple truth is that the cafe makes more money or gets better reviews from letting dogs in than it does from excluding dog haters like you.

You might not like it, but you don’t get a say in how a business decides to run.

Your power in this situation is going to a dog free cafe or learning to bake.

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:50

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:47

hence why I said i should have the right

If I want to impose my beliefs that I find it disgusting to have a dog in a food place then I should have every right to.

well in that case, I should have the right to impose my belief that dogs should be allowed everywhere.

Except, that’s not the way for society to work - beliefs should be respected but not imposed.

See also: abortion laws, religion in schools, flat-earthers.

actually, not the last one. I don’t want to fall off the edge next time I get on a plane.

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:55

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:48

So go to a different cafe.

The simple truth is that the cafe makes more money or gets better reviews from letting dogs in than it does from excluding dog haters like you.

You might not like it, but you don’t get a say in how a business decides to run.

Your power in this situation is going to a dog free cafe or learning to bake.

i bake well thank you.
i resent that places I have been to and enjoyed for years now let dogs in.
it's revolting and selfish of dog owners.
But you're never going to see that so pointless discussing

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 13:56

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:48

So go to a different cafe.

The simple truth is that the cafe makes more money or gets better reviews from letting dogs in than it does from excluding dog haters like you.

You might not like it, but you don’t get a say in how a business decides to run.

Your power in this situation is going to a dog free cafe or learning to bake.

I am actually not sure that it is true that they are making more money - they probably don't realise how many people are turning away.

I am a member of a sports gym/members' club - there's gym classes, play areas, fancy restaurant plus casual cafe, youth club attached, etc. They put out a survey last year asking if members would support a policy to permit dogs. 96% said NO! 96%!!! Which leads me to believe most people do NOT want dogs around when we are out and about, but the pet owners impose them on the rest of us without caring.

Sadly so many cafes and restaurants allow dogs, it's harder to avoid than ever. I stick to Wagamamas.

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:56

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 13:32

You are right in that my issue with dogs is really the owners, really, but if it weren't for dogs, the owners wouldn't have them, and problem solved.

I have become far more intolerant of dog people, as dog people have become far more awful, and, the number of dogs has also risen.

I do not believe the statistics surrounding the benefits of dogs - I did some research and so much is pushed by dog companies (e.g. pet food companies), and you have to wonder, hm.

I AM vegan, though I don't remember mentioning that, actually, but well-deduced! I do take issue with dogs being used. I think we have enough technology to be able to do away with guide dogs, sniffer dogs and bomb-finding dogs and whatever else they may be useful for, and I wish we could build resilience in people where we found comfort and strength in one another, and not in pets. I also take issue with the negative ecological disaster that is pets (and also people who eat meat, really), and would love to live in a cleaner society.
I don't think the benefits of dogs outweigh the negatives, which I suppose is the main issue. There are so many attacks, and most don't make the news. I see so many posts on fb about them, yet hardly any actually appear in any official news. Which leads me to believe the statistics are far worse than people know. Maybe the deaths and very serious maulings are reported, but there are umpteen pretty serious attacks that go under the radar.

https://www.rcseng.ac.uk/news-and-events/media-centre/press-releases/be-dog-safe/#:~:text=The%20Royal%20College%20of%20Surgeons,bitten%20or%20struck%20by%20dogs.

  • I'll copy the main text in another post, as my own post is already long.

There’s a fair amount of scientific papers that show the benefits of dogs, it’s not just blogs on vet pages.

You were either a vegan or a massive hypocrite, so I assumed vegan!

The ecological disaster is a fair argument in terms of climate change, but so are kids, and I don’t want them banned either.

Dog bites have gone up - but is it proportional to dog ownership going up? And who is getting bitten? Mostly owners?

Bad breeding, terrible owners, social media / fashion, more dogs so more likelihood of a wrong ‘un turning up are all important, but I will never be convinced the answer is banning dogs.

They bring me and so many people I know too much joy.

Animals have got me through some serious mental health struggles and there is a reason humans have such a close bond with some species - and I don’t believe that it’s just selfishness on our part.

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:57

Mightymoog · 14/03/2025 13:55

i bake well thank you.
i resent that places I have been to and enjoyed for years now let dogs in.
it's revolting and selfish of dog owners.
But you're never going to see that so pointless discussing

The places you’ve gone to for years don’t make enough money from people who hate dogs.

That’s why they let them in.

And if dogs are allowed in, it’s not selfish of owners to take them.

Your issue seems to be with the cafe owners, not the dogs.

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 13:59

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 13:56

There’s a fair amount of scientific papers that show the benefits of dogs, it’s not just blogs on vet pages.

You were either a vegan or a massive hypocrite, so I assumed vegan!

The ecological disaster is a fair argument in terms of climate change, but so are kids, and I don’t want them banned either.

Dog bites have gone up - but is it proportional to dog ownership going up? And who is getting bitten? Mostly owners?

Bad breeding, terrible owners, social media / fashion, more dogs so more likelihood of a wrong ‘un turning up are all important, but I will never be convinced the answer is banning dogs.

They bring me and so many people I know too much joy.

Animals have got me through some serious mental health struggles and there is a reason humans have such a close bond with some species - and I don’t believe that it’s just selfishness on our part.

And they bring me the opposite of joy. If you want to enjoy your joy in your own home, it wouldn't be as much of an issue. The issue is you imposing the dogs on the rest of us.

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 14:02

If it were put to a fair vote, and we could stop dog nutters rallying round and pushing up their votes, I do think the majority of people would vote not to allow dogs in eateries and shopping malls.

I do think it will be rolled back in due course, but I am getting impatient and fed up of seeing dogs everywhere. We will hit peak dog though and eventually they will reduce in number.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-64566448#:~:text=A%20scheme%20to%20allow%20dogs,recorded%20over%20the%20trial%20period%22.

is just the start!

Dog outside Silverburn

Dog friendly shopping ends after poo complaints

The Silverburn centre in the south of Glasgow announces it has to prioritise "human guests".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-64566448#:~:text=A%20scheme%20to%20allow%20dogs,recorded%20over%20the%20trial%20period%22.

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 14:09

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 13:56

I am actually not sure that it is true that they are making more money - they probably don't realise how many people are turning away.

I am a member of a sports gym/members' club - there's gym classes, play areas, fancy restaurant plus casual cafe, youth club attached, etc. They put out a survey last year asking if members would support a policy to permit dogs. 96% said NO! 96%!!! Which leads me to believe most people do NOT want dogs around when we are out and about, but the pet owners impose them on the rest of us without caring.

Sadly so many cafes and restaurants allow dogs, it's harder to avoid than ever. I stick to Wagamamas.

Well unless the cafe does a survey and checks its takings before and after the dog ban, allowing for cost of living crisis, Covid etc etc, I guess we are both speculating.

But overall, a trend to allow dogs into more places would suggest it’s something businesses see as beneficial to their bottom line.

The members’ club is one example, but what does that actually tell us? Are you saying country club members are indicative of the entire British population?

My kids’ school has 2 therapy dogs. If they did a survey I would imagine it would be close (high Muslim population) but sensibly, they haven’t because weird beliefs shouldn’t be imposed on anyone.

edit - sorry, that sounds like the weird beliefs are referring to being Muslim. That is absolutely not what I meant to imply.

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 14:09

https://www.facebook.com/reel/843850841123882

I am sick of this kind of thing, and I have personally witnessed a dog pooing in a cafe, and one piddling a urine leak.

Bignanna · 14/03/2025 14:09

YeOldeGreyhound · 13/03/2025 15:32

A few years ago, I met a dog that was a cross between a sausage dog and a lab. It was literally a sausage dog with a lab's head. It looked very strange! Even the owner said so 😄

Was the dad a sausage dog with a step ladder?

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 14:10

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 14:09

Well unless the cafe does a survey and checks its takings before and after the dog ban, allowing for cost of living crisis, Covid etc etc, I guess we are both speculating.

But overall, a trend to allow dogs into more places would suggest it’s something businesses see as beneficial to their bottom line.

The members’ club is one example, but what does that actually tell us? Are you saying country club members are indicative of the entire British population?

My kids’ school has 2 therapy dogs. If they did a survey I would imagine it would be close (high Muslim population) but sensibly, they haven’t because weird beliefs shouldn’t be imposed on anyone.

edit - sorry, that sounds like the weird beliefs are referring to being Muslim. That is absolutely not what I meant to imply.

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And I and many others think it is weird to like dogs.

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 14:12

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 13:59

And they bring me the opposite of joy. If you want to enjoy your joy in your own home, it wouldn't be as much of an issue. The issue is you imposing the dogs on the rest of us.

No, I’m not.

You are free to exist anywhere. If you don’t want to share the air with my dog, it is incumbent on you to leave, not me.

My dog is on a lead where the law mandates, he is not allowed in places where dogs are banned.

If I was invited to your house, I wouldn’t bring him, and I would happily put him elsewhere if you came to mine.

But I’m sure as shit not going to pander to anyone’s nonsense about not wanting to exist in proximity to him.

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 14:13

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 14:09

https://www.facebook.com/reel/843850841123882

I am sick of this kind of thing, and I have personally witnessed a dog pooing in a cafe, and one piddling a urine leak.

Well I haven’t. Do we cancel each other out?

Enough random anecdata.

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 14:16

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 14:10

And I and many others think it is weird to like dogs.

Well the rise in dog ownership and increased acceptance in cafes and shops suggests you are in the minority.

Again, you are free to hold whatever beliefs you wish, but you cannot impose them on others.

BattIestar · 14/03/2025 14:19

Dumbdog · 14/03/2025 14:16

Well the rise in dog ownership and increased acceptance in cafes and shops suggests you are in the minority.

Again, you are free to hold whatever beliefs you wish, but you cannot impose them on others.

But you are imposing your physical animal on me, or, as I do actually avoid dogs as much as possible, restricting my life.

My beliefs don't make you nauseous with the smell, or sneezy with allergies. My beliefs don't leave shit on your shoe, or on the wheels of my kids' bikes/scooters/rollerblades.

Errors · 14/03/2025 14:23

All of the arguments against dog ownership are actually arguments against shitty dog owners. If we look at it this way, then we can actually be in agreement.

I love dogs and plan on getting one myself. However, I would support having to hold a dog license - I would support having to go through mandatory training to own a dog to get a license, the same way you have to go through mandatory training before you can get a driving license. This would weed out the half arsed “I fancy a dog but don’t want to put the work in” owners and mean the general dog population would be well trained, well socialised and far easier to be around for everyone.

I would support harsher fines for having dogs off lead in areas they aren’t supposed to as well as not picking up after your dog and definitely harsher repercussions if your dog attacks someone else or someone else’s pet or livestock.

I wouldn’t be in favour of a blanket ban of them being allowed in business premises - that should be up to whomever owns the business and dog haters can go elsewhere (the same way that someone who doesn’t like being around children wouldn’t go and have a coffee at their local soft play) but better dog owners would make this a better experience for everyone, anyway.

And if you allow your dog to relieve itself inside one of those premises you get kicked out. Simple.

We do not need to ban all dogs. We need to ban shitty owners from owning dogs.

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