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Why the fuck would you do this to yourself

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mommyfinger · 24/02/2025 20:20

Just why?
She was so pretty

I've attached pics for those who don't want to open the link

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MatriarchCaz · 25/02/2025 21:15

I quite like it 🙂

imtheholidayarmadillo · 25/02/2025 21:18

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/02/2025 21:14

Woah. This woman has had her intelligence insulted, been accused of being mentally ill, had the word extremist used in reference to her, and now it's being suggested she's being taken advantage of. I'm surprised that people commenting here think women should be allowed to make any autonomous decisions at all.

She's not campaigning for everyone to follow suit, she's done something for herself and it's her choice.

Not much sisterhood here in those sorts of comments, but plenty of Mother Superiors it seems.

Well I can only speak for myself, but personally I feel sorry for her, and that's a pretty long way from judgement in my book. I'm sure she doesn't need anyone's pity, but OP asked a question and people have been giving their views, I'm pretty sure that's how debate normally works.

Nothing to do with her being a woman, either - again I can only speak for myself, but I'd have exactly the same views if she was a bloke.

XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 21:19

imtheholidayarmadillo · 25/02/2025 21:14

I also agree with those saying that whoever did the work should be struck off.

It will be body mod artists doing this work for her, not surgeons.

ProfessionalPirate · 25/02/2025 21:20

Treesarenotforeating · 24/02/2025 20:28

Moreover
who is the person that did the surgery
they should be struck off

I’d be quite surprised if the person that removed her nose was a qualified, registered surgeon, but I’m prepared to stand corrected.

nahthatsnotforme · 25/02/2025 21:20

I too feel more sympathy than judgement.

XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 21:20

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/02/2025 21:14

Woah. This woman has had her intelligence insulted, been accused of being mentally ill, had the word extremist used in reference to her, and now it's being suggested she's being taken advantage of. I'm surprised that people commenting here think women should be allowed to make any autonomous decisions at all.

She's not campaigning for everyone to follow suit, she's done something for herself and it's her choice.

Not much sisterhood here in those sorts of comments, but plenty of Mother Superiors it seems.

Well said 👏

imtheholidayarmadillo · 25/02/2025 21:22

XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 21:19

It will be body mod artists doing this work for her, not surgeons.

Surely the nose would require a surgeon? That's the bit I was referring to really.

notarunner · 25/02/2025 21:23

It shouldn't be too hard to find on Google but a body modification artist that I vaguely know was jailed a few years back for removing a customers ear and nipple. It's not a new thing. I remember seeing all sorts on BMEzine in my teens.

I'm heavily tattooed (although not on my head or hands), so I feel like that's each to their own. Same with piercings and dermal implants. The removal of body parts is a bit too far in my opinion though.

imtheholidayarmadillo · 25/02/2025 21:24

gardenflowergirl · 25/02/2025 20:51

How on earth can she hold down a job looking like that?

I wonder if she works in the tattooing/body modification sphere herself...

Although even if she does, she's potentially wrecked her employment chances if she decides to go into a different field.

mintjim · 25/02/2025 21:28

MistressoftheDarkSide · 24/02/2025 20:49

I do disagree with the immediate jump to mentally ill though. It's a bit of a patronising thing and extreme body mods are part of a culture and lifestyle. You can't get these things done in the UK since a big case a few years ago when a chap was sent to prison because he didn't have the correct licenses ie in surgical procedures.

Anyone with capacity has the right to make unwise decisions, even to harm themselves, otherwise there would be no addicts or alcoholics. Unwise decisions are subjective to cultural norms and fashions.

Just because someone chooses to do something you wouldn't contemplate, it doesn't necessarily make them mentally ill.

Respectfully disagree. That isn't the picture of superb mental health.

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:30

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 25/02/2025 20:48

Where did Horns = Evil come from?

Goats? Elephants? Triceratops? Reindeer?

None of them scream ‘evil’. Horns are neutral at best.

Come on! She's not got horns to look like a triceratops or a reindeer FFS! 😂

It's to resemble the devil/a demon. Pretty obvious she is not trying to look like a fecking reindeer!

mintjim · 25/02/2025 21:30

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 25/02/2025 20:48

Where did Horns = Evil come from?

Goats? Elephants? Triceratops? Reindeer?

None of them scream ‘evil’. Horns are neutral at best.

She doesn't look like a goat or a reindeer either.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/02/2025 21:34

But sympathy in this context is judgement, and patronising. She doesn't need sympathy, she's not sad or regretful or a victim. Trust me, people who engage in this world are pretty sure of themselves and committed to a lifestyle. The Lizard Man has made his look a career. You want to look up people like Ron Athey. And a book called "Modern Primitives" Body modification like this is an art form, and it's also tapping into anthropological themes. There's a whole underground scene that isn't everyone's cup of tea, hence underground, but it's not populated by shrinking violets coerced into things they don't want to do. There's alot of thought provoking live performance in this scene.

It's not mainstream, rarely is it "in your face" and it's not doing anyone else any harm.

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:35

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/02/2025 21:14

Woah. This woman has had her intelligence insulted, been accused of being mentally ill, had the word extremist used in reference to her, and now it's being suggested she's being taken advantage of. I'm surprised that people commenting here think women should be allowed to make any autonomous decisions at all.

She's not campaigning for everyone to follow suit, she's done something for herself and it's her choice.

Not much sisterhood here in those sorts of comments, but plenty of Mother Superiors it seems.

'The Sisterhood' is a load of old tripe just as #BeKind is.

I don't support someone automatically just because we both happen to have a vagina. 🙄

Grammarnut · 25/02/2025 21:36

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 24/02/2025 20:29

I quite like the forehead horns.

Her body, her choice.
(And she looks far less weird than the ‘filler queens’.)

No-one does this to themselves and is well. Her body - her choice is utter nonsense. Someone has enabled this and that person should be struck off if a medical practitioner.

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:37

notarunner · 25/02/2025 21:23

It shouldn't be too hard to find on Google but a body modification artist that I vaguely know was jailed a few years back for removing a customers ear and nipple. It's not a new thing. I remember seeing all sorts on BMEzine in my teens.

I'm heavily tattooed (although not on my head or hands), so I feel like that's each to their own. Same with piercings and dermal implants. The removal of body parts is a bit too far in my opinion though.

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Yes, I remember this case. And anyone who does this grotesque shite to a person needs sending to fucking jail too.

ProfessionalPirate · 25/02/2025 21:38

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 19:20

She HAS had her nose amputated (for all the posters saying she hasn't) and it WAS a surgeon who did it. Who the fuck do you think did it if not a surgeon? A bloody Car Mechanic or a Barista?

If you think THIS is not an amputated nose, you need to get yourself to Specsavers. SHE HAS NO NOSE LEFT. Just nostrils!

Here's a couple more links to the story. In both of these links it makes reference to her amputated nose.

Dutch woman spends over $100,000 on body modifications, becomes first to voluntarily amputate nose

Dutch woman spends over $100,000 on body modifications, becomes first to voluntarily amputate nose

I’ve seen documentaries on people with similar mods (finger amputation, ears etc) and they were done ‘back street’, not by a surgeon.

The article you posted mentions a ‘physician’ (which is not a surgeon) and comes across as vague and unreliable. I would hazard a guess that her ‘physician’, whoever he or she was, is not a qualified surgeon.

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:39

Grammarnut · 25/02/2025 21:36

No-one does this to themselves and is well. Her body - her choice is utter nonsense. Someone has enabled this and that person should be struck off if a medical practitioner.

This. ^ 'Her Body Her Choice' trope is a load of utter bullshit. Sick of reading this nonsense on this type of thread tbh. 🙄

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:42

mintjim · 25/02/2025 21:28

Respectfully disagree. That isn't the picture of superb mental health.

100% this. ^ 👏

XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 21:43

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:39

This. ^ 'Her Body Her Choice' trope is a load of utter bullshit. Sick of reading this nonsense on this type of thread tbh. 🙄

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How?
Pro-life people think women having choices about their body is nonsense too.
This lady is hurting no one. It has zero impact on you.
She is into body modification, which has its whole scene. I bet she is loved and supported by many, and does not need your approval.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/02/2025 21:44

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:39

This. ^ 'Her Body Her Choice' trope is a load of utter bullshit. Sick of reading this nonsense on this type of thread tbh. 🙄

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And I'm sick of judgemental, ignorant and arrogant "normies" with fascism in their tone. But here we are.

nahthatsnotforme · 25/02/2025 21:46

Where does the idea that anything is ok if it's put under the umbrella of 'your choice' come from?!

It's totally not ok to be mutilated by some backstreet 'surgeons' in my book. Where will ok end?! Limbs amputated?

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:46

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/02/2025 21:44

And I'm sick of judgemental, ignorant and arrogant "normies" with fascism in their tone. But here we are.

Then maybe the internet isn't the place for you if you can't tolerate different views to your own.

Sounds like you're getting very angry now. Calm down.... People are allowed opinions that YOU don't like you know dear. Wink

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/02/2025 21:47

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 21:46

Then maybe the internet isn't the place for you if you can't tolerate different views to your own.

Sounds like you're getting very angry now. Calm down.... People are allowed opinions that YOU don't like you know dear. Wink

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And yet here we both are, irritated by each other's views, so, right back at ya, hun.

XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 21:47

nahthatsnotforme · 25/02/2025 21:46

Where does the idea that anything is ok if it's put under the umbrella of 'your choice' come from?!

It's totally not ok to be mutilated by some backstreet 'surgeons' in my book. Where will ok end?! Limbs amputated?

You make it sound like she was dragged kicking and screaming to someone and this all done against her will.
Total bull.