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To be disgusted at the talks between Russia and the US

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SunnyDayInFeb · 17/02/2025 08:58

So Russia and the US are meeting in Saudia Arabia to carve up Ukraine.

And Ukraine, whose people have been fighting and dying since their country was invaded, haven't even been invited to the table.

It's like we are back in the 19th century with the European colonial powers drawing lines on a map to divide Africa between them.

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 17/02/2025 17:38

PandoraSox · 17/02/2025 17:28

No one in their right mind is "eager" for military personnel to be put in potential danger.

To suggest posters on here are "eager" to see this happen is a gross and offensive distortion of what has actually been said and deliberately inflammatory.

Very well said, PandoraSox

I'd have thought it obvious that more death and destruction is precisely what most wish to avoid, but a lot of emotion tends to cloud threads like this and odd narratives crop up - which is largely what prevented me answering @wholettheturnipsburn's perfectly reasonable question

bemoresloth · 17/02/2025 17:40

Gung ho is not something I would associate with Starmer Hmm

The emergency Ukraine summit is under way.

NewYorkBuilder · 17/02/2025 17:40

Colour me surprised that the leftists want to continue with the endless meat grinder warmongering, same as it ever was.

The cash dispenser has run dry and is under new management putting American taxpayers first. The UK is irrelevant, there’s no need for a “bridge”. Lmfao if it wasn’t so fucking tragic.

EasternStandard · 17/02/2025 17:41

Well the idea of 'odd narratives' is a strange one given we are not alone in this and Scholz and other EU leaders are closer to my views than most

I'm ok with finding common ground there.

If others feel strongly we should send troops, so much so they have clearly said they disagree with my take. No point in hiding from that now.

Bewareofthisonetoo · 17/02/2025 17:48

It is absolutely not a joke!
But so many on here want it to continue but would not actually fight themselves.
Luxury beliefs.

Bewareofthisonetoo · 17/02/2025 17:50

bemoresloth · 17/02/2025 17:40

Gung ho is not something I would associate with Starmer Hmm

The emergency Ukraine summit is under way.

And this emergency summit has only happened because the US is not predated to carry on with Biden’s bankrolling.
They have had 3 years to have a summit -why was it not a priority then to have a ‘summit’

EasternEcho · 17/02/2025 17:52

NewYorkBuilder · 17/02/2025 17:40

Colour me surprised that the leftists want to continue with the endless meat grinder warmongering, same as it ever was.

The cash dispenser has run dry and is under new management putting American taxpayers first. The UK is irrelevant, there’s no need for a “bridge”. Lmfao if it wasn’t so fucking tragic.

Same as it ever was? That's curious because I thought the longest wars that dragged on for decades was due to republican presidents, Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan...

TankFlyBossW4lk · 17/02/2025 17:55

Ablondiebutagoody · 17/02/2025 09:25

The US are quite rightly applying pressure to the EU to pull their weight. Why should the US taxpayer fun everyone's security?

Similar in Gaza I think. No way the US are going to take it over, kick everyone out and build some kind of resort. Just applying pressure to Jordan, Egypt etc to come up with a proposal.

European countries have provided the most total aid to Ukraine. That means military, humanitarian and financial. The US has provided the most military aid, but this supports American manufacturers of weapons etc. The US are seemingly also asking for 50% of Ukraine 's mineral wealth in return for their support. It's not like the US are doing it all for free.

Hth

TallMam · 17/02/2025 17:56

You want your sons to be cannon fodder instead?
They (EU and Z) want this war to continue endlessly. No NATO membership and no NATO on the borders of RU as previously agreed. I'd rather have peace and some land where the majority are Russian speakers anyway, to go (back) to Russia.
And no, I am not a Russian troll

TankFlyBossW4lk · 17/02/2025 17:58

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TalkingAboutaWolf · 17/02/2025 17:59

Milkmani8 · 17/02/2025 17:35

@Bewareofthisonetoo Your comment has been deleted, I haven’t read it. To many the situation is a joke but I’m not sure why. I don’t want the war to carry on, I’ve lost enough people and so has everyone I know. But the fact is by allowing Russian the annexes you are agreeing to the fact the ex-Soviet republics should be returned to Russian. Most people have no idea how many ethnic Russian enclaves and cities there are amongst the Baltic states and countries like Moldova. British knowledge of the Soviet Union is limited for the majority and the atrocities that many of us witnessed even as children wouldn’t be believed by some.

Very sorry for everything that's happened to you and yours. I have people fighting in Ukraine and I'm from one of the ex-USSR-occupied countries, so I understand everything you're saying perfectly.

Look. I'm sure you're aware. 'They' (the West) simply don't care. They handed us to stalin back then, they'll do it again, push comes to shove. Exactly what's happening to Ukraine now.

NATO won't save us. It's not worth the paper it's written on. Sure, if russia decided to attack France, Germany, The UK - of course. An outrage. A nice, modern, 'proper' country, how the fuck dare they. Outcries and hashtags, 'pray for France' et al. Latvia? Lithuania? Romania? Who really gives a fuck, some tiny, poor, backwards shithole (which isn't true, but that's by the by). Like hell we'll send 'our sons' to war for this. And what's the big deal if russia has them? We can import cheap labor from Middle East/India/Bangladesh, who needs EE anyway.

Fine. Let's just hope it won't work out to be Sudetenland vol. II for them.

My country is in NATO, but the majority of my countrymen don't trust it and are making their own preparations and creating alliances to our neighbours in the same situation. Because we know fully well that putler won't stop there. They'll carve up Ukraine now, together with the Orangeman, he'll regroup and come for someone else in the region next. He did it with Chechnya, he did it with Georgia, he did it with Crimea and he'll do it again. And if he'll go for some small, inconsequential, new NATO member - so be it, the West won't lose much sleep over it.

wholettheturnipsburn · 17/02/2025 18:10

TallMam · 17/02/2025 17:56

You want your sons to be cannon fodder instead?
They (EU and Z) want this war to continue endlessly. No NATO membership and no NATO on the borders of RU as previously agreed. I'd rather have peace and some land where the majority are Russian speakers anyway, to go (back) to Russia.
And no, I am not a Russian troll

Well if you're not a troll (which I'm not saying you are) then you're woefully misinformed

NATO is already on russians borders. And there was no agreement. It's up to NATO and the countries who apply to join. Not Russia. No one had attacked them. To be honest no one would be interested in it.

I'm not sure where youre from but you must realise that speaking Russian doesn't make you actual Russian.

Maybe France needs to invade and murder Luxembourg and Belgium. Germany should invade other parts of Switzerland. Austria too. Britain needs to oust the Irish government because they speak English. We can probably lay claim to other countries too

Silly Billy

ForRealwhen · 17/02/2025 18:15

Jasmin71 · 17/02/2025 11:23

As an aside:

With China having bought up most of the rare earth metal mining operations on the continent of Africa;

I strongly doubt that Trump would be as interested in Russian appeasement if Ukraine didn't have an abundance of rare earth metal ores in the areas already annexed by Russia.

The spoils of war are attractive to Trump and his tech industry marionette.

Ukraine is a brave country that has been dealt a bad blow. The USA has undergone state capture and anybody that trusts Putin to honour any so called deal has taken leave of their senses!

I think the Trump / Putin deal in the making here is that Putin gets Ukraine and its rare earth minerals and Trump & Musk get Greenland and Canada's ....

Plus, it's all about creating a new normal where countries and their resources are seized by the big players as needed to keep their machines turning...

TankFlyBossW4lk · 17/02/2025 18:20

Hi Alternative, this is an interesting view. Russia has been chucking in it's people as a remedy for war woes since ww1. They've about have a population of about 140million. 10 million more women than men (because of those wars). Currently their population is declining and they've actually had to rely on immigration to maintain their population. I agree that they'll continue to rely on their men to continue to fight but it's not as exhaustible resource in the same way it was especially with the potential military power of NATO.

wholettheturnipsburn · 17/02/2025 18:26

Bewareofthisonetoo · 17/02/2025 17:48

It is absolutely not a joke!
But so many on here want it to continue but would not actually fight themselves.
Luxury beliefs.

This is Mumsnet. I'm quite sure the professional army don't want people like me - a menopausal, fat, unfit old wifie

NewYorkBuilder · 17/02/2025 18:30

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 17/02/2025 18:31

The cash dispenser has run dry and is under new management putting American taxpayers first

It was always going to happen if Trump got in again, @NewYorkBuilder, and it's not as if he hid what he stood for, but it'll take those who believed the subs would stay the same for ever a while to catch up

As a PP suggested, no wonder it took his election for EU leaders to decide they needed a summit ...

NewYorkBuilder · 17/02/2025 18:31

EasternEcho · 17/02/2025 17:52

Same as it ever was? That's curious because I thought the longest wars that dragged on for decades was due to republican presidents, Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan...

You thought wrong then. Do some more reading. And no I don’t want it quoted back at me.

EasternStandard · 17/02/2025 18:32

This is Mumsnet. I'm quite sure the professional army don't want people like me - a menopausal, fat, unfit old wifie

It's probably more relevant to dc, if the right age etc

Hence the concern

Purplebunnie · 17/02/2025 18:38

Sadcafe · 17/02/2025 11:59

While Putin rules Russia there will be no guarantee of safety for Europe, whatever the outcome of these talks, Likewise while Trump is in power Europe needs to understand that it will get little or no help from the US if anything did happen, Europe sadly, needs to significantly increase its military spending to help counter long term threats particularly from Russia

This really needs to be listened to. Europe needs to really up its game.

EasternEcho · 17/02/2025 18:51

NewYorkBuilder · 17/02/2025 18:31

You thought wrong then. Do some more reading. And no I don’t want it quoted back at me.

You don't get to say what you want quoted back to you or not on a public forum unfortunately. If I choose to I will. No dictators here. I note that you have no specifics as a rebuttal.

bemoresloth · 17/02/2025 19:24

The Russians are very happy

From the BBC

Russian state TV is overjoyed with how things are going.

"Zelensky is down, Europe is out,” says the presenter of the flagship weekly news review programme on Rossiya 1, as the caption next to Zelensky’s photo says: “He’s toxic”.

Over on the 60 Minutes talk show, commentator Nikolai Starikov admits his wildest dreams have been surpassed: “Things are moving so fast that yesterday’s biggest optimists now look like pessimists now.”

BIossomtoes · 17/02/2025 19:26

Propaganda.

ByCyanMoose · 17/02/2025 19:27

Genevieva · 17/02/2025 10:09

As I said, you really need to understand how he does business. He hasn’t said he would take it by force and there was a strong dose of humour in his offer to buy Greenland. The end point he has in mind is not always the same as the opening gambit. Like the Mexico example I gave.

This notion that every asinine, outwardly unhinged thing Trump does is actually some kind of 4D chess is about 4 years past its expiration date.

Trump is, allegedly, an adult of at least average intelligence and mental stability. It’s his responsibility to communicate clearly and be understood. If he doesn’t want to be looked at as a crazy person who wants to annex Greenland, he should stop saying he wants to annex Greenland.

For the record, if he was really being humorous it probably wouldn’t have resulted in a 45 minute argument with the Danish Prime Minister.

NewYorkBuilder · 17/02/2025 19:28

EasternEcho · 17/02/2025 18:51

You don't get to say what you want quoted back to you or not on a public forum unfortunately. If I choose to I will. No dictators here. I note that you have no specifics as a rebuttal.

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You’re correct, it’s not up to me to say what I want someone else to quote or not on a public forum. I shouldn’t have said that. As for a rebuttal I’m cooking for hungry people and it’s already late.

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