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How do you get out of work if afraid to drive in amber alert!?

173 replies

GLP1U5er · 24/01/2025 07:20

Really unsure what a legitimate reason could be!? Was already off 3 days last week poorly...!

OP posts:
UsernameMcUsername · 24/01/2025 09:15

I would take red warnings seriously, but amber is just life in winter in coastal-ish north-western Europe surely? I grew up on the west coast of Ireland & nothing would function if we stayed home every time it got to amber level. You'll be fine.

TopshopCropTop · 24/01/2025 09:18

This right here is why our economy has a major productivity problem.

Red warning definitely don’t leave the house. Hiding under the duvet for an amber warning is a total piss take. Hope you get sacked.

TheDandyLion · 24/01/2025 09:18

Perfectly safe to travel in an amber warning area.

Perfectly safe? What would be the point of a warning then? Amber is safe to proceed with caution.

Anonym00se · 24/01/2025 09:21

2chocolateoranges · 24/01/2025 07:31

Perfectly safe to travel in an amber warning area.

drive with care and be vigilant as always. You’ll be fine, no excuses needed.

“Perfectly safe” is pushing it! I’ve just watched a tree come down onto the road in our Close, and I’m only in an amber area. I’m glad I don’t have to go out in this today.

Harrysmummy246 · 24/01/2025 09:23

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 24/01/2025 09:12

I'm shocked at all the posters saying you should go to work even if you have a Red Weather Warning. The advice we're getting here is pretty explicit: do not travel anywhere unless you really can't help it. Responsible employers have all told people NOT to come to work today and lots of businesses/ shops (as well as schools, nurseries, and council-run services) are completely closed for the day. No bin collections, no buses or trains, no deliveries... Trade unions like Unite hospitality have said they will take action against any employers that try to force people to travel to work. There are branches, roof tiles and all sorts blowing around, and I don't blame people for feeling scared about driving!

This isn't just some "shitty weather" - this is being described as a "once in a generation storm" and we're forecast to have 80 MILES AN HOUR winds here today (and I live inland). I know this sounds difficult to imagine - because it really doesn't happen very often!

Edited

1987 is not more than a generation ago 😱

ExtraOnions · 24/01/2025 09:27

Amber here … we have three trees down already .. roads and rail blocked. Luckily nobody hurt.

MrsPeregrine · 24/01/2025 09:28

BlueSlate · 24/01/2025 07:25

You can't. Go to work.

Just out of interest, what would you say in the event of a red warning?

TraitorLinda · 24/01/2025 09:33

ItsByThere · 24/01/2025 07:28

A mental health day if it’s giving you anxiety?

What is one of these? I’m self employed, I’d like one, who do I bill?

SillyMaker · 24/01/2025 09:34

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biscuitsandbooks · 24/01/2025 09:38

Bless her @oakleaffy my own dog hasn't even moved from bed yet Grin

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 24/01/2025 09:39

Harrysmummy246 · 24/01/2025 09:23

1987 is not more than a generation ago 😱

I agree, but think this is going to be much worse than 1987.

TheTimeHasComeMyLittleFriendsToTalkOfOtherThings · 24/01/2025 09:40

Where do you live op?
I imagine the trains and buses are running?

I get that putting the information out there is a good thing overall, but one of the outcomes of serious sounding "warnings" is that it creates anxiety. That or people become desensitised to it and just ignore it which of course can be dangerous.

Op, don't let yourself find excuses here, this "how do I get out of it" mindset will do you no favours in the long run. I assume that you can safely get to work even if you are slightly late and there aren't road closures/trees down on your road etc or you would have told us. Big girl pants on, big coat on, phone, keys, go. Good luck x

Purpleturtle46 · 24/01/2025 09:41

ThreeLocusts · 24/01/2025 07:55

A wild contrast between this thread and the one about going to work in a sports shop in a red zone. Look at that thread, it cites the bit of employment law that says that you can't be penalized for not showing up if you reasonably believed going to work was dangerous.

If schools are closed in your area and no trains running, then clearly the dismissive responses on here are wrong. It's not perfectly safe out there. How safe or unsafe your route to work is only you can assess.

That was in a red warning area, so not the same.

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 24/01/2025 09:42

Gen Z?

biscuitsandbooks · 24/01/2025 09:42

Upstartled · 24/01/2025 09:14

An Amber alert is pretty much a guide to acknowledge that there may be some disruption to your travel plans, secure anything that is loose around your home and generally be aware of your surroundings. Basically, things that people would do without being told on looking out of the window and seeing that it's very windy.

We're in an Amber zone - 90mph winds, schools and businesses closed and no public transport available.

Cunningfungus · 24/01/2025 09:44

Caravaggiouch · 24/01/2025 08:56

Or, like, within a 2-3 mile radius assuming you’re able bodied? I live 3 miles from work, I don’t walk every day but if public transport isn’t running for any reason I can walk home in 45 mins or so, no drama.

Not an option for all but it’s not the ridiculous suggestion you’re claiming. Unless of course you can’t walk further than the end of your own street and assume every else also gets in their Range Rover to nip out for a pint of milk.

A fair few assumptions going on there @Caravaggiouch which as we all know, when you assume, you make an ass out of u and me.

You do know the world is a fairly large place and literally millions of people don’t live close to office blocks, hospitals (my own type of workplace), factories, shops etc? Maybe try looking at Google maps for a representation of this strange phenomena.

But hey, well done you for having the wherewithal to be able bodied enough to walk for a few miles and be able to get an abode that facilitates you walking to/from your workplace - #winningatlife. Please spare a thought for us mere mortals who for no reason at all other than sheer laziness are not able to do so.

biscuitsandbooks · 24/01/2025 09:44

TheTimeHasComeMyLittleFriendsToTalkOfOtherThings · 24/01/2025 09:40

Where do you live op?
I imagine the trains and buses are running?

I get that putting the information out there is a good thing overall, but one of the outcomes of serious sounding "warnings" is that it creates anxiety. That or people become desensitised to it and just ignore it which of course can be dangerous.

Op, don't let yourself find excuses here, this "how do I get out of it" mindset will do you no favours in the long run. I assume that you can safely get to work even if you are slightly late and there aren't road closures/trees down on your road etc or you would have told us. Big girl pants on, big coat on, phone, keys, go. Good luck x

We're in an Amber area and there's no public transport. All schools are closed and most businesses are shut too.

The wind outside is insane and it's only due to get stronger.

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 24/01/2025 09:44

Take a day's holiday. No company will give you a duvet day for a bit of wind.

Alltheyellowbirds · 24/01/2025 09:47

Harrysmummy246 · 24/01/2025 09:23

1987 is not more than a generation ago 😱

I’m afraid it is 😂 Makes you feel old doesn’t it?

Cunningfungus · 24/01/2025 09:47

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 24/01/2025 09:44

Take a day's holiday. No company will give you a duvet day for a bit of wind.

So how do you explain Tesco shutting all their shops and the NHS cancelling millions of non essential appointments?

TeamMandrake · 24/01/2025 09:47

There is not a hard line in the ground where it goes from Red (danger to life) to Amber (man up and crack on). As posted previously, lots of people in Amber areas have school, public transport and leisure centres etc closed. I am in an Amber area, and have a power cut already and there is no way I'd be driving in the weather outside my window. And it's not even forecast to be at its worst for hours. The alert system can be helpful, but people need to take responsibility for their own safety, using their own judgement.

TheTimeHasComeMyLittleFriendsToTalkOfOtherThings · 24/01/2025 09:47

biscuitsandbooks · 24/01/2025 09:44

We're in an Amber area and there's no public transport. All schools are closed and most businesses are shut too.

The wind outside is insane and it's only due to get stronger.

Ugh, I hope it calms down for you soon!

I think it all depends on where op is and the real life conditions which only she will know. If things are shut/clearly dangerous then she doesn't need an excuse - it's a clear reason to stay at home.

Nanny0gg · 24/01/2025 09:49

RedToothBrush · 24/01/2025 07:30

What do you make of all the people working in red areas to keep crucial services running? If you need to go to work you go and you are sensible. If you don't need to go, you don't.

You don't sit around making up dumb excuses not to go to work though.

Unless of course only essential journeys are advised...

Musicaltheatremum · 24/01/2025 09:50

NoBinturongsHereMate · 24/01/2025 08:35

Someone from Scottish Fire and Rescue has just been on the news saying don't go out if you're in a red or amber area.

I'm usually fairly relaxed about these warnings but the wind has really ramped up here and I'm not going out. Buses off though my son in law who was due to sit his bus driver test today had it cancelled but was told to still go in for training at 6am - inside. Despite the fact it's a red warning. Fortunately the union rep got involved and he and all the others have now been sent home.

Teateaandmoretea · 24/01/2025 09:51

UsernameMcUsername · 24/01/2025 09:15

I would take red warnings seriously, but amber is just life in winter in coastal-ish north-western Europe surely? I grew up on the west coast of Ireland & nothing would function if we stayed home every time it got to amber level. You'll be fine.

Areas that generally get less wind have more trees and trampolines etc. So it can be more dangerous in wind speeds that are lower than say Shetland.