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Killer claims to be ill

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Galatine · 23/01/2025 12:09

According to the BBC Axel Rudakubana is shouting in court that he is ill.
AIBU to say I couldn’t give a shit!

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fashionqueen0123 · 23/01/2025 13:27

zerogrey · 23/01/2025 12:55

What gets me is that his obsession with violence was RIGHT FUCKING THERE, and it wasn't enough for people to act. His parents could have done something, but no. Now three girls are dead.

His father is a black belt in karate for god's sake. Why on earth he didnt put his foot down and do something to stop his son is beyond me, and no I don't mean kick the shit out of him.

Yeah he stopped him getting a taxi to his previous school didn’t he? So why not call police then

Whiteskies · 23/01/2025 13:27

Wayne Cousins had numerous reports about his behaviour prior to him murdering Sarah Everard. He murdered her because he thought he could get away with it. He had got away with exposing himself to women and despite being reported, nothing happened.
Axel Rudakubana went to the trouble of deleting his browsing history. He thought he would get away with this crime. He knew what he was doing. There is no suggestion that he didn't have the capacity. He knows the difference between right and wrong. He is arrogant enough to think he will be allowed to blame others for his actions.

the80sweregreat · 23/01/2025 13:27

I hope he dies in prison or takes his own life
Piece of scum will be kept by taxpayers forever.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 23/01/2025 13:27

I gather that the judge has had him removed from the court.

Messedupovulation · 23/01/2025 13:27

EasternStandard · 23/01/2025 13:25

He’s an adult now and no he doesn’t need help

He needed help and didn’t get it that was a missed opportunity and needs to be looked at but the priority now is making sure others are kept safe from him.

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 23/01/2025 13:28

We don't lock people up until they've committed a crime, and he hadn't. It's very tricky when someone is clearly an unexploded bomb but there's no legal way to detain them.

I read about all the various interventions and it's clear his family had sought help numerous times, including repeatedly calling the police to the home. I feel sorry for his parents. They must have been desperately worried for years, dreading what he might do.

Messedupovulation · 23/01/2025 13:29

the80sweregreat · 23/01/2025 13:27

I hope he dies in prison or takes his own life
Piece of scum will be kept by taxpayers forever.

As a taxpayer I’d be very happy to keep him comfortably housed in prison for the rest of his life. I don’t see that as my taxes paying for a nice life for him I see it as my taxes contributing to keeping others safe from him.

NoWordForFluffy · 23/01/2025 13:29

Copernicus321 · 23/01/2025 12:20

He's trying to get committed to a secure hospital rather than an ordinary prison. Secure hosipitals are safer for inmates such as he, not by much but he knows that he won't be safe in an ordinary prison even under rule 43 segregation.

Going back to this, they're not trying to get a secure prison. His defence team didn't get a psych report which would've opened the door for this, apparently.

Naunet · 23/01/2025 13:29

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 23/01/2025 13:28

We don't lock people up until they've committed a crime, and he hadn't. It's very tricky when someone is clearly an unexploded bomb but there's no legal way to detain them.

I read about all the various interventions and it's clear his family had sought help numerous times, including repeatedly calling the police to the home. I feel sorry for his parents. They must have been desperately worried for years, dreading what he might do.

He had actually, he'd committed several crimes.

fashionqueen0123 · 23/01/2025 13:29

Whiteskies · 23/01/2025 13:17

He is not mad though. He had capacity and rejoiced when the specific plans he made worked. He has grown up in the UK and he is used to being indulged about his behavior. He was reported to Prevent three times. He was permanently excluded from one school and refused to attend the next school. He was completely aware of his rights. It will be a big shock to him that our society refuses to indulge his behaviour any more.
His next trick will be to claim that because Prevent did not step in and help him, they allowed him to behave in a violent way. Therefore, he will claim that the blame does not lie with him but with others.
He is already refusing to listen and to acknowledge what he did.

I agree. I’m glad the judge told
him that he was in control of todays proceedings and not him!

MounjaroOnMyMind · 23/01/2025 13:29

The event was advertised. That's what was so heart-breaking, that the little girls had so looked forward to the day.

The boy is clearly mentally very unwell. Everyone has been let down here. Those of you saying his parents should have done something - do you really think they weren't terrified of him? That they hadn't had a life of sheer hell with him? That they hadn't reported him again and again. It's surprising he hadn't killed them - family are the usual targets.

EsmaCannonball · 23/01/2025 13:29

murasaki · 23/01/2025 13:24

At least he pled guilty, unlike the Nottingham man who killed 3 people. I remain unconvinced that he's mentally ill too.

In the aftermath of that case it emerged that a man who had fairly recently beaten a female security guard to death was already going on lone trips to shops and the gym during day release from a mental health facility. IIRC, he had a history of violence and arson attacks.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 23/01/2025 13:30

GirlOfThe70s · 23/01/2025 12:45

I was wondering how the targetting of the dance school event came about? He got in a taxi to go there, armed with the knives - how did he know the school existed and that there would be little girls there that precise morning?

Well, it’s a total coincidence that I. S. I. S connected terrorists were targeting the Taylor Swift concerts in Germany ( they were cancelled by the German Authorities) during the same time frame. And that the Manchester attack was aimed at young girls attending a pop concert given by a singer who is not exactly draped in yards of extraneous fabric.

Because there is no way that people interested in that sort of action could contact and influence each other, is there?

Toucanfusingforme · 23/01/2025 13:30

BlazenWeights · 23/01/2025 12:47

I hate that people have to die before mentally ill people are taken serious. This person has had history with police/mental services even expelled from a school for taking a knife in and threatening to kill his school mates for being bullied. That’s not a normal response to being bullied and it was on more than one occasion. Now he has killed innocent children and their families would always be in pain regardless of what sentence he gets. You know what would have been better? Locking him up BEFORE he committed this harrowing crime. I don’t really care what kind of prison he ends up. He’s still a very sick person regardless and frankly would probably be even sicker if he gets released at some point. My sympathy lies with the family of his victims . I’m sure his family are also in pain but they knew their child was sick, and I have not read anywhere that they asked for him to be committed to any place for help .

While I don’t disagree with your sentiments, the problem is that you can’t lock people up “in case” something happens. How would you decide who gets locked up? If you tried, there would be a huge outcry about their human rights being contravened. All the mental health lobby groups would be up in arms because we used to lock people up “for being nutters” and a lot of people with mental health issues suffered as a result of that. As a consequence of more care in the community, (and I’m not saying care in the community is a bad idea) the odd dangerous person is left free to roam and cause harm unfortunately.

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 23/01/2025 13:31

Naunet · 23/01/2025 13:29

He had actually, he'd committed several crimes.

But nothing he could be jailed for.

Dotjones · 23/01/2025 13:31

murasaki · 23/01/2025 13:20

Some, sure, like freedom, but food, shelter , not being executed, those ones still apply.

That's a choice made by society though. Our society has chosen that the right to freedom can be curtailed in set circumstances. Some societies have chosen to curtail the right to food and proper shelter for people in some circumstances (Stalin-era political prisoners freezing to death in remote labour camps for instance). Some societies like the USA allow the death penalty in set circumstances.

As a society we can change our mind. People like this killer cannot be executed under our laws today. Under the laws of a few decades ago they could have been, and perhaps in a more enlightened future where the rights of the innocent are seen as more important than the rights of the criminal, executions of offenders will take place in Britain again.

zerogrey · 23/01/2025 13:31

Luminousalumnus · 23/01/2025 13:10

What the heck do you think his father could have done? He had been known to Prevent and mental health services pretty much all his life. There is no help for people like this and this sort of crime will happen again and again until we have proper fit for purposes mental health services.

Well let's see

Stopped him from fucking going out for one.

SerafinasGoose · 23/01/2025 13:31

I can't read it. It's just too harrowing.

I'm in despair at the alarming, horrific, culturally twisted, warped, sick malady that is the regularlity of violence perpetrated against women and girls. Within the space of a day, another control freak who murdered a woman who had the temerity to end her relationship with him has also been sentenced. Three innocent little girls dead. Two sisters and their mother gone in an instant because yet another man cannot bear to hear the word 'no'. And this appalling case also illustrates why so many threads on MN caution women to be so careful when leaving men like this - why we recommend women's aid and getting out by stealth - the period just after leaving an abusive, dangerous man is such a dangerous time for women.

Women and girls are being killed with alarming regularity, in numbers which would raise a national outcry were this happening to any other demographic, and society doesn't give a fuck. And then people wonder why we constantly risk assess, or find it hard to trust men? I can't even put into words how despairing and filled with rage this makes me.

And before the NAMALTs turn up with their never-ending parrot cry, don't fucking bother.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/01/2025 13:31

Everything I read about this case just shouts more and more that the fact he was dangerous should have been picked up and acted on.

I’m really glad there’s an enquiry that’s looking into everything that went on, not just some things picked and chosen by those with an agenda one way or the other.

Claiming to be ill is absolutely a common game amongst crims. But equally doesn’t mean he isn’t also mentally ill. Doesn’t excuse him (I’m not saying he was so mentally ill as not to be able to form an intention- everything he’s done and said since suggests he probably is) but that’s got to be something that’s addressed in terms of preventing a repeat and dealing with him appropriately.

sky1267 · 23/01/2025 13:32

‘Care in the community’ now means dangerous lunatics are roaming the streets.

that being said he has no diagnosed mental health issues except autism? He is bad, not mad in my opinion

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 23/01/2025 13:32

SquirrelSoShiny · 23/01/2025 12:38

Everything about this case is horrendous, not least the fact that austerity meant that mental health services have been decimated. Imagine if he had actually been treated (and if necessary detained) before he became the man on the news.

The sad truth is this could have been prevented but the swing towards 'care' in the community has gone way too far. Leaving a very mentally ill young man in his bedroom on the internet for years doesn't count as 'care' by any stretch. The law needs to change in so many ways. There are so many young men like this in Britain and they are ticking time bombs.

This is correct.

2025willbemytime · 23/01/2025 13:32

What the newsreader has been saying about the killer is awful. Saying that he'd said he's glad the little girls are dead. I'm not sure if we should be told this as the parents will hear it. She then said they've chosen to not say some of the more harrowing things. This annoys me as it is as if they want credit.

Interested in other peoples opinions.

BashfulClam · 23/01/2025 13:33

Hopefully he dies and we deduct have to pay to keep him locked up then. I’m sure more people will be glad of his death.

Naunet · 23/01/2025 13:33

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 23/01/2025 13:31

But nothing he could be jailed for.

That's debatable

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/01/2025 13:33

Naunet · 23/01/2025 13:24

Do you have evidence to back this claim that you can post? I'd be very interested to learn more about this, specifically the claim that mentally ill men and women commit violence at the same rate.

Edited

https://www.apa.org/monitor/2021/04/ce-mental-illness

Is a good start. Yes men are more likely to be violent than women as a baseline due to other factors. But when it comes to mental illness causing violence, the impact is about equal on both sexes.

Mental illness and violence: Debunking myths, addressing realities

Research is helping to tease apart why some people with serious mental illness are prone to violence while others are not, and how clinicians and others can help through improved treatment and informed myth-busting.

https://www.apa.org/monitor/2021/04/ce-mental-illness

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