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Should she replace it? SHE RETURNED IT!

463 replies

Langarg · 22/01/2025 19:57

Goodness me. I can’t believe I am back with an update. After starting the small claims process, look what turned up on my doorstep today! My Dyson Airwrap!!!

I hadn’t heard a single peep from my friend since my last updates on the previous thread.

What a shock I got when I got a notification from my ring doorbell this afternoon saying there was person at my front door. I checked and it was my friend sheepishly dropping a bag on my doorstep!

I was at work and knew I wasn’t going to be home for a few more hours. I sent my neighbour a text message asking her to take it in. I couldn’t wait to get home from work to see what she had dropped off 🤣 was it the original? Was it a brand new replacement? Was it the £150 replacement from Facebook?

When I got home and checked it out it appeared to be my original airwrap. I tested it and it worked just fine (so much for the sister spilling the wine!) and I checked the serial number and it definitely is mine!

What an absolute rollercoaster! I wasn’t sure if I should text my friend acknowledging the eventual return of the airwrap or not?

Link to my original thread for anyone interested who may have missed it… https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5241002-should-she-replace-it?page=40&reply=141090978

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My friend asked if she could borrow my Dyson airwrap for her wedding as money was tight and she couldn’t afford a hairdresser. It was a small wedding...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5241002-should-she-replace-it?page=40&reply=141090978

OP posts:
Langarg · 22/01/2025 20:39

Polecat07 · 22/01/2025 20:35

I thought it was in a dark blue box, wasn't an excuse made about not seeing it left behind against a dark blue carpet?

Did you have your original serial number just written down somewhere?

It is in a dark blue box, I attached a picture.

No I didn’t have my serial number written down. If you log in to ‘my Dyson’ it lists all of your Dyson products along with their serial number. The serial number is attached to a sticker on the airwrap itself

OP posts:
Americano75 · 22/01/2025 20:40

The thieving bitch! She clearly shit herself when she got the letter.

Polecat07 · 22/01/2025 20:40

The picture is why I asked, looks black!
Must just be my screen then

AllEndeavour · 22/01/2025 20:41

Oh I love it when the bad guy loses. Well done for perservering OP

Aftergloww · 22/01/2025 20:41

lmao the absolute nerve 😭 she was trying to get away with a self appointed involuntary wedding gift, I can’t

Onlyhereforthebatshitneighbours · 22/01/2025 20:42

AlexisP90 · 22/01/2025 20:39

OP can I borrow the air wrap for my wedding?

Full disclosure the hotel does have blue carpets and my sister likes a wine but you'll definitely get it back.

Unless there is a weather warning

I'd forgotten about the weather warning!

Ellie56 · 22/01/2025 20:42

Americano75 · 22/01/2025 20:40

The thieving bitch! She clearly shit herself when she got the letter.

Yep this is the only reason you've got it back. What a lying thieving CF she is.

Oioisavaloy27 · 22/01/2025 20:43

Well done for challenging her and getting it back! What a nerve she has!

MaggieFS · 22/01/2025 20:46

Well isn't that fascinating. Not gone missing at the hotel. Not got broken by her sister spilling wine. Whatever has happened in the interim, she has lied to you.

I hadn't realised you'd started legal proceedings. Had you heard anything at all from her?

Greyish2025 · 22/01/2025 20:46

Langarg · 22/01/2025 20:22

Yes I agree she couldn’t face me, although I’m surprised she didn’t get her DH or someone else to drop it off. I so wish I was working from home so I could have opened the door to her 🤣.

I did send the letter before action in the hope it would prompt her to either return it or replace it. It took a lot for me to do that but I had to remind myself how much she’d disrespected our friendship. I’m not sure if I would have progressed with the small claims court if I’m honest

Out of interest, did you need a solicitor to write the ‘letter before action’ and if you did, how much did it cost?

Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 22/01/2025 20:46

Did she definitely steal it or did the hotel find it and return it?

Jobsharenightmare · 22/01/2025 20:47

Polecat07 · 22/01/2025 20:40

The picture is why I asked, looks black!
Must just be my screen then

Looks blue to me

Can't believe she just had it all along

Delphiniumandlupins · 22/01/2025 20:48

mumedu · 22/01/2025 20:33

No, I think she said the hotel people may have stolen it.

I think Version 1 was left at hotel. Then that became hotel can't find it so staff must have stolen it. Then, my sister borrowed it, spilt wine over it and it's no longer working. Interspersed with "you've ruined my wedding day by demanding that I replace the thing you lent me".

AlexisP90 · 22/01/2025 20:49

Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 22/01/2025 20:46

Did she definitely steal it or did the hotel find it and return it?

I love people like you and thinking the best in people.

Alas surely if the hotel had found it it wouldn't have been a cloak and dagger door stop drop off while OP was out without any message

TopshopCropTop · 22/01/2025 20:49

A MN saga for the ages congrats OP justice prevailed!

Strictlymad · 22/01/2025 20:49

Knock me down with a feather! I’d love to know what actually happened to it, as it’s not broken after all!

8cafe · 22/01/2025 20:50

Ahh, such good news. She plucked it back out of her arse and now it's back. The end.

Curtainqueen · 22/01/2025 20:50

Imagine if she actually gave or actually sold it to her sister or a friend and now she's had to make a prat of herself by having to ask for it/buy it back to get herself out of even more trouble. Now they will be thinking she's a complete twat too. Own goal. 😂

BalalaikaBalaclavaBaklava · 22/01/2025 20:51

Langarg · 22/01/2025 20:39

It is in a dark blue box, I attached a picture.

No I didn’t have my serial number written down. If you log in to ‘my Dyson’ it lists all of your Dyson products along with their serial number. The serial number is attached to a sticker on the airwrap itself

If you are truly interested in discovering the truth at the heart of all this, I bet Dyson would have a record of any repairs to your serial numbered Air Wrap. You probably just want to put this behind you, but I'd love to know 😉

Wellwellwellys · 22/01/2025 20:52

Really pleased you got it back. I’m not one bit surprised that the original reappeared. Very glad you’ve now seen this ‘friends’ true colours.

dapsnotplimsolls · 22/01/2025 20:52

If the whole sister thing was cobblers, I bet her sister isn't impressed at being a scapegoat!

Littlemisscapable · 22/01/2025 20:53

Well least we have a conclusion, my dh has asked me every other day since if there was an update (Well January is a boring month) ! I'm really surprised she returned it....what was her motive ?!

Onlyhereforthebatshitneighbours · 22/01/2025 20:53

I still can't get my head around the fact that had stolen it all along! All those cynical but apparently wise posters were right!

DollieBantrysPantry · 22/01/2025 20:54

Holy moly what an update!!!! It’s great you’ve got it back and in full working order. I now hope you never hear from her ever again! 😂

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 22/01/2025 20:54

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