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That picture of the Southport killer

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User09678 · 20/01/2025 17:11

That has been circulating today.

Remember that sweet boy that was in all the reports at the time? The one who looked about nine?

Can anyone think of any other serious criminal who has pictures of them as a child out in the press?

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cakeorwine · 20/01/2025 20:24

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Would it suit your beliefs if he was an Islamic terrorist?

What would you think if it turned out he was just someone who had an obsession with violence, with genocide, who watched graphic murders on the computer and who decided to murder little girls at a dance class but was not motivated by terrorism?

Is it "easier" to think he was an Islamic terrorist rather than there being something else going on?

HangryLikeTheHulk · 20/01/2025 20:25

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Nope.

I am talking about earlier where you shared a conspiracy theory popular among far-right accounts on x dot com alleging that a senior UK politician acting as a lawyer helped the Rudakabana family settle in the UK.

And you said that the “facts” were there if you “did your own research”.

So let’s go, evidence this serious allegation you are parrotting here.

bombastix · 20/01/2025 20:25

Wakeywake · 20/01/2025 19:57

Rather than focusing on why Prevent did nothing (I understand that they had no evidence of terrorism), I would be more interested in finding out whether he was reported to the police for his actual offences (assaulting a fellow student, carrying a knife). If not, why not? If yes, what did the police do? Tens of thousands of children are sentenced every year, knife possession mostly gets them a community order and they are free to roam the streets. And that's just the kids that the police decide to investigate and the CPS to prosecute. If no one bothers reporting them or the police don't bother investigating, how do we expect anything to change?

Yes. This is key, along with any diagnosis of a psychiatric disorder that was not officially done to avoid a stigma. The reality is that he should not have been in his home. He was a dangerous individual. There seem to be two possibilities;

  1. state services pushed hjm into the care of his family owing to lack of resource and no actual offending

  2. the family said they would care for him and downplayed the danger he represented. The idea his father persuaded him not to leave the house with a knife is very concerning

RafaistheKingofClay · 20/01/2025 20:26

Coldanddamp · 20/01/2025 20:23

For me the bigger issue is how do you stop this type of violence and ensure there aren't more deaths. Will an inquiry really change anything?

No. But we get to say we’ve had an inquiry.

swimsong · 20/01/2025 20:26

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It's pretty obvious that 'research' to you means scrolling throught twitter.

"Viral social media rumours claiming that Sir Keir Starmer represented the father of Southport suspect Axel Rudakubana in an asylum case are untrue, Downing Street said today.
The claims were yesterday circulated widely on X, formerly known as Twitter, by users who were citing them as evidence of an alleged cover-up over the true circumstances of the Southport stabbings in which three girls aged six to nine died.
But a Downing Street spokesperson today confirmed that the Prime Minister had not represented Rudakubana’s father in 2003."

And this from a right wing newspaper that I'm sure would've preferred to report the opposite.

Sir Keir Starmer Updates and Labour Party Leader News | Daily Mail Online

Get news and updates on Sir Keir Starmer, Labour Party Leader and Leader of the Opposition as the UK responds to the coronavirus pandemic.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/keir-starmer/index.html

BlueSilverCats · 20/01/2025 20:26

Coldanddamp · 20/01/2025 20:23

For me the bigger issue is how do you stop this type of violence and ensure there aren't more deaths. Will an inquiry really change anything?

Ideally, yes. Because he has a background full of red flags, and various agencies involved throughout the years.

LivelySwan · 20/01/2025 20:26

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soupfiend · 20/01/2025 20:26

lemmein · 20/01/2025 20:19

I think a hard truth to accept is really there's nothing much we can do with the system we currently have when someone is so damaged/ill/insane to prevent them from committing horrific crimes.

Would CAHMs really have been able to turn this lad around? Doubtful.

We can't incarcerate people on what they 'might' do - well, we can, but it's frowned upon. You hear it all the time with men who abuse their exes then go on to murder them....so many warnings, but what realistically can anybody do? They might get a few months for stalking/whatever, but until they do something horrific they're always going to be let back out to carry on their terror.

I dunno, I'm probably being very defeatist but after working in social services I left feeling that you are just constantly fighting fires with your fingers crossed that they don't escalate into a full blaze. It's rare to feel like you've actually made a difference - the issues are so much bigger than the families you support. Some people are so damaged that no amount of therapy/intervention/support will change their mindset (not speaking about AR here, I don't know his story)

I don't know how big a role social media had in ARs life but imo that's where a lot of this stuff starts. Twitter is full of hate and misinformation, yet is being heralded as a platform of 'free speech'. Until we tighten the reigns on social media companies these seeds of hate will continue to be sown in the minds of 'vulnerable' people - but that poses its own problems of who decides what's misinformation? Look at the likes of Andrew Tate and the platform he has!

There doesn't seem to be an appetite to try to unpick what has happened to turn a young choir boy into a knife-wielding monster. The whole narrative around this case is who can we blame. No 'lessons will be learned'.

Arghhh the whole situation is grim, I'm feeling really shitty and helpless about everything today Sad

I said as much earlier, the horrible reality is that with people like this the only way of preventing something like this is to have a system which locks up people as a prevenative. There isnt the appetite for that

Yet when something like this happens there are post after post asking why something wasnt done, but theres no concept within the question of what that something might be? What is it people think would have stopped this and if its locking people up without cause then we have to take that on the chin as a society and think that it might be your child that happens to

Im the first in the queue to criticise CAMHS but what would they have done, how do you provide therapy to someone that is not likely to recognise their behaviour or want to change it or want to engage? You cant force therapy on someone it doesnt work like that. So are we talking forcible medication and so what kind, a sedative so he walks around drugged? An anti psychotic? Who forces it on him a nurse who visits every day? His mum? How do you restrain him? What if he then says the person restraining him assaulted him, then they are suspended, then round and round it goes and you cant find someone willing to do that role because he is too 'high risk'.

oakleaffy · 20/01/2025 20:27

Coldanddamp · 20/01/2025 20:23

For me the bigger issue is how do you stop this type of violence and ensure there aren't more deaths. Will an inquiry really change anything?

Sadly it won't change anything. Lessons are never learned. ''Thoughts and prayers''...until the next atrocity.

PeppyGreenFinch · 20/01/2025 20:28

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This will blow your mind. Two far right white men downloaded the same Al Qaeda training manual and then threatened Muslims and damaged a mosque.

Are you saying these men were Muslim too?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-devon-23813458.amp

Torquay man admits having terrorism manual - BBC News

A man who triggered a terrorism alert in Torquay admits downloading an Al Qaeda training manual.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-devon-23813458.amp

LivelySwan · 20/01/2025 20:28

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cakeorwine · 20/01/2025 20:29

PeppyGreenFinch · 20/01/2025 20:28

This will blow your mind. Two far right white men downloaded the same Al Qaeda training manual and then threatened Muslims and damaged a mosque.

Are you saying these men were Muslim too?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-devon-23813458.amp

It's interesting to see how people react when information that contradicts a view they have formed is presented to people.

ThesebeautifulthingsthatIvegot · 20/01/2025 20:29

SulkySeagull · 20/01/2025 20:18

@whathaveiforgotten as has been debated an discussed throughout this entire thread - in this instance yes! The left wing press and Kier Starmer desperately tried to deflect from the fact this was probably a racially motivated extremist attack by painting the perp to be a sweet, welsh lad who had been failed by the MH system.

But now we know the original assumptions were right all along…

How do you know that? How do you know it was racially motivated?

Tittat50 · 20/01/2025 20:29

bombastix · 20/01/2025 20:25

Yes. This is key, along with any diagnosis of a psychiatric disorder that was not officially done to avoid a stigma. The reality is that he should not have been in his home. He was a dangerous individual. There seem to be two possibilities;

  1. state services pushed hjm into the care of his family owing to lack of resource and no actual offending

  2. the family said they would care for him and downplayed the danger he represented. The idea his father persuaded him not to leave the house with a knife is very concerning

Agree. I'm keen to learn exactly what happened along the way regards highlighting, flagging and if it happened, requesting support for his mental health issues / conditions/ any other conditions.

( Yes I know I need to find evidence. I'll eat my hat if he wasn't suspected at least of significant MH issues based on his totally fucked behaviour).

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 20/01/2025 20:30

User09678 · 20/01/2025 17:50

Yeah, I do

It's frightening to think that you have the right to vote.

EasternStandard · 20/01/2025 20:30

Only a trial would give the level of detail on many of these questions

cakeorwine · 20/01/2025 20:30

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Can you?

Do you always just go on the evidence you have been given to you to form your view?

soupfiend · 20/01/2025 20:30

bombastix · 20/01/2025 20:25

Yes. This is key, along with any diagnosis of a psychiatric disorder that was not officially done to avoid a stigma. The reality is that he should not have been in his home. He was a dangerous individual. There seem to be two possibilities;

  1. state services pushed hjm into the care of his family owing to lack of resource and no actual offending

  2. the family said they would care for him and downplayed the danger he represented. The idea his father persuaded him not to leave the house with a knife is very concerning

I dont understand your point 1 - are you suggesting that if he was in care with the LA then somehow this wouldtn have happened?

And surely its a positive thing that his father prevented him going out with a knife?

KnittyNell · 20/01/2025 20:31

PandoraSox · 20/01/2025 17:42

He wasn't an Islamic extremist.

Are you sure? That’s not what I’ve heard.

EasternStandard · 20/01/2025 20:33

This is key, along with any diagnosis of a psychiatric disorder that was not officially done to avoid a stigma.

This is not known

Tittat50 · 20/01/2025 20:33

@lemmein @soupfiend totally agree. There are huge failings and I'm happy to highlight that. But there are tricky situations where you can't really do much until the shit hits the fan.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 20/01/2025 20:33

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Sure. So where’s your research on your allegation that a senior UK politician acting as a lawyer helped bring the Rudakubana family to the UK ?

Your allegation, very popular topic for far-right accounts on x dot com.

Let’s have it: your next post contains the evidence, right ?

PandoraSox · 20/01/2025 20:33

KnittyNell · 20/01/2025 20:31

Are you sure? That’s not what I’ve heard.

Where have you heard he was? Could you link please?

KnittyNell · 20/01/2025 20:33

Stop making excuses for the bastard!
It should be dangling from a noose.

cakeorwine · 20/01/2025 20:33

KnittyNell · 20/01/2025 20:31

Are you sure? That’s not what I’ve heard.

There are lots of comments and links on this thread to help you see how people have reached different conclusions.

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