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Is it really that wrong to want for your country what Trump stands for?

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Anniedash · 20/01/2025 06:51

I know that there are plenty of threads on Trump at the moment, but most of them are designed to rubbish the guy. That’s been done to death in the last 10 years.

He has still won two presidential elections so perhaps it’s time to move the discussion on a bit.Let’s put aside Trump’s personality, bluster, and whether he will deliver or not, for a second.

Is it really so wrong and bad to want to go for what his core message is? Why is the far right label used so liberally and will we ever see a government in this country which can tackle this madness -

A stop to or huge reduction in illegal immigration

Putting your own country first ahead of internationalism. It’s not a novel idea and certainly not a byword for automatically wanting war. In fact Trump’s argument is that war is bad

Saying no the climate hysteria. Climate change is real but climate emergency seems to be a made up concept to simply tax people to death to re distribute taxes to government lobbyists. Why should people accept being poorer in the name of this dangerous ideology

Putting a stop to woke madness. When did it become ok for state sponsored mutilation of children? Men pretending to be women in prison and hospitals getting access to women’s spaces. People being sanctioned do not using the correct pronouns

Driving the economy forward and putting a stop to endless freebies for those who have no intention of contributing to the system and refuse to work because they are sad.

The fact that someone as eccentric as Trump has to fly the flag for common sense ideas shows you just how batshit the political discourse has become.

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1dayatatime · 22/01/2025 09:29

@Alexandra2001

"You re happy he has released 1500 people convicted of attacking law enforcement officers & elected politicians, many of whom fled for their lives but all good with you."

So are you happy that Starmer has early released 1,700 people convicted of crimes such as:

Burglars
Fraudsters
Rioters
Drug dealers
Manslaughter

uk.news.yahoo.com/early-prison-release-scheme-offences-102959037.html#:~:text=Those%20criminals%20serving%20prison%20sentences,a%20history%20of%20domestic%20violence.

Tandora · 22/01/2025 09:36

RingoJuice · 22/01/2025 09:25

Anemic growth but growth nonetheless. Honestly I don’t understand this attitude of resentment towards millionaires and billionaires. It’s a good thing to have them in your country and to have had people accumulate wealth in your country. You won’t want them to leave, that’s for sure.

So by “terminal decline” you actually meant growth?
Is this Trump-speak? Alternative fact discourse?

rewilded · 22/01/2025 09:37

GreenTeaSipper · 22/01/2025 09:08

I think you need to stop getting your information from Fox News. You clearly don’t know anything about British politics, if you are making that statement. 14 years of Tory rule, of Conservative rule decimated the UK in so many ways, as the Torys plundered and dismantled this country, piece by piece, whilst personally profiting from all the chaos they created in their wake. Starmar and his Labour crew, are not the best government we’ve for sure, but they absolute did not create the mess that we have in this country. It was the Tory government.

No, Tony Blair started the chaos with his open door approach to immigration, we are still feeling the effects of this today.

Alexandra2001 · 22/01/2025 09:45

1dayatatime · 22/01/2025 09:29

@Alexandra2001

"You re happy he has released 1500 people convicted of attacking law enforcement officers & elected politicians, many of whom fled for their lives but all good with you."

So are you happy that Starmer has early released 1,700 people convicted of crimes such as:

Burglars
Fraudsters
Rioters
Drug dealers
Manslaughter

uk.news.yahoo.com/early-prison-release-scheme-offences-102959037.html#:~:text=Those%20criminals%20serving%20prison%20sentences,a%20history%20of%20domestic%20violence.

No i'm not but there is a difference here that you know all too well... the UK has run out of Prison space, due to the Tories not building/maintaining prisons or retaining staff.

I also missed the bit where Starmer called these prisoners "Hostages"

Early release was also used extensively by the Tories, note you stayed quiet over that.....

GreenTeaSipper · 22/01/2025 09:46

And it was the Tories that dismantled and destabilised this country from the ground up. The detrimental ravages of Brexit will be felt for generations to come.

BIossomtoes · 22/01/2025 09:47

RingoJuice · 22/01/2025 09:11

I don’t consider the Tories ‘conservative’, not in the least.

And yeah, there SHOULD be a lot more millionaires and billionaires than in 2010. It’s called a growing economy.

Should there also be 2,000 more foodbanks? Is that indicative of a growing economy?

brizzledad · 22/01/2025 09:48

Anniedash · 20/01/2025 06:51

I know that there are plenty of threads on Trump at the moment, but most of them are designed to rubbish the guy. That’s been done to death in the last 10 years.

He has still won two presidential elections so perhaps it’s time to move the discussion on a bit.Let’s put aside Trump’s personality, bluster, and whether he will deliver or not, for a second.

Is it really so wrong and bad to want to go for what his core message is? Why is the far right label used so liberally and will we ever see a government in this country which can tackle this madness -

A stop to or huge reduction in illegal immigration

Putting your own country first ahead of internationalism. It’s not a novel idea and certainly not a byword for automatically wanting war. In fact Trump’s argument is that war is bad

Saying no the climate hysteria. Climate change is real but climate emergency seems to be a made up concept to simply tax people to death to re distribute taxes to government lobbyists. Why should people accept being poorer in the name of this dangerous ideology

Putting a stop to woke madness. When did it become ok for state sponsored mutilation of children? Men pretending to be women in prison and hospitals getting access to women’s spaces. People being sanctioned do not using the correct pronouns

Driving the economy forward and putting a stop to endless freebies for those who have no intention of contributing to the system and refuse to work because they are sad.

The fact that someone as eccentric as Trump has to fly the flag for common sense ideas shows you just how batshit the political discourse has become.

I love how this list of 'things he's doing right' gets more batshit the further down it goes.
Kick out 'foreigns'
Isolationism
Climate change denial
Intolerance
Beat up on the poor
Common sense

Alexandra2001 · 22/01/2025 09:49

rewilded · 22/01/2025 09:37

No, Tony Blair started the chaos with his open door approach to immigration, we are still feeling the effects of this today.

Migrants from fellow European countries, who came here solely to work, didn't bring family dependents with them & then returned.... vs migrants from SE Asia & Africa, with family members, who will never return.

Oh and then the Tories allowed in up to 5m people from Hong Kong, vast majority NOT fleeing persecution, HK is one of the worlds fastest growing economies and has huge international presence, and a large international university.
Iran it is not.

Yes a good deal all round.

Goldenbear · 22/01/2025 09:51

RingoJuice · 22/01/2025 04:54

America has some real challenges but nobody is looking to the United Kingdom for leadership on any of those challenges. You can’t even deport literal criminals without bleeding heart judges bleating about their ‘family rights’ or some shit. EU and US were at economic parity just 20 years ago—wtf happened????

Honestly I’m ecstatic Trump won (again) and I hope it can fix some serious issues at home.

When has the U.S.A ever looked to the UK for leadership? You talk of 'bleeding heart' liberals but that's you misunderstanding of UK culture.

The European descendants to America that you refer to from the UK at least, were the Puritans who were rejecting the folklore, Shape shifting pagans, moving to America to reject kings and queens, birthrights and to pursue their religious, moral convictions. Culturally the British have always had a preference for the characters that subvert the rules, the pagan origins mean that there is a understanding that we are guests on this earth and nature is a powerful force more so than any person. The culture that we have grown up with informs our behaviour, we are not a naturally obedient nation, hence why no one person in politics is ever going to be revered in a way that is possible in a highly religious and moral culture, like exists in America. For many of us this, the folklore culture, the tricksters triumphing, was reflected in the stories and fairy tales we were told as children and the stories we tell our children, Harry Potter, Peter Pan, The Chronicles of Narnia they describe parallel universes that explore children's fears and anxieties in the universe but they are not the realistic, moral tales of Mark Twain where spiritual development is at the heart of them, redeeming your sins. Mary Poppins for example, is a challenge to stereotypes about women, she empowers the children and the women around her, the British like that, they like the subversion.

Boris Johnson played on that Toad of Toad Hall character as he knew it appeals to British sensibilities, breaking some of the rules but cheering everyone up with it.

It is of course your preogative to see this as a negative but in reality it is just a different cultural outlook, we don't need to be divided over it.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2025 09:54

Tandora · 22/01/2025 09:36

So by “terminal decline” you actually meant growth?
Is this Trump-speak? Alternative fact discourse?

Tbf you need higher growth than we have now not to decline

Goldenbear · 22/01/2025 09:59

RingoJuice · 22/01/2025 09:11

I don’t consider the Tories ‘conservative’, not in the least.

And yeah, there SHOULD be a lot more millionaires and billionaires than in 2010. It’s called a growing economy.

Well not at the expense of everyone else's standard of living, we don't have the American Dream here. How much money is enough, what is the point of lots of very, very, wealthy people at the expense of everyone else and the most impoverished living a life last seen in the Victorian era!

Goldenbear · 22/01/2025 10:05

RingoJuice · 22/01/2025 08:03

Women are dying because they cannot access abortion services when they are carrying a dangerous pregnancy

I am pro-choice and wish these deep
red states would make a different choice, but I respect that this is their decision.

About dangerous pregnancies—this is more about physician malpractice. They’d rather protect themselves from prosecution than stand on their medical determination on nonviable
pregnancies. I hope the bereaved families sue the shit out of them as an example to others.

trying to reverse the law on gay marriage

This was not put forward on the campaign trail so I’ll take it as fake news.

'Their decision', rather flippant about completely avoidable deaths, it is 2025 not the dark ages! You have lauded the benefits of fossil fuels and how they have allowed you to live in your American utopia but that is cold comfort if you have no rights if you happen to be a woman living in the wrong state!

User09678 · 22/01/2025 10:05

Goldenbear · 22/01/2025 09:51

When has the U.S.A ever looked to the UK for leadership? You talk of 'bleeding heart' liberals but that's you misunderstanding of UK culture.

The European descendants to America that you refer to from the UK at least, were the Puritans who were rejecting the folklore, Shape shifting pagans, moving to America to reject kings and queens, birthrights and to pursue their religious, moral convictions. Culturally the British have always had a preference for the characters that subvert the rules, the pagan origins mean that there is a understanding that we are guests on this earth and nature is a powerful force more so than any person. The culture that we have grown up with informs our behaviour, we are not a naturally obedient nation, hence why no one person in politics is ever going to be revered in a way that is possible in a highly religious and moral culture, like exists in America. For many of us this, the folklore culture, the tricksters triumphing, was reflected in the stories and fairy tales we were told as children and the stories we tell our children, Harry Potter, Peter Pan, The Chronicles of Narnia they describe parallel universes that explore children's fears and anxieties in the universe but they are not the realistic, moral tales of Mark Twain where spiritual development is at the heart of them, redeeming your sins. Mary Poppins for example, is a challenge to stereotypes about women, she empowers the children and the women around her, the British like that, they like the subversion.

Boris Johnson played on that Toad of Toad Hall character as he knew it appeals to British sensibilities, breaking some of the rules but cheering everyone up with it.

It is of course your preogative to see this as a negative but in reality it is just a different cultural outlook, we don't need to be divided over it.

You say the Brits aren't obedient. But we are not exactly disobedient either. We are one of the rare states that don't have a codified constitution, we've never had a revolution.

Discombobble · 22/01/2025 10:07

flutterby1 · 20/01/2025 07:23

It's not wrong, it's 100% what I want for the UK . I fear it won't happen and we will end up uncivilised 3rd world.

Which is what America is now

06230villefrancesurmer · 22/01/2025 10:09

Thatissimplyuntrue · 22/01/2025 06:16

  1. It is fair enough to want to limit illegal immigration.
  2. It is fair enough to put your own country first (as long as that doesn’t exploit or harm others).
  3. The climate emergency is science. It’s not hysteria. You only need to look at the news to see the impact. More fires and floods for one. His plan to ‘drill baby drill’ is insanity.
  4. Gender reassignment is a much more complex issue than you have described. One that needs proper informed debate rather than dramatic hyperbole.
  5. Building the economy sustainably is sensible. By freebies I imagine you mean benefits. The sign of a civilised society is how we treat the most vulnerable. Anyone of us could end up needing benefits at some point in our life. Seems to me a fair and civilised system to have benefits as we are not all given equal opportunities. It may need changing though.

I think it’s good to have sensible discussions and avoid the awful divisions that are being created. Nothing is black and white and there are always shades of grey and nuances.

Your hyperbolic language suggests to me that your main source of news is social media which means that you will only be seeing news according to your algorithm. You probably don’t trust ‘mainstream media’ but why don’t you take time just to look at the different news sites. None of us can fully understand everything about the world so we rely on others to tell us about it. If you read the Daily Mail it will likely confirm your current world view. If you read the a guardian it will challenge it. The standard of journalism is higher in one but both are biased to a greater or lesser degree. The BBC also has news that is less biased but has been accused of bias. Try world news sites too. Just for a week explore different sources of news. Do a bit of your own fact checking. Shake it up by searching for the opposite views to yours.

You might also be aware that Russia has been trying to create division and instability here by using bots to stir the social media pot. It’s working. As human beings we have far more in common than the differences we have.

Policies aside, Trump is a convicted criminal. His moral compass is wrong. His view of women is archaic and misogynistic. He is a narcissist and he’s not very bright. He is not trustworthy. He does not care about others. He lacks empathy. He was caught doing things that put the country in danger (top secret files in his loo for example). I don’t think he’s fit to govern.

👍 This has to be the best post I have ever seen on here

User09678 · 22/01/2025 10:16

All my life I was an avid Guardian reader, until I realised what they had become. It's been a few years since I have read anything from them now but I thought I'd give this article a click. It was quite disturbing to try and read this because it's almost like it's written in a different language. Every other sentence, I understand what the words mean - but I want the author to explain what he means by them, because I'm struggling to make it make sense. Yes. I know us plebs will only ever be at the mercy of our elites. And we are seeing a realignment between the preexisting establishment elite and independent financial elites. But really, Obama bailed the bankers and left house owners to suffocate, Harris was proud and loud to have her campaign chiefly advised by Goldman Sachs. Fight for democracy? How high is he. There is no such thing.

user1468761869 · 22/01/2025 10:18

Trump is a snake oil salesman who is very clever at exploiting the deepest fears and worst side of everyday people.
He does not stand for the everyday American people. He stands for himself and the super-wealthy.
The front row seats at the inauguration, usually filled with senior government officials, were filled with the richest people on earth, Zuckerburg, Bezos, Musk, Shou Zi Chew ( CEO of TIK TOK), and Sundar Pichai (CEO of Google)
We are quite literally going to be ruled by corporations. They will not care about everyday Americans. Profit will be the only driving force.
His last admiration disbanded the National Security Council directorate charged with a pandemic response. As a result, the USA had one of the highest worldwide Covid death tolls.

After Trump, 17 States have banned abortion in all cases, rape, incest, and when the mother’s life is in danger.

Whether he believes it or not, climate change is real and the West is not prepared. China is the leading producer of solar power and electric cars.
Gender reassignment is an issue, but he is not interested in solving the problem, but rather exploiting it to garner votes. In any event, young people are unlikely to change their minds because of Trump.
The ‘illegal immigrants’ pick the cherries, apples, pears, asparagus, berries, and hops that create Washington's $5.23 billion agriculture economy. Let’s see whether he deports them. It's unlikely, as the corporations that profit will prevent it.
Under Democrats and Republicans, the USA has turned into a country that puts profit before people. Expect to see even less regulation and a wider divide between rich and poor.

User09678 · 22/01/2025 10:18

06230villefrancesurmer · 22/01/2025 10:09

👍 This has to be the best post I have ever seen on here

No it's not

Mabelthetable · 22/01/2025 10:20

How on earth can you look at the floods, wildfires and eco disasters happening across the world, the decimation of wildlife and the displacement and death of millions of people, and think climate emergency is 'made up'?

06230villefrancesurmer · 22/01/2025 10:23

User09678 · 22/01/2025 10:18

No it's not

Read it again dopey. I as in me. Not you as in you. Got it ?

PointsSouth · 22/01/2025 10:28

User09678 · 20/01/2025 08:36

I'd far rather that level of honesty from a politician than the vicious wolves that pretend to be sheep

Post: “He advocates direct sexual assault.”

@User09678: “In a way, that’s a good thing.”

Crikeyalmighty · 22/01/2025 10:29

The Trump supporting Americans you always get a sprinkling of on pages like this never ever mention their home grown nut jobs- many of whom are as American as they come and white as snow and their are shitloads of these angry freaks out there - They also tend to identify anyone non white as an immigrant - A massive amount in the USA are American born and have as much right to be there as they do. Same applies here by the way. They need to get to grips with the fact that huge inequalities and lack of access to better themselves or even survive without significant cash leads to the kind of tensions they have- it's an extremely dog eat dog place, all fine if life is going hunky dory but not so great if anything goes wrong. Michael Moore wrote a great book on this topic- forgot what it's called now but basically stating large parts of the USA are indeed like the 3rd world- and he isn't far wrong. There is a medium line to be had between Trumps borderline Nazi diatribes and Harris's -'joy and love' platitudes and sadly it seems the US doesn't have anyone to vote for that recognises the issues and acts in a centre ground pragmatic way . Obama was more like this- he's much missed

User09678 · 22/01/2025 10:37

PointsSouth · 22/01/2025 10:28

Post: “He advocates direct sexual assault.”

@User09678: “In a way, that’s a good thing.”

Isn't it? Much better than the other team who insisted boys can use the girls bathroom and then when a father complains that his daughter was raped he gets arrested.

I'd much rather know what I'm dealing with. It's safer.

User09678 · 22/01/2025 10:38

Mabelthetable · 22/01/2025 10:20

How on earth can you look at the floods, wildfires and eco disasters happening across the world, the decimation of wildlife and the displacement and death of millions of people, and think climate emergency is 'made up'?

It's not made up. But you are being unreasonable if you believe that anyone is seriously going to voluntarily accept the hit in living standards addressing this crisis will necessitate.

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