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Grooming gangs being labelled as "Muslim grooming gangs"

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Olga009933 · 19/01/2025 17:48

Why is religious heritage of child sex offenders only mentioned in headlines when the offenders are of south Asian and predominantly Muslim heritage.
Why not just label them as "grooming gangs" or "Asian grooming gangs" (if wanting to be be specific).
Just thinking and wondering about the thousands of white British and presumably non-Muslim sex offenders who make the news. How many of them are labelled "Christian sex attacker" or "Jewish pervert" etc? Why is the religious heritage of a sex offender only mentioned why the offenders are of Muslim background?
If mentioning religion for one particular demographic then surely its only fair to mention the religious heritage of them all?

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Hoppingabout · 19/01/2025 19:18

whippy1981 · 19/01/2025 19:17

What safety measures are there for the grooming gangs that are white which are not in the church?

Usually the authorities aren't scared to stop white groomimg gangs for fear of being accused of racisim

Katy7889 · 19/01/2025 19:19

Tittat50 · 19/01/2025 19:14

Yes absolutely. I believe many of us can say yes to both. I'd imagine the abuse of young Muslim girls is incredibly hidden within communities. Because of the closed communities and the Sharia Council bullshit operating in this Country, I can't begin to imagine what goes on in some communities.

It does not detract from the very fact that white working class girls were targeted for a reason.

In any incidence of child sex abuse the abusers pick the vulnerable.

Epstein recognised girls who were missing something - love, money, affection, even basics like shoes and clean uniform.

The Pakistani gangs would abuse white girls in the street but the rape and trafficking was for the most poor and neglected girls not working class girls but girls in children’s homes for example who didn’t have family or teacher who would support them.

Pin3martin · 19/01/2025 19:19

UmmH · 19/01/2025 19:16

They committed their crimes in spite of being Muslim not because of being Muslim, so it is irresponsible for them to be labelled as Muslim grooming gangs. I'm pretty sure not one of the perpetrators has tried to justify his vile actions from a religious perspective. And if he did, that wouldn't make it true.

Abuses in the Catholic Church aren't comparable if they were committed by priests or took place in religious institutions. In such cases the Church does bear some responsibility. I'm not aware that imams were part of these grooming gangs, but if they were then I would expect the authorities of every mosque to loudly condemn such disgusting behaviour.

A sex offender is a sex offender and they will always prey on the vulnerable, which will often be working class girls, white or other.

Grooming gangs don’t just live in the catholic church and don’t just focus on white working class girls,you need to stop peddling that myth as it’s hugely dangerous. Vulnerability comes in many forms.

TENSsion · 19/01/2025 19:19

Pin3martin · 19/01/2025 19:13

No thanks my child’s life has been turned upside down by online grooming gang sexual abuse and subsequent rape. I truly believe the racism and focus on Muslim gangs is going to be a huge danger to an awful lot of children like mine. We do need to start talking about white grooming gangs too however unpalatable that is for some. The fact some quote Epstein, Hollywood and the Catholic Church when talking about white grooming gangs speaks volumes.

Your child’s grooming has not been covered up by the police, social workers, counsellors, schools etc. because acting on it would cost them their jobs.

You have no idea how big this is.

UndermyShoeJoe · 19/01/2025 19:20

Hoppingabout · 19/01/2025 19:18

Usually the authorities aren't scared to stop white groomimg gangs for fear of being accused of racisim

Indeed they have no problem kicking down the doors of white men committing crimes mostly thankfully.

HRTQueen · 19/01/2025 19:21

Olga009933 · 19/01/2025 19:02

the men are Muslim, good Muslims no but they are Muslim and are choosing what parts of Islam apply to themselves

The exact same thing can be said of Any sex attacker of white Christian or British heritage. He was just choosing which parts of Christianity to apply..
Same if the offender was Jewish /Hindu or any other religion.

If it’s a group of white racism men were raping Asian women then their background woudl absolutely be relevant their hatred is part of the reason they have chosen their victims

its relevant because they are Muslim and from a culture that is deeply misogynistic particularly towards non Muslim women and that is this case given they are living in the (uk) was towards white girls

so it’s relevant why the fuck are we pretending it’s not

Hoppingabout · 19/01/2025 19:21

Pin3martin · 19/01/2025 19:13

No thanks my child’s life has been turned upside down by online grooming gang sexual abuse and subsequent rape. I truly believe the racism and focus on Muslim gangs is going to be a huge danger to an awful lot of children like mine. We do need to start talking about white grooming gangs too however unpalatable that is for some. The fact some quote Epstein, Hollywood and the Catholic Church when talking about white grooming gangs speaks volumes.

Of course white grooming gangs are important. But they do not have the religious and ethnic aggravating features that the Pakistani Muslim rape gangs do (such as the suthorties turning a blind eye for "community relations").which need to be dealt with separately in order to establish the facts and ensure that this type does not happen again.

JHound · 19/01/2025 19:21

Why is religious heritage of child sex offenders only mentioned in headlines when the offenders are of south Asian and predominantly Muslim heritage.
Why not just label them as "grooming gangs"

You be know why….

This reminds me of ages ago when Rod Liddle (yes I know) received criticism (as did the Spectator) for an opinion piece wrote referring to “black savages”. The Spectator edited it after complaint then Liddle write another piece upset and confused as to why anybody took issue with. The comments had a lot of people asking would be refer to “white savages” and he carefully avoided responding.

For some reason white people who are non-religious or christian can be seen as individuals - hence would never get any reference to “white” or “christian grooming gangs” (not even the cover-up of paedo catholic priests was referred to in that way.) The crimes are never linked to their ethnicity (unless they are foreigners).

But for black, brown people and or foreigners, their national and ethnic identity is always directly relevant to their crime. You also see that difference with who and what is considered a terror attack.

It’s odd how sometimes collective responsibility is seen as ok.

Pin3martin · 19/01/2025 19:22

TENSsion · 19/01/2025 19:19

Your child’s grooming has not been covered up by the police, social workers, counsellors, schools etc. because acting on it would cost them their jobs.

You have no idea how big this is.

I’ll wager you have no idea how big a problem white grooming gangs in the uk are. It’s not tidily kept to the rich and Epstein or the Catholic Church. It’s here in this country and all demographics of children are at risk.

Grammarnut · 19/01/2025 19:22

UndermyShoeJoe · 19/01/2025 17:52

I’m hazarding a guess it’s because they based their depraved sexual abuse on one type of girl.

So it’s was Muslim grooming gang targets white deprived / underprivileged girls.

Not Christian man attacks random girls.

That's racist. MInd, Christian men seem to prefer boys - see Archbishop of Canterbury scandal.
That's a short answer. The longer one is that Mohamed (peace not be upon him) allowed Muslims four wives if they could afford them and any number of concubines. He also left 7th century age of consent rules behind that have not been updated, along with a general idea that you can have 'temporary' marriages.

coastingcoffee · 19/01/2025 19:22

It was the people who were trying to hide the issue that highlighted the racial aspect of it. The cover up was motivated by their desires to not create racial tension because of the background of these men and also that of the girls. If the grooming gangs had been prosecuted and arrests made earlier then it could have led to a better understanding of the background to all of this. Potentially stopping further abuse which happened because people in authority turned a blind eye. Some of the accused themselves referred to race in their sentencing remarks.

Banyon · 19/01/2025 19:22

Hoppingabout · 19/01/2025 19:11

Are you saying that Muslim girls are not vulnerable?

  1. Own community girls are closely watched because families know the risk of allowing a girl any alone time or unsupervised .
  2. Honor killings
  3. Punishment exists in own community but they know that outside their P-bubble, that are not held accountable.
Tittat50 · 19/01/2025 19:22

@Pin3martin I can completely understand your concerns for your child. Because we know people don't always have the facts and people will be racist and use anything to do so. I understand that must feel really uncomfortable and I'd probably feel the same knowing how stupid some people can be.

I don't see what we are saying, even my posts as racist. For me the focus is primarily on the religion. I'm comfortable saying I have a problem with religion and particularly Islam and believe that feeds into this. Maybe culture is equally intertwined. It just so happens that in this case the guys are not white. I can hand on heart say the colour of skin is irrelevant.

JayJayEl · 19/01/2025 19:23

HermioneWeasley · 19/01/2025 18:00

Catholic priests were named as such I believe.

there is a backlash because of the refusal to acknowledge the role ethnicity has played in these child rape gangs up to this point (and still is by some). The refusal to name the problem means that right wing groups are now dominating the narrative. We need more voices like Dame Falkner stating facts in the article linked:

“I’m afraid there is a Pakistani problem, and we must root it out”

www.thetimes.com/article/d42492e4-c0ed-4459-ba3b-cf9488c164b1?shareToken=9834276733587b4212b7e7f467634f31

But Pakistani doesn't equal Muslim???

smalllight · 19/01/2025 19:23

Olga009933 · 19/01/2025 18:16

If its about Muslim grooming gangs, why are we seeing these gangs in other Muslim communities? Why confined to the Pakistani community? This suggests to me the problem is more around cultural mindsets than any religion.

It’s a mix of both. You don’t need to make it either or. One analysis I read said these crimes happened in areas where poor rural Pakistani communities settled, rather than areas middle class Pakistanis settled. It’s a mix of their culture and religion ( seeing non-Muslim women and girls as lesser).

TENSsion · 19/01/2025 19:23

Pin3martin · 19/01/2025 19:22

I’ll wager you have no idea how big a problem white grooming gangs in the uk are. It’s not tidily kept to the rich and Epstein or the Catholic Church. It’s here in this country and all demographics of children are at risk.

I wouldn’t want you to lose money. Put your hand back in your pocket.

whippy1981 · 19/01/2025 19:23

UndermyShoeJoe · 19/01/2025 19:20

Indeed they have no problem kicking down the doors of white men committing crimes mostly thankfully.

They do not, they still blame the child not the perpetrator in most instances.

LadyQuackBeth · 19/01/2025 19:23

Nobody thinks all Catholic people abused children, or even all Catholic priests, but it was integral to dealing with the problem to name the different elements at play.

Muslim communities need to be at the forefront of this, reflecting on messages their sons might be hearing, sending very different messages to counter it. Not saying "70% are white," which is not a gotcha when 82% of the UK is white and some of them will be under other sub-headings of child sex scandals. As well as Catholicism, there's been the BBC, boarding schools, even Scout leaders, there have been loads of child sexual abuse gangs with prefixes - each time the women in these organisations would have felt the way you do now (at first unjustly targeted, then annoyed at the men involved, now jumping through all the protections in place - because men- to stop it happening again).

Hwi · 19/01/2025 19:23

Listen to Dr Emma Hill (survivor) podcast or read her article in the Guardian and you won't be asking silly questions like this.

ERthree · 19/01/2025 19:23

The truth hurts. There is nothing wrong or untrue about that headline. Concern yourself more about the girls that were raped. Why do you have mpre concern about the Muslim men that raped tens of thousands ?

User37482 · 19/01/2025 19:24

I think when we are talking about the wholesale rape, torture and selling of children cultural sensitivities are a bit pointless to worry about. There were predominantly muslim. It’s a feature they shared in common, their victims (outside of their homes) were predominantly white children. I mean whats the point in pretending thats not true. It’s not like no-one going to notice if you just don’t say it. This kind of attitude is what also contributed to the ease with which people covered this really truly awful crime. “Don’t mention race/religion, it emboldens the far right”. No what emboldens the far right is covering up mass rapes of children in an effort to maintain community cohesion.

I understand this is uncomfortable for muslims who have nothing to do with this but it’s easy. Denounce the shit out of them.

Hoppingabout · 19/01/2025 19:24

Banyon · 19/01/2025 19:22

  1. Own community girls are closely watched because families know the risk of allowing a girl any alone time or unsupervised .
  2. Honor killings
  3. Punishment exists in own community but they know that outside their P-bubble, that are not held accountable.

That's not the point I was making.

Pin3martin · 19/01/2025 19:24

TENSsion · 19/01/2025 19:23

I wouldn’t want you to lose money. Put your hand back in your pocket.

So clearly you don’t.

UmmH · 19/01/2025 19:25

Pin3martin · 19/01/2025 19:19

Grooming gangs don’t just live in the catholic church and don’t just focus on white working class girls,you need to stop peddling that myth as it’s hugely dangerous. Vulnerability comes in many forms.

You misunderstood my point. I don't for a moment thing abuse only happens in the Catholic Church, or that all Catholics are abusers. Far from. My point was in answer to PPs saying that the religion of the perpetrators is important, and they used Catholic abuses as an example. What I'm saying is that if the abuse is done by Catholic religious leaders then it is relevant. If, on the other hand, it is done by some regular bloke who happened to be Catholic, then it wouldn't be relevant. Same as the grooming gangs in question.

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