Moving in together

[krustyburger1]

Would you move in together with someone you've not spent an entire weekend with?

I'd be interested to know what people think. I've been with my DP for 18 months, been friends for 10 years. He's started talking about moving in together within the next year but due to the fact he has his teenage DC with him every weekend, we've never actually spent a full weekend together, just the two of us.

Obviously no issue with him having his DC, but I don't think it'd be wise to move in together when we've never actually spent a solid few days together, alone. DP disagrees.

Exactly! just tell him you are not ready then and give your reasons

Well exactly. What’s the rush?

He still had 2 kids to bring up.

What happens if he moves in with the kids half the time & you hate it?

It’s going to be very hard to ask him to move back out. You’ll be the baddie.

The current set up may not be perfect for you but you’re taking on a lot if he does in now.

Why don't you move into his and rent yours out?
You can live for free there and make money at the same time.
Beat him to it

P.s only joking.I don't think you should live together yet.