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Tony Blair says we need a national conversation about MH as its costing too much

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B0xes · 14/01/2025 11:55

Tony Blair said recently on Jimmy's Jobs of the Future Podcast (clip available on youtube) that we need to have a national conversation about mental health. Why are we spending so much on it. Why are people self diagnosing. He believes people are being encouraged to view everyday challenges we all face as mental health issues.

Is he being unreasonable? In one sense, I'm inclined to agree to an extent, in the other, I believe he led the charge for so many of the social changes that have made us less resilient and many of these issues are due to individualism which led to atomisation and loneliness and being encouraged to see the market as the entity that fulfills our needs rather than strong families and robust social networks.

YABU - Blair can do one.

YANBU - He might have a point

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Chiseltip · 14/01/2025 15:59

Potentialmadcatlady · 14/01/2025 15:50

Again piss off.
You do realise you are one major life event away from disability, one illness away from your life being turned on its head, one hideous accident or attack away from not being able to go out on your own?
Not that I care what you think but my son has lived with a life limiting health condition plus asd/adhd/ptsd/anxiety and depression for his whole life. He has fought against it through endless surgeries and endless pain, through an education system that tries to fit everyone into square boxes and he has won. He has plans for his life and how he plans to help other people.
It’s attitudes like yours that make peoples like my sons lives even harder than it needs to be.

I have never said anything against your son.

Show me where in any post I have spoken negatively about your son.

PlanetJungle · 14/01/2025 15:59

Karneval25 · 14/01/2025 12:11

Many young people have missed out on crucial aspects of social development as a result of Covid lockdowns. This has led to an increase in anxiety/stress.

There are perverse incentives in the benefit system to claim mental health issues. This leads to people with mild anxiety claiming they are too ill to work.

There is insufficient investment in mental helath care, mentoring etc.

These issues ALL need to be addressed.

It is not in the interests of young people in particular to decide at 18 that they are never going to work because of mental health issues.

I don’t know about other school but at my dcs school the kids were under enormous pressure to pass their exams they were reminded on a daily basis how much this means, how if they didn’t do well they were doomed - schools have become pressurised exam factories - I’m not surprised kids feel it and want to it out. I don’t remember the same pressure cooker they faced.

Sushu · 14/01/2025 16:00

Taigabread · 14/01/2025 15:53

Just under 7 million people in the uk receive disability benefits. The uk population is just over 68 million people so 1 in 10 of us are getting disability benefits.
https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings/cbp-9602/ link just so people know where this data comes from.

Does it sound sustainable to people for this to continue rising?

Thank you for sharing.
Just to add, of the 6.9 million people who claim disability benefits, 66% claim for physical health conditions. The number of people claiming disability benefits for mental health is circa 2.3 million which is still a large number, of course. A small percentage of this number will be in paid employment.

Yalta · 14/01/2025 16:03

byteme1011 · 14/01/2025 15:42

There was a panorama where someone was given an ADHD diagnosis by 3 private clinics (and prescribed him drugs) but a leading NHS consultant psychiatrist concluded he didn't have ADHD

My diagnosis was with the NHS. I was 59 and I scored 9/9 for all 4 areas

Not everyone goes private

MissJoGrant · 14/01/2025 16:05

He's right as usual.

AllFurCoatAndFrillyKnickers · 14/01/2025 16:06

BIossomtoes · 14/01/2025 12:09

It’s a bit rich to blame a politician who’s been out of office for nearly 20 years. If anything’s to blame it’s Covid.

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Yes this. Apparently after the 1916-20 Spanish Flu pandemic there was a spike in poor mental health too. Not really surprising especially as it came at the end of WW1. Similar after WW2.

TomatoSandwiches · 14/01/2025 16:06

A lot of the people seeking out ADHD and Autism diagnosis are women, older or middle aged women that were let down because they didn't present as disruptive to the outside world as children but were suffering in an entirely different way and were resilient up to a point until they could no longer function effectively.

We need to stop letting down girls and women not telling them that

" Sorry we completely ignored you and your needs , medically gaslighted you and mistreated you for decades but you simply cost too much to treat and accommodate now so please just suck it for the good of the countries economy. "

WeylandYutani · 14/01/2025 16:08

Sushu · 14/01/2025 16:00

Thank you for sharing.
Just to add, of the 6.9 million people who claim disability benefits, 66% claim for physical health conditions. The number of people claiming disability benefits for mental health is circa 2.3 million which is still a large number, of course. A small percentage of this number will be in paid employment.

Does it matter what percentage is due to MH?
When people highlight the MH figures, it makes it sound like they believe it is not legitimate. Or is something easily fixed.
If the waiting list for operations could be sorted, then maybe the benefits bill for people with physical health conditions could also be reduced. But no one suggests that, as they think people use MH as an excuse, so it is an easy target.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 14/01/2025 16:08

I'm well aware the symptoms must be present from childhood, as will the psychiatrist that diagnosed him.

Probablygreen · 14/01/2025 16:10

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 14/01/2025 16:08

I'm well aware the symptoms must be present from childhood, as will the psychiatrist that diagnosed him.

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OK, so who is it that said he had symptoms from childhood? Genuine question.

Nospecialcharactersplease · 14/01/2025 16:10

JHound · 14/01/2025 12:12

You cannot just click your fingers into being resilient.

No, you build resilience over time by regularly overcoming the stresses and strains of life.

byteme1011 · 14/01/2025 16:10

@Yalta obviously not everyone goes private, my point is folk are getting privately diagnosed and may not actually have it - and be on medication that could do long term harm

Skipthisbit · 14/01/2025 16:10

Twirlyboobs · 14/01/2025 14:18

I genuinely don’t understand (sorry skim reading on lunch break)
skewing the stats? But the stats are the stats? 3.3 million as of this month, with 1 in 6 only in paid employment

thats 2.8 million out of work on pip, doing no kind of work

There’s 40.5million estimated ‘adults’ in the uk, therefore 1 in 16 over 18’s are on PIP and not working whatsoever

Indeed! I am literally astonished at the cognitive dissonance of people who will still claim that PIP is almost “impossible” to get when 1 in 16 adults are claiming it. That DLA is equally “impossible” yet 1 in 10 children now received it.
1 in 20 now have an EHCP plan. And yet it is apparently all “extremely rare” and impossibly difficult.

LadyKenya · 14/01/2025 16:11

SneakyLilNameChange · 14/01/2025 13:05

I completely agree with him. Thousands and thousands of otherwise well people who are being paid PIP to not work due to anxiety is completely unsustainable. So many jobs are wfh now and the amount of support employers put in place for staff is huge compared to the past. To an extent we need to encourage people to stop naval gazing and get on with things.

People can claim PIP, and work🙄. I wish people would get their facts right. People on PIP, are not being paid, to not work.

Unpaidviewer · 14/01/2025 16:11

I agree with him. Plenty of people aren't willing to put any effort into their MH. SM had led to people comparing their lives to others instead of getting outside and focusing on what they have. People can be incredibly dramatic when it comes to everyday emotions. It's normal to have ups and downs, to feel nervous when doing new things...it isn't always anxiety or depression no matter what some idiot on tiktok has told you.

The number of people out of work due to disabilities etc in this country is scary. How much burden can the rest of us carry? People have to start taking some personal responsibility for their MH and physical health.

Yalta · 14/01/2025 16:12

Whotenanny · 14/01/2025 15:56

I think we need to stop talking about it so much; it us causing a mass hysteria-like effect.

If I believed everything on the internet I'd be self diagnosing as ADHD for sure. Then you see a doctor, then you get meds, and finally you're dragged into the world of racing to the bottom: anxiety for all.

Most people's issues would be solved if they stopped using their phones for six hours a day.

You first see a doctor who if you can convince them the Dr refers you to the MH team

Then the MH team give you a call and you answer their questions.

Then if you pass those questions you get sent a form to fill in and

Then you are put on a list to get assessed.

After several years you get an assessment snd if you get a diagnosis you then get weighed and your blood pressure taken and if those are all ok

Then and only then do you get a prescription

Then you have to find a pharmacy who can get you the medication (that hasn’t been an easy thing because the supply is low)

It’s not a case of going to the doctors then getting meds

LadyKenya · 14/01/2025 16:13

Skipthisbit · 14/01/2025 16:10

Indeed! I am literally astonished at the cognitive dissonance of people who will still claim that PIP is almost “impossible” to get when 1 in 16 adults are claiming it. That DLA is equally “impossible” yet 1 in 10 children now received it.
1 in 20 now have an EHCP plan. And yet it is apparently all “extremely rare” and impossibly difficult.

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Unless you have tried to claim yourself, then what would you know about whether it is easy to claim or not?

WeylandYutani · 14/01/2025 16:15

LadyKenya · 14/01/2025 16:11

People can claim PIP, and work🙄. I wish people would get their facts right. People on PIP, are not being paid, to not work.

I wish I could get PIP for the amount of times I am either face palming or banging my head when these utter myths about PIP are uttered as truth.

TomatoSandwiches · 14/01/2025 16:15

It's even harder to get an EHCP worth the fucking paper and ink it's made with 😂

Fuck me ignorance is bliss aye.

MerryMaker · 14/01/2025 16:15

Skipthisbit · 14/01/2025 16:10

Indeed! I am literally astonished at the cognitive dissonance of people who will still claim that PIP is almost “impossible” to get when 1 in 16 adults are claiming it. That DLA is equally “impossible” yet 1 in 10 children now received it.
1 in 20 now have an EHCP plan. And yet it is apparently all “extremely rare” and impossibly difficult.

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I agree.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 14/01/2025 16:16

Something else I've noticed on this thread and others is the suggestion that parents are seeking support and diagnosis for their children for financial gain or other benefits. I wonder how long before SS are swamped by new referrals for FII (Msbp as was). Some parents are encouraged by other professionals like teachers to seek assessment. Is that going to be yet another alleged epidemic? It might get kids taken off one system and dumped into another where there needs aren't met in any direction.

Parents go through this in the SEND world already, I'll put money on it escalating if attitudes like this keep being pushed.

WeylandYutani · 14/01/2025 16:17

Skipthisbit · 14/01/2025 16:10

Indeed! I am literally astonished at the cognitive dissonance of people who will still claim that PIP is almost “impossible” to get when 1 in 16 adults are claiming it. That DLA is equally “impossible” yet 1 in 10 children now received it.
1 in 20 now have an EHCP plan. And yet it is apparently all “extremely rare” and impossibly difficult.

Edited

More people would claim if they were not so put off by the whole process. I know someone who applied and was turned down, despite being blind.
A lot of people apply and are turned down, and simply do not have the energy to try again. But they absolutely should be getting it.

Twirlyboobs · 14/01/2025 16:17

LadyKenya · 14/01/2025 16:11

People can claim PIP, and work🙄. I wish people would get their facts right. People on PIP, are not being paid, to not work.

5 out of 6, are though?

MerryMaker · 14/01/2025 16:17

WeylandYutani · 14/01/2025 16:15

I wish I could get PIP for the amount of times I am either face palming or banging my head when these utter myths about PIP are uttered as truth.

I know. But the amount of people getting it is very high. Especially since PIP is for working age adults.

Lyn348 · 14/01/2025 16:18

What we need is for people (kids especially) to get proper help for MH issues much. much earlier.

Resilience is partly genetic and what one person views as 'everyday stress' might be enough to tip someone else over the edge. It's not a case of 'one person can cope so every one should be able to' - some people are just naturally more resilient than others.

If we want people to be able to cope with some stress and anxiety and they are not naturally resilient then we need to be teaching them the skills to be able to do so.

We're letting people spiral by leaving them to wait months or years to get any proper help. Kids have to be pretty much suicidal or a threat to others to see anyone. We need to be helping kids at the first hurdle so that they have learnt the skills to be able to cope by the time they become adults.

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