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Is it disrespectful/problematic to take a sex toy in hand luggage to Marrakech?

289 replies

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:26

We are going to Marrakech for a holiday in a few weeks and I would like to take my vibrator.

I’m likely to take just cabin bags.

Will I encounter issues either going through or leaving the airport? I know it’s not illegal but I don’t want issues - or to appear disrespectful.

No judgments please, advice only.

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Cyclebabble · 09/01/2025 11:27

Cannot see an issue. There is a risk that it shows up in your luggage on a search. Just describe it as a massager for muscle strain. No issue.

Arlanymor · 09/01/2025 11:28

They have sex shops in Marrakech, so I can’t see how this would be an issue.

Bogginsthe3rd · 09/01/2025 11:28

Can it also be used as a weapon ?

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:30

Bogginsthe3rd · 09/01/2025 11:28

Can it also be used as a weapon ?

Not unless you consider a small purple, vaguely shaped penis a threat

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DinosaurMunch · 09/01/2025 11:31

They will probably open your bag to see what it is and that might be embarrassing. Otherwise it's fine

HebburnPokemon · 09/01/2025 11:33

can you not survive with your hand for a few days?

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:34

HebburnPokemon · 09/01/2025 11:33

can you not survive with your hand for a few days?

Unnecessary comment

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Pepla · 09/01/2025 11:36

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:34

Unnecessary comment

I think that poster makes a fair point. If you’re concerned about your bags being opened and your vibrator potentially checked by airport employees, and would be embarrassed if it were, isn’t there an argument for managing without for a holiday?

Gettingslimmer · 09/01/2025 11:36

I think the embarassment would be too much for me. It won’t be disrespectful etc. I also don’t see the hand comment as unnecessary. I was thinking the same thing.

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

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lucywho123 · 09/01/2025 11:38

If there's sex shops there as a PP already said, why dont you just wait and get another one there? Avoid any kind of 'problem' that way

Gettingslimmer · 09/01/2025 11:38

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

You’re clearly very sensitive, so it is utterly bemusing you want risk this level of embarassment.

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

Pepla · 09/01/2025 11:36

I think that poster makes a fair point. If you’re concerned about your bags being opened and your vibrator potentially checked by airport employees, and would be embarrassed if it were, isn’t there an argument for managing without for a holiday?

I didn’t use the word embarrassed. I asked if it would be an issue or disrespectful. I’m not embarrassed.

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Gettingslimmer · 09/01/2025 11:39

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I didn’t use the word embarrassed. I asked if it would be an issue or disrespectful. I’m not embarrassed.

Then crack on.

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:39

Gettingslimmer · 09/01/2025 11:38

You’re clearly very sensitive, so it is utterly bemusing you want risk this level of embarassment.

I’m not at all sensitive.

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sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:39

Gettingslimmer · 09/01/2025 11:39

Then crack on.

Okidoki

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sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:39

lucywho123 · 09/01/2025 11:38

If there's sex shops there as a PP already said, why dont you just wait and get another one there? Avoid any kind of 'problem' that way

That’s true, I hadn’t thought of that.

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RobertaFirmino · 09/01/2025 11:40

I'm not sure it is fair on the security staff to put them in a position where they have to handle a used sex toy.

ThatsNotMyTeen · 09/01/2025 11:40

I don’t think it would be an issue. I would die of cringe though but if you wouldn’t crack on (or crack one out)

Pepla · 09/01/2025 11:47

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

I didn’t read it that way, just as a question about whether there wasn’t an easier way as a short term holiday solution.

And I never suggested you should be embarrassed — you’re the one who said you didn’t ‘want issues’ in your OP. Given that you know it’s not illegal, it’s not clear what other issues you might be concerned about if not airport employees removing and checking your vibrator whether at your home or destination airport, which would certainly cause embarrassment to some people.

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:49

Pepla · 09/01/2025 11:47

I didn’t read it that way, just as a question about whether there wasn’t an easier way as a short term holiday solution.

And I never suggested you should be embarrassed — you’re the one who said you didn’t ‘want issues’ in your OP. Given that you know it’s not illegal, it’s not clear what other issues you might be concerned about if not airport employees removing and checking your vibrator whether at your home or destination airport, which would certainly cause embarrassment to some people.

I was thinking more about confiscation.

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Nopenott0day · 09/01/2025 11:50

Why on earth would it be disrespectful?

Gettingslimmer · 09/01/2025 11:50

Pepla · 09/01/2025 11:47

I didn’t read it that way, just as a question about whether there wasn’t an easier way as a short term holiday solution.

And I never suggested you should be embarrassed — you’re the one who said you didn’t ‘want issues’ in your OP. Given that you know it’s not illegal, it’s not clear what other issues you might be concerned about if not airport employees removing and checking your vibrator whether at your home or destination airport, which would certainly cause embarrassment to some people.

Most people. Who wants their used sex toy on view in a busy security queue. The op seems ok with it though. She’s just sensitive to people on line.not in real life.

Kenway01 · 09/01/2025 11:51

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:30

Not unless you consider a small purple, vaguely shaped penis a threat

in the hands of Jason Bourne / John Wick (film character), anything is possible

bigkidatheart · 09/01/2025 11:54

Make sure you clean it at the other end, you don't know where their hands have been lol