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Brilliant article about the rape gangs in the UK

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Petrine · 08/01/2025 10:07

I’ve put this on AIBU as it appears to be most read. A brilliant article about the rape gangs and the ensuing cover up.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/01/07/elon-musk-has-ripped-cloak-of-deceit-off-britain-scandal/

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Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 09/01/2025 03:10

What we don’t need is for all of this to be dredged up into the realm of public opinion, where it is likely to radicalise working class men against the authorities, and against communities who just want to live their lives in peace.

I do not want communities who organise child-rape gangs to live their lives in peace.

Obviously most rapists in Britain are likely to be white because the majority of this Northern European island’s population is white.

Feelingathomenow · 09/01/2025 03:22

rrrrrreatt · 09/01/2025 00:39

The Muslim Council of Britain put out a statement the other day supporting an inquiry if it’ll make a difference, saying it’s false for perpetrators to say their community or faith condone this behaviour but also raising concerns about those with a racist agenda: https://mcb.org.uk/mcb-we-need-truth-and-action-against-child-sexual-abuse-gangs-not-a-racist-witch-hunt/

I don’t know what they’ve done in between. I remember the sermon because I was impressed they were delivering a sermon in lots of mosques as well as condemning it in the media and I saw this statement earlier today on a live feed about the parliamentary debate.

So they’ve put out a statement with one line about the victims, falsely claiming the majority of Grooming gangs are white, spending much of the statement turning Muslims into the victims , not once recognising the victims were vulnerable white children. “Yet another inquiry” “racist agenda” “requested by people who didn’t g et the answer they wanted”.Absolutely appaling!

What they need to say is “ we fully support an investigation into why largely Muslim men of Pakistani origin are targeting predominantly white female children and subjecting them to gang rape and torture. We are ashamed these men are part of our community. We are additionally going to look at why so many Muslim men interpret the Islamic religion to legitimise this rape snd torture. We will support a through an open and transparent investigation into the misogyny apparent in these attacks and seek to learn lessons to ensure that misogyny and the unequal treatment of women in Islam is eradicated in Britain by throughly examining the religious teachings and working with mosques to ensure that the teachings of Islam make it clear that targeting women and children in this appaling manner is unacceptable. We will pursue every avenue to ensure this is done, we will fully support the police to ensure that justice is served against both the perpetrators of these terrible crimes and those who seek to cover it up and minimise it. most of all our thoughts are with the thousands of women and girls, together with their family and friends who are, and continue to be, the victims of these gangs”

im quite happy if the council of Muslims in Britain want to borrow that wording if they are confused as to what is acceptable for them to say and do
so as to not sound like they consider themselves to be the victims here.

Dalmau · 09/01/2025 06:11

Feelingathomenow · 09/01/2025 03:22

So they’ve put out a statement with one line about the victims, falsely claiming the majority of Grooming gangs are white, spending much of the statement turning Muslims into the victims , not once recognising the victims were vulnerable white children. “Yet another inquiry” “racist agenda” “requested by people who didn’t g et the answer they wanted”.Absolutely appaling!

What they need to say is “ we fully support an investigation into why largely Muslim men of Pakistani origin are targeting predominantly white female children and subjecting them to gang rape and torture. We are ashamed these men are part of our community. We are additionally going to look at why so many Muslim men interpret the Islamic religion to legitimise this rape snd torture. We will support a through an open and transparent investigation into the misogyny apparent in these attacks and seek to learn lessons to ensure that misogyny and the unequal treatment of women in Islam is eradicated in Britain by throughly examining the religious teachings and working with mosques to ensure that the teachings of Islam make it clear that targeting women and children in this appaling manner is unacceptable. We will pursue every avenue to ensure this is done, we will fully support the police to ensure that justice is served against both the perpetrators of these terrible crimes and those who seek to cover it up and minimise it. most of all our thoughts are with the thousands of women and girls, together with their family and friends who are, and continue to be, the victims of these gangs”

im quite happy if the council of Muslims in Britain want to borrow that wording if they are confused as to what is acceptable for them to say and do
so as to not sound like they consider themselves to be the victims here.

Hold on a minute are you completely unaware of the epidemic of online grooming and sexual abuse of children?

The numbers are horrific( and largely facilitated on Meta platforms).

The idea and pushing of the narrative that grooming and abuse is a Muslim problem is hugely damaging and likely to cause more children to suffer.

NeatDog · 09/01/2025 06:41

Labour, the Tories and the BBC have all let those poor girls down.

I used to think Labour was on the side of the average person on the street. But Starmer was a human rights lawyer that fought to keep these people in the UK.

The Tories had 14 years to have a public inquiry and did nothing.

Ponkeypink · 09/01/2025 06:48

TheyCantBurnUsAll · 08/01/2025 23:57

All this arguing over politics and Elon musk is a smoke screen. I don't like musk at all but he's shining a light on something very serious that people can't talk about without it descending into arguing about if it's racist to discuss it.

These horrible things happened. Those in power actively avoided dealing with it out i fear of being accused of racism. Those who spoke up were silenced. Even now people speaking up are trying to be silenced with accusations of racism. It's just so many are discussing this now they can't be silenced to sit this massive argument.

I want to live in a country that is safe for women and children. There is a demographic of people who are overly represented proportionally in the stats on perpetrators. This is a fact. I do not want the same rights for women and children that the countries these people originate from have. But they are here influencing our culture and doing this to our daughters.

And of course it's not all Muslims. Of course there are white/Christian/women abusers. But when you look at the actual numbers it is fucking concerning. The fact it's not being dealt with is fucking concerning.

People argue we don't need another enquiry or that the individual councils should investigate themselves. We should just get on with the recommendations of he 2022 report. But that didn't look into why this demographic has an easier time getting away with this than other democratically. It didn't look into the cultural/religious influences on the perpetrators behaviour or address how we can tackle this problem. And I would be willing to bet if it was looked at again we would find this stuff is still happening at alarming rates and still not being dealt with out of fear of being accused of Islamophobia. Just look at the reactions on this thread! I know I would not feel able to comment what I have here if I wasn't anonymous. As long as we are not inciting violence or hatered or encouraging discrimination we should be able to talk about this! We should be allowed to be concerned and want to find ways to stop this happening. I don't care about the politics I don't like musk as a person but I do very much care about the girls suffering like this and that their reality is people are too scared to protect them so turn a blind eye

This is a great well balanced post and many people would agree.

whereaw · 09/01/2025 06:48

I don't think anyone is saying it's a Muslim problem. There is a specific problem with Pakistani grooming gangs (this issue). It was covered up and allowed to happen because people were scared to speak up for fear of being called racist. You might say a systemic problem caused by race - just the opposite of what we normally think of when we talk about systemic racism.

In my opinion we had it right when I was growing up and we were taught people are people and accept people for who they are. Now everything is reduced to race (eg BLM) so unfortunately this is one of the outcomes of that.

To say there is a problem with Muslim Pakistani rapists does not equate to all Muslim Pakistani men are racists.

There are also problems in families, online grooming, sex trade etc. We just aren't talking about those right now.

Also the 'us' and 'them' narrative was set by these rapist men. They raped because of skin colour and seeing the girls as unholy and unworthy. We were all happy to live and let live remember, so much so that it got covered up.

What does this mean? I don't know but I do strongly feel the reduction of everything to one thing (be it race, misogyny, whatever) just doesn't work. It's a very complex problem but it does deserve to be discussed without fear of being brandished a racist.

JRSKSSBH · 09/01/2025 06:49

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 23:17

I think what’s really ironic in all this, when you look at the stats about offending demographics, it is actually white people who should be asking the Pakistani community what we should be doing to stop sexual abuse in our own community. They are clearly doing a better job of protecting women and girls than we are.

This is such an ironic post and for reasons that I think you don’t understand. The girls were targeted precisely because they are white and therefore lacking in virtue.

JRSKSSBH · 09/01/2025 06:56

NeatDog · 09/01/2025 06:41

Labour, the Tories and the BBC have all let those poor girls down.

I used to think Labour was on the side of the average person on the street. But Starmer was a human rights lawyer that fought to keep these people in the UK.

The Tories had 14 years to have a public inquiry and did nothing.

That is what concerns me. I have read repeatedly that he believes immigration laws are inherently racist, so do we think that years of Tory inaction he will do anything?

JRSKSSBH · 09/01/2025 06:56

whereaw · 09/01/2025 06:48

I don't think anyone is saying it's a Muslim problem. There is a specific problem with Pakistani grooming gangs (this issue). It was covered up and allowed to happen because people were scared to speak up for fear of being called racist. You might say a systemic problem caused by race - just the opposite of what we normally think of when we talk about systemic racism.

In my opinion we had it right when I was growing up and we were taught people are people and accept people for who they are. Now everything is reduced to race (eg BLM) so unfortunately this is one of the outcomes of that.

To say there is a problem with Muslim Pakistani rapists does not equate to all Muslim Pakistani men are racists.

There are also problems in families, online grooming, sex trade etc. We just aren't talking about those right now.

Also the 'us' and 'them' narrative was set by these rapist men. They raped because of skin colour and seeing the girls as unholy and unworthy. We were all happy to live and let live remember, so much so that it got covered up.

What does this mean? I don't know but I do strongly feel the reduction of everything to one thing (be it race, misogyny, whatever) just doesn't work. It's a very complex problem but it does deserve to be discussed without fear of being brandished a racist.

Excellent post

JRSKSSBH · 09/01/2025 07:00

Dalmau · 09/01/2025 06:11

Hold on a minute are you completely unaware of the epidemic of online grooming and sexual abuse of children?

The numbers are horrific( and largely facilitated on Meta platforms).

The idea and pushing of the narrative that grooming and abuse is a Muslim problem is hugely damaging and likely to cause more children to suffer.

In this instance it is a Muslim problem. There is a clear pattern of abuse that needs to be investigated and understood. This isn’t an either/ or situation so stop being reductive in your thinking. UK sex gangs by men of Pakistani heritage should be exposed just as all sexual abuse should be exposed.

Dalmau · 09/01/2025 07:05

JRSKSSBH · 09/01/2025 07:00

In this instance it is a Muslim problem. There is a clear pattern of abuse that needs to be investigated and understood. This isn’t an either/ or situation so stop being reductive in your thinking. UK sex gangs by men of Pakistani heritage should be exposed just as all sexual abuse should be exposed.

The anti Muslim rhetoric is giving a great place for the wider grooming and abuse issues and very white abusers to hide.

sweetheartyparty · 09/01/2025 07:10

Neolara · 08/01/2025 11:53

This is an interesting podcast featuring the journalist who broke the grooming gangs story. https://pca.st/episode/599fabe8-7378-4869-9652-4bdf27817bc4

It was a great podcast. Norfolk spoke with such empathy and concern for the women involved. It was balanced and powerful, I was engrossed.

whereaw · 09/01/2025 07:24

@Dalmau how do you know that to be true?

And if that is the case would it not be better to immediately respond to all instances of child abuse regardless of race, and to do so with the full force of the law?

How does not talking about it help?

Also we can't pit victims against victims. It is about the abusers. All abusers should be brought to justice and we should make sure that the systems we have are not unknowingly covering up abuse. Just like institutions like the church have done required.

Dalmau · 09/01/2025 07:26

whereaw · 09/01/2025 07:24

@Dalmau how do you know that to be true?

And if that is the case would it not be better to immediately respond to all instances of child abuse regardless of race, and to do so with the full force of the law?

How does not talking about it help?

Also we can't pit victims against victims. It is about the abusers. All abusers should be brought to justice and we should make sure that the systems we have are not unknowingly covering up abuse. Just like institutions like the church have done required.

How on earth have you missed the worldwide epidemic of online grooming abuse and rape mostly facilitated by Meta? How?

Dalmau · 09/01/2025 07:29

Anti Muslim rhetoric and a Muslim witch hunt just takes the heat off the wider issue which covers all ethnicities including absolutely the very big white population.

whereaw · 09/01/2025 07:32

You are saying making an inquiry into the case will cover up online abuse? It is not possible to focus on two separate issues we have to only consider the bigger issue?

HellsBalls · 09/01/2025 07:33

@dcbgr ”According to independent report by Quilliam 84% of all people convicted since 2005 for the specific crime of gang grooming were Asian. ”

I think by using the description’Asian’ or ‘South Asian’ they are just trying to deflect that the rapists were all Pakistanis, by including India, Thailand, Malaysia, Nepal, Indonesia into the catchment.
I’ve never heard of Indian rape gangs operating in UK (though we have all heard of horror stories coming out of India, and Thailand/Vietnam has a child prostitution industry).
Anyway, by now, everyone knows who the perpetrators are.

BIossomtoes · 09/01/2025 07:52

NeatDog · 09/01/2025 06:41

Labour, the Tories and the BBC have all let those poor girls down.

I used to think Labour was on the side of the average person on the street. But Starmer was a human rights lawyer that fought to keep these people in the UK.

The Tories had 14 years to have a public inquiry and did nothing.

Starmer was also the DPP who was responsible for setting off a train of prosecuting these men and Jess Phillips has made superhuman efforts to support the victims. It’s blantantly untrue to say that Labour has let them down, it’s the reverse. And why pick on the BBC?

Babadookinthewardrobe · 09/01/2025 08:00

namechangeGOT · 08/01/2025 13:11

@ChardonnaysBeastlyCat

Sorry! My apologies.

I'm from Rotherham, I was a teenaged girl when others from my cohort were being groomed, raped both vaginally & anally, sexually assaulted in ways women on this board cannot imagine, being impregnated , being tortured violently and sexually, being hooked onto drugs, being passed around between kebab houses and taxi firms, being shipped over county borders to be raped by others. Gang raped in so many cases. And then systematically let down by every authority you could imagine including Police, Social Services & the Labour Council because of who the girls were considered to be and because of who was doing the raping and torturing. Community Cohesion and the fear of causing racial tensions in Rotherham stopped those girls, my friends, from being given any form of protection and any ability of being able to move on. And it is still fucking happening. It isn't right wing to still be talking about, it isn't right wing to be pleased that it has been brought back into the public eye - not that it was sufficiently enough in the public eye to start with.

So many of you wanting to shut people up have absolutely no idea of the hell that was Rotherham and have no comprehension of why victims, their families and people on the periphery like me do not believe that the Government have the first idea of how to 'implement change'. If the Governments both past and present have a single fuck then it wouldn't have happened and it wouldn't be still happening.

Thank you for your post. I completely agree with you. I’m so sorry your friends and your community were let down so badly by EVERY public body responsible for protecting you and that this continues to happen. It truly disgusts me.

I could not give a stuff that it is Musk keeping this disgraceful matter in the headlines. Were it not for him the current government would continue to obfuscate and deflect just as the last one did.

I am deeply suspicious of all those politicians and posters on this board trying to turn this into a party political matter rather than focusing on the ongoing trauma to the victims. Still they don’t care about the victims. Hideous.

BananaAppleOrange · 09/01/2025 08:02

BIossomtoes · 09/01/2025 07:52

Starmer was also the DPP who was responsible for setting off a train of prosecuting these men and Jess Phillips has made superhuman efforts to support the victims. It’s blantantly untrue to say that Labour has let them down, it’s the reverse. And why pick on the BBC?

So you are saying that the actions of these two MP are representative of the whole of Labour?

BIossomtoes · 09/01/2025 08:04

BananaAppleOrange · 09/01/2025 08:02

So you are saying that the actions of these two MP are representative of the whole of Labour?

Obviously not. Your comprehension skills really are remarkably poor. I don’t think Badenoch’s refusal to meet with the victims is representative of the whole of the Tory government either.

NeatDog · 09/01/2025 08:04

BIossomtoes · 09/01/2025 07:52

Starmer was also the DPP who was responsible for setting off a train of prosecuting these men and Jess Phillips has made superhuman efforts to support the victims. It’s blantantly untrue to say that Labour has let them down, it’s the reverse. And why pick on the BBC?

I don't think enough was done about this issue. It was largely ignored because the perpetrators were non white. You know that, I know that, we all know that.

The BBC has been calling them "grooming gangs". Grooming is when you brush a horse, it's not when you gang rape a child. I think the BBC ignored the issue because it was the "right wing" that originally raised the issue.

The truth is, lots of these girls wouldn't have been raped if the BBC had actually done their job.

BIossomtoes · 09/01/2025 08:08

NeatDog · 09/01/2025 08:04

I don't think enough was done about this issue. It was largely ignored because the perpetrators were non white. You know that, I know that, we all know that.

The BBC has been calling them "grooming gangs". Grooming is when you brush a horse, it's not when you gang rape a child. I think the BBC ignored the issue because it was the "right wing" that originally raised the issue.

The truth is, lots of these girls wouldn't have been raped if the BBC had actually done their job.

The Times did its job. So did Julie Bindel. What difference did it make? Zero. Sure the victims were let down - by the police mainly. It’s splitting hairs to object to the word grooming.

PeppyGreenFinch · 09/01/2025 08:10

Tweeteroo · 09/01/2025 02:39

Yes. I'm not going to engage with you anymore. You're arguing with someone who didn't use the term in the first place - perhaps put your questions to the poster who did. You're purposely deflecting away from the real subject - the mass rapes of hundreds of poor vulnerable young girls. They deserve our attention not you and your imaginary ' hurt'.

I did respond to the poster who used the term.

Not participating in a witch hunt doesn’t mean deflection from the issue.

It’s possible to care about two issues - the rape and torture of young girls and also the people who gleefully and cynically seize on the girls’ suffering to further their anti-Muslim agenda, which Musk and his some of his cohort here are so shamelessly doing.

Anyway, glad you won’t be posting to me again.

PeppyGreenFinch · 09/01/2025 08:12

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 09/01/2025 03:10

What we don’t need is for all of this to be dredged up into the realm of public opinion, where it is likely to radicalise working class men against the authorities, and against communities who just want to live their lives in peace.

I do not want communities who organise child-rape gangs to live their lives in peace.

Obviously most rapists in Britain are likely to be white because the majority of this Northern European island’s population is white.

Edited

Which city do you live in? We can then see how many crimes your ‘community’ were involve in.

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