Would you give this to your partner if that is what he wants?

[Interestingone]

Would you send a naked photograph to your partner if he asked?
Just that really. I am not sure if this is the norm between couples. Mine has asked but I'm not sure if I should or not.

How do you feel?
Would you or have you?

Fuck no, I'd divorce him first.

Ermm, you might have noticed, it’s a public discussion forum, that’s kind of the point

No I wouldn't and he has never asked

I think it's sad how ashamed so many women seem to be of the fact that they (we) are sexual creatures.

If you find it cringe fair play but if you're just worried about someone else seeing cmon who cares.

Exactly, and I’m entitled to think what I want, just as you are. You don’t have to reply to people telling them they are wrong to have their own view where doing so adds nothing to the discussion 😂. It’s not as if you were going to make me rethink my stance.

Not now, but in the dim and distance past when we were in a long distance relationship I did. Plus I was extremely fit back then 😉very much curated by me though and I would say rather artsy as that was my preference, rather than something tacky out of 1980's Forum magazine (unless you worked/shopped in a garage in the eighties you may not get that reference).
Thing is - I wanted to. Absolutely DO NOT do anything that you don't want to do too - it has to be something you also get something out of or it's a total NO. If you're even a bit unsure - it is a no. It doesn't matter what anyone else does/did/didn't/won't do.

I am not telling you that YOU are wrong. Can you not see that?

What do you mean how can you have sex without showing your body? I never wrote about not showing your body during sex - I wrote that it is not normal to send pictures of your private parts to people!

Great - I don't send pictures of my saggy arse to others and I am the abnormal one? Truly, the world has gone mad.

Absolutely not. I don’t understand why anybody would? You can never be sure where it might end up. It would be a huge ick for me and thankfully he recognises that.

Together 25 years.

No. Maybe a slightly sexy nightdress (something it might be embarrassing for someone to accidentally see) but never naked.

No. Not that he would ever think of asking.

I love the ‘bits and bobs’ description 😂😂

Please don't do it. If he has any respect for you, he will not ask again or kick up a fuss if you say no. He shouldn't have asked you in the first place. I have learnt to my cost that it's not a good idea. I was talked into sending one to a bloke I was seeing, years ago. I was silly enough to send it. He kept pestering me about it and I was younger and easily swayed. Then a few weeks later, he was drunkenly showing off to me that he and his friend had been leering over his friend's wife nude picture. I was horrified. That was the last time I saw him. I still worry where that picture of me has ended up.

No.

I said it was sleazy, you told me I was wrong because it isn’t. Do I have to always make sure I say ‘’I think’’ or ‘’I find’’ before having an opinion? People don’t always do that. It’s obvious it’s my opinion.

Nope. As you know information security risks are prevalent.

Generally yes, otherwise you're stating is a fact, not your opinion.

Yes, loads. But we’ve been together, er 24 years (had to think then).

The reason it bothers me to read the "no never you'd just have to die if it ever got out" is that these attitudes contribute to people feeling their lives are over if a nude picture becomes public.

It absolutely doesn't matter.

You choose not to send pictures of yourself, that’s fine.
People should not judge you for it.

But other people choose to do it and there’s their choice and it’s not for you to judge them either.

You have said nasty things about peoples bodies which is odd considering you’re not the one receiving the photos.

Why would your employer sack you for this? Of course, they wouldn't.

OP, I did and would do so again but only with a long-term partner and I never include my head in the shot. However, you need to be comfortable doing it which it doesn't sound like you are.

No, I wouldn't. Anything can happen to those videos and photos. Phones get broken, sent for repair, thrown out and salvaged, given to family members...

No and my god to everyone out there please don’t ever ever ever ever send naked pictures- I know someone who was bribed by a person they trusted and in the media there have been countless stories of people scammed/ bribed or it accidentally ending up outside of where it was sent to. I think all teens should be told this over and over and over again (sorry I just get shivers when I think about it)

Absolutely not. I have been with my partner 21 years and though I trust he wouldn’t share it or use it against me, I don’t trust the ‘security’ of social media / messaging apps. If you do fancy it though, NEVER show your face in the picture 😁

This

For some people it's normal and for some not. But I think it's making yourself hostage to fortune