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Would you give this to your partner if that is what he wants?

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Interestingone · 06/01/2025 18:17

Would you send a naked photograph to your partner if he asked?
Just that really. I am not sure if this is the norm between couples. Mine has asked but I'm not sure if I should or not.

How do you feel?
Would you or have you?

OP posts:
PullTheBricksDown · 09/01/2025 14:19

It'll end up on something like this, is the likelihood.
www.theguardian.com/world/2022/jan/06/i-have-moments-of-shame-i-cant-control-the-lives-ruined-by-explicit-collector-culture
Bin him

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 09/01/2025 14:27

I did when I was younger... we sent each other all sorts of stuff. And we photographed each other.
But it was mutual and we trusted each other.
I wouldn't send him anything now... probably break his phone screen!

Planesmistakenforstars · 09/01/2025 18:32

it has become a constant request of his that I send him one. He is insisting that I also put my face in the photo.

He is very persistent on this I must add.

This has crossed my mind too (regarding secretly recording you)

How many signs do you need that this is not a good man? This isn’t a grey area. Anyone who badgers you for something sexual, won’t take no for an answer, or pushes your boundaries is a truly awful person. And you are also wondering if he might record you without your consent, which is crime. Fucking hell OP, you can’t seriously be considering sending this man nudes, let alone ever having sex with him again.

Markovenchip · 12/01/2025 11:32

No, don't do it, if you split, anything could happen, about 20 plus years ago I worked with a young guy who used to bring in photos of his naked girlfriend (she worked in a photo developing shop) to show all and sundry, he didn't think anything of it, but I didn't feel he should be doing so, they eventually split, he left the job we were at, had no further contact, and I've heard since (from former colleagues) his marriage (to another) broke up, and none of his relationships have lasted, but has several children, by three different women, a right carry on !

pinkyredrose · 12/01/2025 16:04

Dump this loser.

Batteredcodmushypeasandafalafal · 12/01/2025 22:32

I did this after lots of "persuasion", after a break up he posted it online. I would never ever do it again.

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