Would you give this to your partner if that is what he wants?

[Interestingone]

Would you send a naked photograph to your partner if he asked?
Just that really. I am not sure if this is the norm between couples. Mine has asked but I'm not sure if I should or not.

How do you feel?
Would you or have you?

You’re going to get a load of the boomer generation saying they wouldn’t because it wasn’t the done thing in those days.

Realistically now things are different, there’s so much more technology which means it’s a lot more normal in this day and age.

If you want to, do it. But don’t put your face in it. I have done it with previous partners, and received them back, it was fun. But if you don’t want to, obviously say no. Any man pressuring you isn’t worth the time of day.

I've sent them, but only ones where I look particularly nice or you can't tell it's me. I am a photographer so I'm happy that any that I've taken won't upset me if they were seen by unintended eyes.

I find it sleazy. The type of men that ask for naked pictures usually view women as pieces of meat that exist for their pleasure, I’m not willing to be someone’s wank fodder . Just because you don’t find it sleazy, you don’t get to tell me how to feel about it or if it’s sleazy or not. How you feel is up to you, and the same goes for me.

I wouldn't think twice about it, although don't recall him having ever asked. We're 10 years together though.

I can't imagine anything I'd like to receive less than a dick pic and no I would never send naked pics.

No , but we’ve been married for 35 yrs and he sees me naked enough .

If YOU want to, go for it, the fact you're asking on here screams don't do it. I sent a pic to my then partner, now husband, but I chopped my head off :) just in the pic that is :) and he didn't ask me to send it. He opened it in the middle of a supermarket and was a tad surprised 😆

“I find it sleazy” is very different to “it’s sleazy”.
I didn't tell you how to feel, and I agree with your last sentence.

Oh dear, somebody has some issues!

My advice on sending nudes via phone.

1. Never show your face.

1. If you're insecure, look on Pornhub or other free adult sites and screenshot a photo of a professional exhibitionists private parts and send that.

1. Don't do it. It usually ends in tears.

Are you serious? It is not a psychiatric deviation, that is ridiculous

No, never.

No.
Fuck that.

Imagine exhibiting your own body to your own partner, who by all accounts likes it. Disgusting! 😂

Imagine the pic on a billboard outside your Mum's house. Hold that thought while you decide.
You might want to think about the sort of man who'd ask you to send a pic like that and what his motive might be.

This is a discussion forum with all sorts of people’s opinions, and most adjectives are subjective, aren’t they? Telling me ‘’I just don’t like it’’ as if I’m wrong about my own feelings. I don’t like it because I find it sleazy and objectifying and that’s all there is to it.

NO NO NO NO! Do not do it!

I wasn’t trying to tell you what you feel.
You clearly don’t like it, so I was correct, and you not liking it doesn’t make it sleazy. It means you find it sleazy.
That does not make it sleazy.

I’m bored of the word sleazy now, so I’m out lol

Never send a naked photo to anyone! Even if the person you send it is trustworthy, it can still appear in a data leak, or their account can be hacked, and then you're stuffed.
I'd tell him I don't appreciate being asked and hope he gets the message.

Yeah, I have done and would do again with my DH, but doesn't mean I'd do it in every relationship.

Well we are apes and yes all animals in the animal kingdom, including humans, flash their body parts at their sexual partners because how else would they be your sexual partner?

How can you have sex without showing your body?

You are the abnormally here and it’s fine to not feel comfortable sending photos or videos of yourself, but to have such an extreme reaction to your partners body is just weird.

You obviously have a lot of issues and I assume have never been naked or had sex, which is absolutely your choice but you must know that that is very uncommon.

No chance. As I tell my teenage DDs, you should imagine any photo you take on your phone being printed off and posted all over school/college/your work place, and consider whether you would be comfortable with that. So many phones are stolen and appear to be easily broken into, kids could "borrow" a friend's phone for something and forward on pics to themselves, you often hear of famous peoples' iclouds being hacked and even if you send it to ONE person, there's no guarantee they won't show someone else, or forward it on, and before you know it, the photo is everywhere. The very, very small benefit (making your partner happy for a few minutes) seems ridiculously small in comparison with the very large amount of negative outcomes which could arise.

Yeah. I have when I was younger.
Just had my 3rd baby so would not be up for that right now tho!! Not feeling so attractive right now!

It's really up to you how you feel about doing something like this though. No one else can tell you.

For me I just don't care at all what happens to the pictures.
If I sent them I sent them in God faith and trust. And I'm a grown woman.
I'd not feel any embarrassment were they to end up online. I'd just feel sad and angry that someone I had trusted thought it acceptable to break my trust in that way.
But my anger would be directed at them. I'd never regret having sent the picture. People can think what they want. I know I did it in good faith. And I've a right to my own sexuality just as everyone does. I don't think it demeans me or anyone else apart from the people out there betraying people's trust.

As far as I'm aware though there are no videos or photos of me online so I guess my trust has never been misplaced thankfully.

Why did you have to comment then? 🤣 do you reply to everybody’s comments you don’t agree with? If someone describes someone as, say, rude, do you reply ‘’he’s not rude, you just don’t like him’’ 🤣. Pointless comment, really.

I think my mum would object to any billboard outside her house tbh.