Would you give this to your partner if that is what he wants?

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Would you send a naked photograph to your partner if he asked?
Just that really. I am not sure if this is the norm between couples. Mine has asked but I'm not sure if I should or not.

How do you feel?
Would you or have you?

No Op. Too many men use private pictures for revenge if you break up or share them on online sites. He has a memory, let him use it

I do with my longterm partner but never showing my face. We were long distance for a couple of years so it was a bit of fun for us. All initiated by me (female) for the record.

Nope. I trust my DH implicitly but I don't like the idea of it at all. Everything about it makes my skin crawl - probably due to men asking in the past. DH has never asked and never sent me pictures of himself like that, either. I'd be concerned about him losing his phone, or something happening to us both and someone else going looking through our pictures. Just nope.

Not a bloody chance

No,no and no.
Protect yourself at all costs.

Hard no from me.
I live by the motto of only having photos that exist of me that I would be ok with my grandmother and my boss seeing (without anything more than a mild embarrassment).

No

Yes I potentially would but Im not a moron so I wouldn’t have my face in the shot.

Every woman who has ever found her naked picture on the internet without her knowledge seems to have sent it to some bloke who asked for it.

If that is something you are okay with happening, or to be used as a 'photo or it didn't happen' then go right ahead and send them.

The internet is full of pictures of naked women so they aren't exactly in short supply.
If he is asking you I'd be wondering how many other women he knows that he has pictures of.

No.

Yes but the photos never include my face 😂.

Same here. Married 30 years. Mine wouldn’t dream of asking.

To my mind, no decent bloke would. Essentially he is asking you to take the risk that naked pictures of yourself might end up on the internet. Not a chance.

Nope. 9 years with dp and 2 kids, he wouldn't ask, and neither of us would send them anyway (we've discussed this phenomenon). I've been asked by creeps before him trying their luck, but never by a long term decent human being.

Not to sound too judgemental! I imagine this may play a role in long term trusting kinky relationships, but a year, or a random? No chance!

Anyone with any respect for you, would not ask!

No, but he wouldn't ask and we've been together 18 years. Someone I didn't know that long, absolutely not

Definitely not. For all the reasons that the previous posters have already given.

Yeah I agree with this

No. Just no. Never. Don't.

Please don't do this. Once it's gone you have absolutely no control of where it is, who sees it or what happens with it.

Why in earth does he want this and why does he think it's ok to suggest? What a dick.

No way!! Why does he want a naked picture of you? He can see you naked surely during intimate moments? I don't think this is normal. Maybe between casual sex only couples , even then I wouldn't do it

Why would she be sacked for being the victim of revenge porn?

I've done it with a long term partner (mutually exchanging), but if you've had to make a post about whether you should or not, it's maybe not something you're comfortable with so I wouldn't!

Never.
I worked on an industrial site about 1000 people through the gates every day. We were about 50 women, basically the admin, hr and medical staff. I can tell you that was an education. Never ever send anything compromising to a man, no matter how much you think you can trust or think you know them.

No, I wouldn’t - you have no control over what happens to it once it’s out there.

No and my husband has never asked either.

I think it has become quite normalised, but no way would I ever do it for the reasons already given by pp.

He's never asked but if he did the answer would be no. Never have and never will.