Would you give this to your partner if that is what he wants?

[Interestingone]

Would you send a naked photograph to your partner if he asked?
Just that really. I am not sure if this is the norm between couples. Mine has asked but I'm not sure if I should or not.

How do you feel?
Would you or have you?

Short answer NO.
He has no respect for you and if you have to ask you already don't feel comfortable with this.
He insists ... well he can fuck off as this level of disrespect when not in a relationship the way you want it is a major indication of the level of control he will try to press on you going forward!
He's a prick.

No. Never

nope

Absolutely no face face, please. So many people regret it. Pictures get shown to others. Uploaded places.
His persistence is off putting, and likely never stop.

I sent nudes and lingerie photos to my boyfriend years before we started going out and he saved them for me online, as at time I wasn't sure how to do it safely.
I transferred the nudes back to my phone & my email around a year after were started going out.
Sure the lingerie ones are on phone still phone as he asked to show them to our mutual female friend 18 months ago. They are buried deep in his private Facebook gallery as well. Hardly the raunchiest photos on FB!

Nudity has never been an issue with us as I stayed at his place when I knew him a few months. We lived in same block of flats, and he let me stay after a flood and my electrics were drying out for a couple of weeks. In such confined places it wasn't practical to worry about too much privacy & his shower/bath taps are a nightmare to use unless you know 'just how' to do them.
We got on extremely well from the start & him "being different" to every guy I ever med - ASD Aspergers - he's never been a creep to me or any other girls. Overall for me and him it's a non issue.
He's never asked for nudes, most I get is a 'show us your tits' when we've not seen each other in a couple of weeks (we don't live together) . Friends have flashed him theirs to get a reaction and he often hardly blinks.

Obviously I have no idea of your husband's motives. Perhaps an underwear pic and see how he goes with it?

@LoopyLoo1991 not sure where to start with this 🤣 😳

Lol! 😆
Any way you want. I am notorious flirt at times, but back at the beginning I never considered him for a romantic partner.
I'm sure their are photocopies of my butt still out there from my wild teenage days when my schools IT department was unsupervised... 😁

No and in OP's situation, hell no.

I wouldn't have nude photos out of my control.

He's bugging about it so he doesn't take no for an answer.

Telling you you have to show your face in them I would count as a big red flag.

I would and have to my husband of 25
years

to a boyfriend no but if I did I would blur out my face so if I did end up somewhere they can’t prove it’s me

or put my face on supermodels body 😂

No

Having read your other post where he’s wants open legs and face showing
tell him to fuck off

and I would be wary of sleeping with him at his place in case he has set up a hidden camera

if you do go to his place and he insists on keeping the lights on when you have sex he’s probably got a hidden camera in the room

In the past I have sent those types of photos and videos - it’s something I enjoy as part of sex.

However I have never and will never have my face in them. Which I see you are being asked to do.

If you don’t feel comfortable don’t to it. Don’t let him push you into it.

No, hell no, and for the love of all that is holy NO.

I've been with DH 24 years, I trust him more than I trust any other human being and I still wouldn't send him naked pictures of myself.

I truly don't think he would send them to anyone, but I couldn't guarantee he wouldn't accidentally upload them to the cloud and make them available on a family link, or forget to delete them from hard storage on a device and then sell the device or get hacked.

Sending naked photos is more likely to go wrong than right, sending photos where you can be identified is even more risky.

So NO, NO, NO.

You’ve already said no and he’s being ‘very insistent’ about it. He wants your face in. This sounds very much like a trap. Do not send anything.

Yes, it does sound like it’s a trap. How do you rate your chances of getting them deleted if you ever decided to end this relationship?

What do you think is the likelihood that he has a little personal collection from previous sexual partners? What would be their chances of him respecting their privacy?

He has fixated on this, you are in effect his Mark, for him to target in on.
You really do need to give him the boot. He has absolutely no respect for you. He has rejected your No, because he doesn’t respect you or your privacy.

I've been with DH for 19 years and married for 12 and the answer would still be no!

I trust him implicitly but once something like that has been taken, sent, uploaded to a cloud backup etc you never have control.

I wouldn't if I were you. Not saying he's a bad lad, but you may not always be together and you know what sometimes happens......

Could you ask him to send you a naked photo of himself first? Legs open, pleasuring himself with a large cucumber? Face visible of course to show how much he enjoys himself. Promise him you'll just have a look and delete it. He'll do it if he truly loves you no doubt.

Absolutely. And have done. Videos too. I trust my husband though.

This.

Dh was telling me about someone he knows sent a photo of his wife to someone else, with the expectation that the someone else would send back a photo of his wife in return (he didn't)🤮

Personally me nope.

NO

He clearly does not like taking NO for an answer
that's not good !

there are times in life when people need to hear and understand NO...

Not in a million years. And he wouldn't ask.