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Pasta..

130 replies

MumWifeOther · 05/01/2025 00:17

I went for dinner tonight and the menu said the dish I ordered was made with penne.. When the food arrived it was fusilli!

I hate fusilli, it’s the worst pasta beside angel hair (capellini), so I actually politely sent the dish back and asked for something else (they apparently had run out of penne and forgot to say).

AIBU - all pasta is the same
YNBU - fusilli is the worst pasta (or enter your worst)

OP posts:
RossGellersCat · 05/01/2025 07:38

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 05/01/2025 01:04

Genuinely upset by how this vote has gone. Different pasta shapes are not the same. Different texture, they absorb sauce differently.
They should at least tell you they've run out and try to substitute a similar pasta shape.

I wonder if some people are voting based on the differences between pastas and others are responding to the OP sending the dish back and reflecting that this behaviour was unreasonable?

ttcat37 · 05/01/2025 07:38

Do you often have sensory issues with food or usually refuse to eat things if they’re a different shape to what you’re used to?

buttonousmaximous · 05/01/2025 07:45

Conchiglie and farfalle are far superior but no it wouldn't bother me if pasta came in a different shape.

HoraceCope · 05/01/2025 07:48

i hate linguine

FrowntonAbbey · 05/01/2025 07:51

How awful for you , OP! You poor thing! I assume you have logged this crime against carbohydrates with 101 and you are being supported. Forts and prayers, hun, forts and prayers. Have a hand hold.

ohmymyyiaz · 05/01/2025 08:01

I won’t say I hate fusilli but penne has a better effect in my mouth 😁

If they hadn’t informed you then it’s quite reasonable to send it back… “Not what the menu states!”

HOTTOGOisastupidsong · 05/01/2025 09:22

Pumpkinseason3 · 05/01/2025 07:22

CAN WE ALL STOP THE FARFALLE HATE PLEASE 😭

Have a go at orzo or something 🤣 fake rice!

No! Orzo is a firm favourite in this house, in fact it’s on the shopping list for today so the teens can make an orzo tomato salad for pack lunches in preparation for school starting tomorrow. I’d say they make a big batch of it at least every other week.

curious79 · 05/01/2025 09:24

my son will eat long pasta but not short pasta - says it creeps him out.
your choice!

Eldermillenialyogi · 05/01/2025 09:27

Pasta's are not all the same and different shapes suit different dishes based on how they hold sauce and suit the dish. I'd be disappointed to get fusilli if the menu said penne.

HoraceCope · 05/01/2025 09:28

Eldermillenialyogi · 05/01/2025 09:27

Pasta's are not all the same and different shapes suit different dishes based on how they hold sauce and suit the dish. I'd be disappointed to get fusilli if the menu said penne.

exactly

familyissues12345 · 05/01/2025 09:33

I now want pasta Envy

Rigatoni is my favourite!

SereneCapybara · 05/01/2025 09:34

Turophilic · 05/01/2025 00:52

Pappardelle is the worst. The pinched bit in the middle takes much longer to cook that the ‘wings’ so either the middle’s undercooked or the rest is overcooked.

This is true. It is a despicable design - rock hard and soggy at the same time. There's no way of cooking it well.
But I think it is called farfalle.

LandedGentTree · 05/01/2025 09:36

Turophilic · 05/01/2025 00:52

Pappardelle is the worst. The pinched bit in the middle takes much longer to cook that the ‘wings’ so either the middle’s undercooked or the rest is overcooked.

That doesn't sound like pappardelle, which is wide ribbons.

LandedGentTree · 05/01/2025 09:37

HOTTOGOisastupidsong · 05/01/2025 09:22

No! Orzo is a firm favourite in this house, in fact it’s on the shopping list for today so the teens can make an orzo tomato salad for pack lunches in preparation for school starting tomorrow. I’d say they make a big batch of it at least every other week.

Orzo is dreadful!

Lambington · 05/01/2025 09:44

Penne is rank. Too chewy.

OneBadKitty · 05/01/2025 10:03

YANBU for preferring penne over fusilli but I don't believe you really sent it back- not many people would be enough of a knob to do that!

Katemax82 · 05/01/2025 10:05

I like fusili but if that happened to my son there would be trouble as he hates it too! The texture is off putting

Turophilic · 05/01/2025 10:07

@HOTTOGOisastupidsong Yes I am! I’m a dingbat.
It was very late at night and I’m claiming that as my excuse.

Turophilic · 05/01/2025 10:08

LandedGentTree · 05/01/2025 09:36

That doesn't sound like pappardelle, which is wide ribbons.

Yes, I meant the stupid bows, farfalle. Brain fart.

TheseCalmSeas · 05/01/2025 10:09

Penne and fusilli are my least favourites but YANBU.

Penne is the pesto pasta king

TheseCalmSeas · 05/01/2025 10:09

Turophilic · 05/01/2025 10:08

Yes, I meant the stupid bows, farfalle. Brain fart.

Boo, love the bows & differing texture

Louisetheroux · 05/01/2025 10:09

OneBadKitty · 05/01/2025 10:03

YANBU for preferring penne over fusilli but I don't believe you really sent it back- not many people would be enough of a knob to do that!

If you ordered chips and mashed potato turned up, would you send it back? I mean it's all potato you knob

Mumofyellows · 05/01/2025 10:11

I wouldn't have caused a fuss if a different pasta had come out, not a huge drama for me. I love fusilli and think penne is the worst!

TopThreeFTW · 05/01/2025 10:12

Talipesmum · 05/01/2025 00:23

No, all pasta isn’t the same, some works better for some dishes but I would find it hard to get worked up about fusilli vs penne. I’d use them pretty interchangeably. Sometimes if I’ve got half bags left I’ve been known to mix them (only mentioned that to give you nightmares)

I always mix my pastas. Fusilli, penne, conchiglie, farfalle etc. Tricolour and wholewheat. Or linguine and spaghetti. How wild of me(!)

user2848502016 · 05/01/2025 10:12

That's ridiculous, what a waste of food!
I do have preferences of pasta shape (and tend to agree with you about fusili) but wouldn't send a dish back because of it

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