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SkiingonKaraSea · 03/01/2025 11:38

BananaNirvana · 03/01/2025 11:36

The thread is literally about Musk though - it’s in the title 🙄. That doesn’t mean they care more about Musk - it means they recognise how little he gives a fuck and that he’s using these girls for his own political ends. 🤬

It is about girls being raped and tortured and posters trying to shut down the debate.

BananaNirvana · 03/01/2025 11:39

Needmoresleep · 03/01/2025 11:37

Common humanity.

Gang rape of vulnerable young girls is inhumane in any circumstances. It should not happen, especially in an affluent democracy.

EVERYONE should be concerned. The fact that Elon is speaking up is neither here nor there. Why are our politicians not as concerned.

Elon is apparently on the spectrum so will say things as he sees them. What he sees here is awful. He is not always right, and people may be right to distrust him. But they should not ignore this.

He doesn’t “say things as he sees them” because he’s on the spectrum 🙄. Dear god. The man is a greedy megalomaniac who acts in his own self interest. That’s all he’s interested in - furthering his power and wealth.

JHound · 03/01/2025 11:39

SkiingonKaraSea · 03/01/2025 11:35

The number of posters on here who are more concerned about Musk commenting on an atrocity that has not been addressed, and the Labour government do not want to address because ‘it might help their political opponents’, than the thousands of girls (some as young as 10 or 11) raped and tortured is appalling.

The thread is about him so obviously people will mention him.

Aduvetday · 03/01/2025 11:39

JHound · 03/01/2025 11:33

Nobody has tried to shut down debate.

Yeah they have. As I said, want to know why people are turning to populist figures? The hard left trying to shut down any uncomfortable discourse is the problem. Hard left, hard right are BOTH the problem. In this case, it’s the left that need to have a good long look at how their views enabled this abuse. Your posts are a great example of the whatterboutery hard left talk.

AdventFridgeOfShame · 03/01/2025 11:39

justasking111 · 03/01/2025 11:36

Suella Braverman turned down a request for an enquiry a couple of years ago. They've all dodged it.

JFC
THERE HAS BEEN AN INQUIRY

Suella Braverman, Priti Patel, Grant Shapps and James Cleverly all failed to implement the recommendations.

FancyAnotherCuppa · 03/01/2025 11:39

As if he’s doing this because he cares about the victims. He’s doing this to stir up hatred and back his new bestie Farage.

If he honestly gave a shit about the victims of sexual abuse, he would not have so heavily backed Trump. (Partly) thanks to him the US has a sex offender as its new president.

Please let’s not think Elon is a good guy. He’s a very dangerous man.

JHound · 03/01/2025 11:40

Aduvetday · 03/01/2025 11:39

Yeah they have. As I said, want to know why people are turning to populist figures? The hard left trying to shut down any uncomfortable discourse is the problem. Hard left, hard right are BOTH the problem. In this case, it’s the left that need to have a good long look at how their views enabled this abuse. Your posts are a great example of the whatterboutery hard left talk.

And yet the issue is widely discussed.

Evidently “shut down debate” means something different to you than it does in reality.

(and I am well aware why people turn to populist figures and it’s not because of people “shutting down debate”. If people turn to the far right it says a lot about them. And nothing good.)

Commenting on the topic is not “Whataboutery” and being a fiscal conservative is not “hard left”.

You are using words you don’t understand.

mortal2024 · 03/01/2025 11:41

JHound · 03/01/2025 11:40

And yet the issue is widely discussed.

Evidently “shut down debate” means something different to you than it does in reality.

(and I am well aware why people turn to populist figures and it’s not because of people “shutting down debate”. If people turn to the far right it says a lot about them. And nothing good.)

Commenting on the topic is not “Whataboutery” and being a fiscal conservative is not “hard left”.

You are using words you don’t understand.

Edited

As you are aware, it is only in the last few weeks that any sort of widespread public debate has taken place, and that in large part because Americans, including Musk, have been asking questions about the rape gangs.

SkiingonKaraSea · 03/01/2025 11:41

AdventFridgeOfShame · 03/01/2025 11:39

JFC
THERE HAS BEEN AN INQUIRY

Suella Braverman, Priti Patel, Grant Shapps and James Cleverly all failed to implement the recommendations.

Where does the inquiry cover immigrant cultures? Or recommended prosecution of police who failed to protect children?

JHound · 03/01/2025 11:43

mortal2024 · 03/01/2025 11:41

As you are aware, it is only in the last few weeks that any sort of widespread public debate has taken place, and that in large part because Americans, including Musk, have been asking questions about the rape gangs.

Edited

If you think this topic has only been discussed in the “last few weeks” then you are wilfully deaf, dumb and blind”.

I have been privvy to discussions on this for years. Why did you not notice?

Pinetreethree · 03/01/2025 11:44

mortal2024 · 03/01/2025 11:39

Another poster is so hysterically enraged at this thread she's started an anti Elon Musk thread, here's a reply from another hysteric stating that she has reported this thread for existing.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/amibeingunreasonable/5243724-to-want-elon-musk-to-stay-the-fuck-out-of-uk-politics?reply=141042614&utmcampaign=thread&utmmedium=share

Edited

Where are the hysterics?

JHound · 03/01/2025 11:44

SkiingonKaraSea · 03/01/2025 11:41

Where does the inquiry cover immigrant cultures? Or recommended prosecution of police who failed to protect children?

What does “covering immigrant cultures” mean?

Goldenbear · 03/01/2025 11:44

Zebedee999 · 03/01/2025 11:26

When our own government want to cover up the rape gangs (and don't know what a woman is etc) then I don't care who calls them out on it. Good on Musk for raising the profile of this travesty.
Our own Minster for Safeguarding wants it buried as she only wants to safeguard these gangs as they predominantly vote labour whereas yound girls can't vote. Despicable, it's all about the votes not what is right. This government is not for women.
I've worked within some of these communities and in Bradford 63% of Pakistani women married their cousins, a large number of whom were underage at the time of marriage... but Labour will not act on any of these things, always ignored or covered up. Minister of Safeguarding and Labour are completely failing women at every level.

Are the victims still girls or are they over 18 and can vote now?

Miffylou · 03/01/2025 11:44

I know this will be unpopular but I think it needs to be said.
Before I say it, please note: yes the crime was rape, yes the police should have done more, yes the poor girls were vulnerable and taken advantage of, yes the whole thing was disgusting and yes I think there was an element of police and social workers being too afraid of being accused of being racist.

BUT… I think SOME of the problem was due to the attitude prevalent among social workers at the time that teenagers (and yes I know some of the poor victims weren’t even old enough to be called teenagers) should be allowed to make their own "lifestyle choices". I was told this by a SW when I reported how a young teenager kept bunking off school to go and have sex with (white) men. I was also told that there was nothing they could do to stop teenagers in care from choosing to leave their children’s home or foster carers every evening to go to the homes of these men (who the girls naively thought were their boyfriends but who were really rapist abusers) "because we’re not allowed to lock them up so we can’t stop them going out if they choose to".

Don’t shoot the messenger.

I hope something has changed.

Over40Overdating · 03/01/2025 11:45

Where is anyone shutting down debate by pointing out:

-There has been an enquiry
-Tory party did NOTHING in response
-Labour can still be held to account
-This cannot happen again
-Musk does not give a shiny shit
-The Musk is a hero posters appear to have zero knowledge of what has been done to date and are reacting only to the dog whistling

How is pointing any of this out closing debate? The people actually closing any debate down are those saying ‘waaah if you don’t agree with me, you are shutting me down! You are the evil ones!’

UrsulasHerbBag · 03/01/2025 11:46

Elon Musk is an arsehole. Everything is for his own personal agenda. He has too much money and people have given him too much of a voice in everything. The scandal of the grooming gangs will haunt us for ever. It happened. It keeps happening. We should be tackling why and what preventions can be put in place from all political parties and anyone who doesn’t want to get on board needs a good think about their values. All our girls are important and deserve our protection especially the very vulnerable.

JHound · 03/01/2025 11:46

mortal2024 · 03/01/2025 11:39

Another poster is so hysterically enraged at this thread she's started an anti Elon Musk thread, here's a reply from another hysteric stating that she has reported this thread for existing.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/amibeingunreasonable/5243724-to-want-elon-musk-to-stay-the-fuck-out-of-uk-politics?reply=141042614&utmcampaign=thread&utmmedium=share

Edited

One person saying they want a foreign billionaire to stay out of UK politics and another saying they reported one commenter for trolling.

How exactly is this SHuttInG dOwN deBAte?

Chainzreaction · 03/01/2025 11:46

SkiingonKaraSea · 03/01/2025 11:35

The number of posters on here who are more concerned about Musk commenting on an atrocity that has not been addressed, and the Labour government do not want to address because ‘it might help their political opponents’, than the thousands of girls (some as young as 10 or 11) raped and tortured is appalling.

1000% this! I don't give a fiddlers fuck who is holding govt to account just as long as it's done. All the better that it's done on a global scale which will more than likely humiliate them into doing something as some sort of damage control.

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Over40Overdating · 03/01/2025 11:46

Also love the fact that Musk is being hailed as a hero for supporting women yet women posting any concerns about Musk and his agenda are ‘hysterical’ - hmmm what playbook does that tactic come from?

Not feminism 101, that’s for fucking sure.

mortal2024 · 03/01/2025 11:46

Pinetreethree · 03/01/2025 11:44

Where are the hysterics?

As you can see the title and many of the comments are hysterically enraged, along with the fact that the thread was started in hysterical opposition to the fact that this thread even exists, and one poster was so hysterical she reported this thread for existing.

But you already know that.

placemats · 03/01/2025 11:47

Chainzreaction · 03/01/2025 11:33

As a long time poster on the feminist board I have been shouting about grooming gangs since 2015.. I am delighted Elon has come on board to raise awareness of what happened in this country .

You're now becoming a bit of a bore, rather like Elon Musk.

Bromptotoo · 03/01/2025 11:47

I'm not sure what a new inquiry will tell us that the previous ones by Alexis Jay etc didn't tell us already. People undoubtedly failed and failed massively in nipping Rotherham and Rochdale cases when allegations first emerged. I'm far from convinced that there is evidence of the sort of malfeasance that would have cost people their jobs at the time never mind justify prosecutions now.

Musk, for his own reasons, has a vendetta against our PM and thinks that becuase Starmer was DPP at the time he can be amongst those brought down.

Badenoch should know better than to jump on this bandwagon; her own party repeatedly refused, on reasonable grounds, to launch the sort of inquiry Musk wants.

User135644 · 03/01/2025 11:47

Over40Overdating · 03/01/2025 11:13

This thread is a masterclass in how people like Musk sway elections. The proud lack of knowledge on display about an issue so many claim to care so deeply about.

An enquiry has been carried out and a Tory government took zero action on the recommendations but hooray a South African born egotist with a clear agenda is now using the lack of action as a way to spread his extremist cult to the U.K. so we should be DELIGHTED he’s trying to bring down a Labour government to replace it with…the same cabal who did nothing about this issue you care you so much about.

Social media has decimated the ability to think critically in this country.

If only the Tories were held to account in 14 years like Labour are. They got away with murder and Labour (who are not up to much) are dealing with the fallout of the resulting societal collapse.

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