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To think they should take him to the vets

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Huggyhuggy · 28/12/2024 17:55

My mum and dads dog had a full box of ‘black magic’ dark chocolates yesterday and today has vomiting, wheezing, and is laid down looking very sorry for himself but they won’t take to the vets saying none will be open now

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Fleurdalys · 28/12/2024 22:08

Wheresthebeach · 28/12/2024 22:07

OP I’m stunned at the nastiness on this thread. Not your dog, yet you are trying to help and seeking reassurance that the dog needs a vet in the face of your parents indifference.

I hope the dog is okay. He does sound ill.

I'm not??
Get the dog to a vet?

CrowleyKitten · 28/12/2024 22:09

TiredEyesToday · 28/12/2024 18:06

A lurcher is what I have- and they are big dogs in terms of height/ length, but they aren’t very large in terms of overall volume, so the amount of chocolate that will be toxic (I think there’s a ratio vets use to work out of likely to cause damage) isn’t necessarily be as much as you would think. Poor thing.

also, sighthounds tend to be more reactive to potential toxins.

Santaisinbedalready · 28/12/2024 22:10

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Cherry8809 · 28/12/2024 22:12

Ihavethebestdogs · 28/12/2024 21:04

@Dymaxion I think the half life of theobromine in dogs is much longer than in humans. OP's parents may be thinking the dog is just a bit off when severe damage is being done. This is my understanding but I'm not a vet. Maybe vets on this thread could shed more light. In the meantime, I hope this poor doggy is getting treatment. Death from theobromine toxicity is horrendous, slow and painful :(

This.

If your parents were watching your kid and they ingested something toxic/poisonous, you would be doing whatever you could, at speed, to ensure they were taken to the hospital. Not posting on MN trying to gather responses to convince your parents to do the right thing.

stayathomegardener · 28/12/2024 22:14

She absolutely hasn't stood by, despite only just arriving to the situation she's sought advice on line, defied her parents and organised transport for said dog.

I loved Mumsnet 20 years ago, posters were far kinder.

Twothinkthat · 28/12/2024 22:14

My dog ingested chocolate a while ago and actually if it’s over 7hrs the vets won’t help - they tell you to call the poison centre (they charge you about £40 for the phone call where they just look up whether it’s likely to be fatal)

FeliznaviDogs · 28/12/2024 22:14

I hope OP is at the vets, and that they do return with an update. You’re trying, even if your parents don’t care.

I have to say you mentioned having a little one - I’d be very concerned to leave them with GPs if this is their reaction to an emergency. I wouldn’t feel my child was safe with them. Just some food for thought (and I hope you’re coping with what is a distressing situation for you, especially with your child being with you).

The dog is only two years old - if they don’t qualify for PDSA assistance, and can’t afford standard insurance and have no means to pay for treatment then they just shouldn’t have any animals in their care.

pinkstripeycat · 28/12/2024 22:16

Your parents are neglectful and damn cruel. They shouldn’t be allowed a dog if they can’t take him to a vet when he’s been poisoned. This is effectively what’s happened and it’s their fault they left chocolates out.

Just before Christmas my friends dog at a third of a choc orange. Vets made him sick and have charcoal to absorb the toxins. The dog is a cockapoo and they said 1/3 of a choc orange would have been enough to kill her.

CrowleyKitten · 28/12/2024 22:19

Huggyhuggy · 28/12/2024 18:31

They do not

there's a bloody surprise.

Jezabelle85 · 28/12/2024 22:19

stayathomegardener · 28/12/2024 22:14

She absolutely hasn't stood by, despite only just arriving to the situation she's sought advice on line, defied her parents and organised transport for said dog.

I loved Mumsnet 20 years ago, posters were far kinder.

This!

Doubledded123 · 28/12/2024 22:22

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Flux1 · 28/12/2024 22:22

Our large dog could eat everything (chocolate included) until he got older and couldn't. He got pancreatitis from eating a cake, which previously wouldn't have bothered him. He was in animal hospital in awful pain for 2 weeks (lots of panting and an arched back indicate this type of pain) - also vomiting and lethargic. He didn't recover. I can understand your parent's reluctance, but given that he is showing signs of being unwell he needs to be seen by a vet.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 28/12/2024 22:23

@MyPithyPoster

Black Magic are still available, I saw them recently - either ASDA or Sainsburys

Goodtoknowhey · 28/12/2024 22:23

How is the dog please?

fantasmasgoria1 · 28/12/2024 22:24

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OP is sorting out a vet visit. You should not call her thick just because she wanted advice. She explained why sorting this out was difficult for her. Perhaps you ought to read the thread properly.

TiredEyesToday · 28/12/2024 22:25

I’m going to report this thread - the number of people being disgustingly vile to the OP - who has done absolutely fuck all wrong- is wild.

Hope you’re okay, OP.

ThatRareUmberJoker · 28/12/2024 22:27

Huggyhuggy · 28/12/2024 18:05

Thank you tried the calculator and it says possible emergency and to visit a vets right away

That's what they say to get you in. I would give it another day's long as he is drinking it should hopefully pass through him. Would you run to the doctor if you had an upset stomach if your lucky to see a doctor?

Hskatkat · 28/12/2024 22:27

I reported it hours ago... @TiredEyesToday Mumsnet is aware

Astrak · 28/12/2024 22:27

I've always had animals in my life. They've been insured to the hilt with reputable insurance providers. I'm an OAP and a lump out of my state and occupational pensions goes on health insurance for my companion animals. This way, they get ongoing health insurance for their lifetime. It's worth it for the pleasure that they bring me, and I can recommend it.

ilovesooty · 28/12/2024 22:28

ThatRareUmberJoker · 28/12/2024 22:27

That's what they say to get you in. I would give it another day's long as he is drinking it should hopefully pass through him. Would you run to the doctor if you had an upset stomach if your lucky to see a doctor?

I don't think it's quite the same as a human upset stomach.

Whatabouthow · 28/12/2024 22:28

ThatRareUmberJoker · 28/12/2024 22:27

That's what they say to get you in. I would give it another day's long as he is drinking it should hopefully pass through him. Would you run to the doctor if you had an upset stomach if your lucky to see a doctor?

If I'd eaten poison, of course I would.

CrowleyKitten · 28/12/2024 22:30

Scirocco · 28/12/2024 18:48

I'm sorry to be blunt, but he's not going to 'sleep it off'. The likelihood is that, without treatment, he'll die.

Show them this thread. Let them see the numbers themselves in the calculators.

If they won't do anything, then you need to contact the emergency vets anyway. Even if you don't drive, taxi firms can still help if you explain the situation.

Don't leave an animal to die in pain like this.

sounds like they'll ignore his symptoms, leave him overnight, and tomorrow say he "died peacefully in his sleep"

Tricho · 28/12/2024 22:30

Your parents are a fucking disgrace.

Without treatment that dog may well die, and is almost certainly in a lot of pain.

I'm looking at my dog now and wild horses could not keep me from that vet in this situation

ThatRareUmberJoker · 28/12/2024 22:31

Whatabouthow · 28/12/2024 22:28

If I'd eaten poison, of course I would.

They would direct you to a&e and you'll have to wait.

LandSharksAnonymous · 28/12/2024 22:32

Dymaxion · 28/12/2024 20:59

When did the dog eat them yesterday ? I thought the toxic elements are quite short acting, which is why the advice is to get them to a Vet asap ?
Did your parents witness the vomiting ? were there chocolates in the vomit ? Knowing Lurcher's they won't have chewed much !

The toxic elements of chocolate are absorbed into the intestines (I think). The longer it’s in the dogs system, the higher the chance the dog dies.

So, definitely not a case of being short acting.

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