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How can people eat this much at Christmas

250 replies

Mokel · 26/12/2024 21:30

I had a large plate of my Christmas dinner with Christmas pudding then 5 cheese biscuits with cheese.

I was absolutely stuffed.

Yet hear people who have a large Xmas dinner then go or host a Christmas Day evening buffet. Wouldn’t be able to eat at all.

Think my appetite has reduced

OP posts:
Fizbosshoes · 26/12/2024 23:05

DS(15) had 15 roast potatoes yesterday, beating his previous record of 12!

I didn't eat that many because I needed space for cheesecake and cheese and chocolate!

suki1964 · 26/12/2024 23:05

soupfiend · 26/12/2024 22:52

I dont know why people are sneering or mocking the OP, its a huge issue in aging (not saying OP is old, I am!) but its the reason its difficult to get adequate nutrition into elderly people sometimes, they would just rather have a few cups of tea and biscuit. As you get older and you lose the ability to eat as much, eating sometimes is hard work, its not worth the bother for them.

A proper nutritious meal that takes the body effort to digest, like good proteins and nutrition dense veg/pulses etc, takes effort to get down them. Its also why a lot of 'elderly meals' are a bit mushed, its not just becasue of teeth issues.

And this is why my mother, although is now becoming frail, is bloody good for her age ( 86 )

She can manage ( usually, shes been very poorly this past month ) to make herself tea and get her weetabix and a sandwich , but could she cook a nutritious balanced meal - no. So I do the cooking and she takes what she can of it

She was 999'd into hospital last week, and they were amazed at how healthy she was ( well obviously she had a problem but in general )

So I cook 3 veg at least, tasty meat or fish dishes and let her eat her fill. What she ate tonight DH would have put between two slices of bread and it would have been a snack, but she enjoyed what she had and then went for a pudding later in the evening. The one day a week I dont cook for the family, she will happily take a tin of soup, and if I didn't cook, thats what she would be living on. That and chocolate, she gets through shed loads of chocolate and biscuits that she hides in her living room and pretends shes had just 2 chocolates all week :)

Step dads last years, gave up trying to enforce nutrition and just gave him what he would eat. Luckily he did like fish but mostly he would move main course about his plate and then tuck into sponge and custard :)

Pibrea · 26/12/2024 23:06

All people on here care about is how much people eat, how much money they make, and how much they waste on leasing new cars that they can’t afford. Don’t you have any other values?

CrowleyKitten · 26/12/2024 23:08

foxandbee · 26/12/2024 22:52

@mainecooncatonahottinroof my appetite has really shrunk since I hit 60. I used to be able to eat three courses, no problem. Now I can only manage one and maybe a half a starter or desert, but not always. Sadly I have not lost weight, in fact am about half a stone heavier, Not fair!

I can relate. I used to be slim and could eat anything I wanted. now my appetite has gone off a cliff, but I'm chubby. I don't worry too much about it, because it's not like I can't afford to lose some weight, but it takes a lot of pleasure out of food for me, which is something I've always loved.
so often I get half way through a small meal, and know that if I try and eat more, I'll be losing it again. it's so frustrating when you're eating something delicious, and you want to keep eating because it's so pleasurable. but your insides are screaming at you that any more and it won't be staying down.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/12/2024 23:08

foxandbee · 26/12/2024 22:52

@mainecooncatonahottinroof my appetite has really shrunk since I hit 60. I used to be able to eat three courses, no problem. Now I can only manage one and maybe a half a starter or desert, but not always. Sadly I have not lost weight, in fact am about half a stone heavier, Not fair!

I could have too! That's shit that you've gained weight and it really isn't fair!

I've had to completely replace my whole wardrobe - things I bought even 2 years ago are too big! I daren't gain any now; I can't afford to do all that again!!

Toastandbutterand · 26/12/2024 23:08

I don't understand it either. Oldest DD is a size 12, 6ft. She can eat 3 times as much as my sorry ass size 16, 5 11 frame. Where does she put it?!

Tho she does sometimes lie on the floor and say ow ow my tummy hurts and I've not done that unless In labour. I guess she's just more dedicated than me.

And I'm not exaggerating, she ate 3 full portions yesterday. I barely managed one.
I think they have secret spare stomachs.

LozzaChops101 · 26/12/2024 23:10

I’m a year-round fat bastard, but I think it must be because I graze (constantly) rather than whacking great big meals in a one-er. Can’t cope with a giant roast, but I’ll happily snaffle a cold stuffing ball from the fridge every time I go past it 😫

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/12/2024 23:10

Fizbosshoes · 26/12/2024 23:05

DS(15) had 15 roast potatoes yesterday, beating his previous record of 12!

I didn't eat that many because I needed space for cheesecake and cheese and chocolate!

I had a roast potato eating contest once with my brother - I was 10-12 and he was 2 years younger. I won with 10! I'm well impressed with your DS lol!

Did anyone else get any?!

Reminds me of my DS when he was small - he used to only eat sausages. We used to threaten to write a guidebook called, 'Places I have eaten sausages'! His record was 9.5!

SeAmableSiempre · 26/12/2024 23:10

Fizbosshoes · 26/12/2024 23:05

DS(15) had 15 roast potatoes yesterday, beating his previous record of 12!

I didn't eat that many because I needed space for cheesecake and cheese and chocolate!

Why would anyone be proud that their son ate 15 roast potatoes, it’s hardly an achievement, and to openly encourage our children to over eat is not the way forward for a healthy and happy adult life.

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 26/12/2024 23:11

Ooh a competitive under eating thread 😁

<eats the thread>

Pickleton1992 · 26/12/2024 23:11

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CoalTit · 26/12/2024 23:12

NEWSFLASH: Some people don't eat a lot, and guess what...? That's OK!

Exactly. Going on about it, contrasting your own food intake with that of others, starting a thread to say you can't understand how other people can be different from you? That's obnoxiously needy.

Allatonce2024 · 26/12/2024 23:12

Santa puts a lot of effort into being jolly and fat each year, you could at least try to do the same.

I've swapped over to my elasticated waist bands for the next week

Stompythedinosaur · 26/12/2024 23:13

Performative undereating is really misogynistic tbh. It's fine for women to eat, undereating isn't a virtue, no one needs you to judge their food intake.

SeAmableSiempre · 26/12/2024 23:13

AlmostAJillSandwich · 26/12/2024 21:33

If people are used to overeating large ammounts their stomachs are used to being stretched and they feel less full faster?

…and that’s why they’re overweight and unhappy

Imperrysmum · 26/12/2024 23:13

Careful u dont fall down a drain grate op you sound absolutely teeny tiny minuscule

butterfly0404 · 26/12/2024 23:13

I'm on Mounjaro and pre this I'd have been eating huge amounts of food my body didn't need - that's why I gained 5 stone, messed up my liver and blood pressure in the process!

unfestive · 26/12/2024 23:14

What a boring post. Why on earth do you care what other people eat at Christmas?

foxandbee · 26/12/2024 23:14

SeAmableSiempre · 26/12/2024 23:10

Why would anyone be proud that their son ate 15 roast potatoes, it’s hardly an achievement, and to openly encourage our children to over eat is not the way forward for a healthy and happy adult life.

Teenagers. especially boys, are walking stomachs. I remember my brother being able to eat obscene amounts of food at that age. It's nothing new. He is in his late 60s now and eats normally for a man of his age.

CombatLingerie · 26/12/2024 23:14

@suki1964 you sound such a lovely caring person making those nutritious meals for your Mum. I think you have really nailed the issue for a lot of older people who lose either the physical ability or motivation to cook for themselves.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/12/2024 23:15

BucketBouquet · 26/12/2024 22:57

I dont know why people are sneering or mocking the OP, its a huge issue in aging

Then why isn’t her thread title “Is it normal to eat less as you age?” Why is it “How on earth can people eat soooooo much foooood?!”?

Read the final line of the OP again???

BucketBouquet · 26/12/2024 23:15

SeAmableSiempre · 26/12/2024 23:13

…and that’s why they’re overweight and unhappy

🙄🙄🙄

Gone12 · 26/12/2024 23:16

loropianalover · 26/12/2024 21:33

How do the fat fat fatties manage it all!!

What?

BucketBouquet · 26/12/2024 23:16

SeAmableSiempre · 26/12/2024 23:10

Why would anyone be proud that their son ate 15 roast potatoes, it’s hardly an achievement, and to openly encourage our children to over eat is not the way forward for a healthy and happy adult life.

What if he ate 15 rocket leaves?

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/12/2024 23:16

unfestive · 26/12/2024 23:14

What a boring post. Why on earth do you care what other people eat at Christmas?

If it's that boring, why not just move on without posting?

I'm interested; other posters are interested??

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