If some of the gifts are from teen DC then a sit down talk about what present giving ought to involve is in order because this is a life lesson and as a parent that’s your job. But next year I think you should reciprocate in kind for any of the adults.
I have mentioned this in many threads, but I’ll do it again here. My DH became a pretty poor gift giver for several years when the kids were small. He bought me things I already had, or tat that was late or generic or clearly a last minute rush job. He put no effort in with gifts from the kids, even though he loved the gifts I got for him from them. A typical Christmas - he put his present to me under the tree, clearly 3 books, individually wrapped. Then when I put his under that included several gifts to him from our kids, he took the books back and relabeled them, one from him and one from each of the kids. They were books related to a course I was doing but he hadn’t talked to me about them or the course. I had them all already - they were sat downstairs on the table next to the tree.
Birthdays were no better and several times he suggested we postpone celebrating until the weekend and it was clear it was because he hadn’t gotten anything yet. He would ask what I wanted to do to celebrate a few days hand and when it was too late to book into anything particularly celebratory, or get a babysitter (which he would expect me to organize), etc.
This was in contrast to the effort I put into his Christmas and birthday gifts, many of which he was still using years later. E.g. the year he got me the 3 books I already had I took the DC to the shops to choose his and then spent an afternoon having them decorate one bit - a t-shirt he wears to this day.
It made me really resentful. Eventually I realised I was so pissed off about it I needed to change things so I just stopped trying for him. I phoned it in. I wasn’t deliberately bad about things but I just stopped caring and putting thought in. Bought him generic socks and boxers for Christmas. Became very last minute so when I did order something they sometimes didn’t have quite the right size/colour/etc. or arrived late, his favourite restaurants wouldn’t have availability so we’d have to go local. And so on. I didn’t phone it in with the kids because, as I say above, I think part of parenting is teaching them how to be nice to people important in their lives, but everything from me became perfunctory.
It worked two fold. It stopped me being resentful. I put the effort I had been putting into his birthday into my own. Booked up the restaurant I wanted months in advance. Planned a day out with friends, etc. And after a couple of years he seemed to wake up to it and started to put some effort into what he got me. It reflected wider issues in our marriage which, having gone through a low point started to improve in many ways. So it might not have just been about my doing to him what he did to me. But I think it contributed. I could see he was quite disappointed the second Christmas when he got boxers and socks again (I think he’d bought be a box of some of his favourite chocolates that year).
Now he’s a great gift giver again and we both put thought and effort into making the other feel special.
So I certainly think it’s worth mirroring the effort others display. Even if it doesn’t change their behaviour, you will likely feel less resentful.