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to be annoyed at so much racism re “the boat people”

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NavyOrca · 19/12/2024 01:11

A large hotel local-ish to us (around 10 miles away) is currently closed for bookings as it is being occupied by just under 400 asylum seekers.

Recently, in our village and a couple of neighbouring ones, there has been a spate of parcels being stolen from doorsteps. I’m sure you can all work out who has taken the blame for this….! Even though one of the perpetrators is known to be a local lad, born and bred in our village, some people are still blaming others..

The comments on Facebook community groups are disgusting.

Since when has it been acceptable to so readily stick the blame upon those literally fleeing their countries?

I honestly feel that as a human race, we are devolving.

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DingDongVerilyOnHigh · 19/12/2024 01:20

Ok.

But!

400 young men from different culture being housed near you with no income?

Can you not see why it might be confusing to long lived local people?

Why should it be the local scrote rather than the unlocal scrote?

DingDongVerilyOnHigh · 19/12/2024 01:23

And!

Why is the underprivileged young man that lives near you and less deserving than the underprivileged young man that came from 2,000 miles away?

Why?

Rubytuesday77 · 19/12/2024 02:18

You actually think it’s racist to object to hundreds of young men plonked in hotels often in areas right near to a school? many of whom haven’t even come from a war torn country. Meanwhile our own homeless ignored and refused the privilege of a warm bed for the night.

ilovesooty · 19/12/2024 02:33

The attitude exhibited by so many people saddens me too, but this is already developing as I expected. All you can do really is choose who you engage with.

ThisCosyAquaHiker · 19/12/2024 02:39

Rubytuesday77 · 19/12/2024 02:18

You actually think it’s racist to object to hundreds of young men plonked in hotels often in areas right near to a school? many of whom haven’t even come from a war torn country. Meanwhile our own homeless ignored and refused the privilege of a warm bed for the night.

What does anything in your reply have to do with the OP's post?

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/12/2024 02:43

DingDongVerilyOnHigh · 19/12/2024 01:23

And!

Why is the underprivileged young man that lives near you and less deserving than the underprivileged young man that came from 2,000 miles away?

Why?

Because he's a criminal? And they are refugees.

Some experts are now saying those are different from each other.

Sloelydoesit · 19/12/2024 02:46

I'm also fed up with the right wing rhetoric and the constant mention of asylum seekers who make up a very small percentage of immigration numbers.
We have got more important stuff to worry about

Rubytuesday77 · 19/12/2024 02:59

ThisCosyAquaHiker · 19/12/2024 02:39

What does anything in your reply have to do with the OP's post?

Give me strength 😟

latetonews · 19/12/2024 03:05

DingDongVerilyOnHigh · 19/12/2024 01:23

And!

Why is the underprivileged young man that lives near you and less deserving than the underprivileged young man that came from 2,000 miles away?

Why?

Because he has had the privilege of growing up in a democratic country where he can be gay without being stoned to death. He has also had free education and healthcare, and housing if on benefits. He’s also not been subject to war zones and trauma from living in a politically unstable country.

Slobberchops1 · 19/12/2024 03:12

Don’t be so naive . These aren’t lovely men down on their luck .

just keep yourself safe when out

ThisCosyAquaHiker · 19/12/2024 03:17

Rubytuesday77 · 19/12/2024 02:59

Give me strength 😟

How about some glasses instead?

The OP is specifically complaining about people blaming the asylum seekers (while using racist language) for certain crimes when we either don't know who committed them or, in some instances, it's known that they were committed by a local.

Your reply doesn't make sense in context.

abracadabra1980 · 19/12/2024 03:53

Rubytuesday77 · 19/12/2024 02:18

You actually think it’s racist to object to hundreds of young men plonked in hotels often in areas right near to a school? many of whom haven’t even come from a war torn country. Meanwhile our own homeless ignored and refused the privilege of a warm bed for the night.

This.

Tillow4ever · 19/12/2024 03:56

I'm disgusted by most of the replies you already have OP. The racism is outstanding. I think some people forget how privileged they are not to have been born into a war-torn country etc.

Also I'm confused where the 400 young men comments are coming from. Where did the OP say the asylum seekers were all male?

The fact that locally it is known that a local lad has perpetrated these crimes means it's purely about hate and grasping at anything to use in their arguments as to why the asylum seekers shouldn't be there.

I'd rather live next to 400 asylum seekers than one racist myself. What happened to having compassion for others?

user243245346 · 19/12/2024 04:00

Of course it's not acceptable to scapegoat asylum seekers for every ill. However, people are not happy having a large influx of (mostly men) from a foreign culture suddenly plonked in their community. I don't think they're unreasonable - they're entitled to their opinion

DingDongVerilyOnHigh · 19/12/2024 04:09

latetonews · 19/12/2024 03:05

Because he has had the privilege of growing up in a democratic country where he can be gay without being stoned to death. He has also had free education and healthcare, and housing if on benefits. He’s also not been subject to war zones and trauma from living in a politically unstable country.

Does he?

Do you know his personal circumstances?

DingDongVerilyOnHigh · 19/12/2024 04:12

I'll tell you something.

Men from the UK are often problematic.

Do you think men from 'less enlightened' societies, aren't more problematic?

No more men thanks.

I'll take women.

Thanks.

DingDongVerilyOnHigh · 19/12/2024 04:24

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Betsybee88 · 19/12/2024 05:23

Because it's better the devil you know, than the devil you don't.

GeneralPeter · 19/12/2024 05:40

UK data on crime effects of asylum seekers is extremely sparse. Studies tend to find either no effect or a small increase in crime.

Studies from the few countries that publish crime data by national origin of the perpetrator suggests that the country of origin makes a massive difference.

Ironically, therefore, whether suspecting the asylum seekers of a crime spike is reasonable or not depends hugely on where they are from. And hugely, too, on their age and sex.

timetodecide2345 · 19/12/2024 05:44

And now Farage has been given millions by Musk he will be able to capitalise on this feeling and exploit it. It's only going to get worse.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 19/12/2024 05:50

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/12/2024 02:43

Because he's a criminal? And they are refugees.

Some experts are now saying those are different from each other.

We don't know who is a criminal or a legitimate refugee... that's part of the issue.

At least with local people we know who they are.

Thevelvelletes · 19/12/2024 05:55

timetodecide2345 · 19/12/2024 05:44

And now Farage has been given millions by Musk he will be able to capitalise on this feeling and exploit it. It's only going to get worse.

I don't think that's happened I read somewhere that there may be a block on that.

CookieMonster28 · 19/12/2024 05:58

Rubytuesday77 · 19/12/2024 02:18

You actually think it’s racist to object to hundreds of young men plonked in hotels often in areas right near to a school? many of whom haven’t even come from a war torn country. Meanwhile our own homeless ignored and refused the privilege of a warm bed for the night.

Well said.
It's not racist. People are angry as it feels unjustified whilst British people are suffering without any help. It's not that hard to understand.

Thevelvelletes · 19/12/2024 06:05

Is that all British people?
It's almost as if nothing was learned from what happened in the summer.
The hard of thinking falling for the racist lies.

Jostuki · 19/12/2024 06:10

If they are fleeing their countries why didn't they stay in France where they are safe?

Why are so many of them not actually fleeing any kind of persecution whatsoever but want to come to the U.K. because they have heard of the benefit system and think our streets are paved with gold?

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