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Reform and abortion

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Craftymam · 06/12/2024 10:41

Just a public service announcement as I missed this last week and find it quite shocking that coverage was so low.

Nigel Farage has said he wants to ‘open a new discussion’ on abortion rights.

Considering everything that’s gone on in America, the rise in popularity of reform and this alleged 100 Million donation from Elon musk; I felt I had to bring this to everyone’s attention.

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JoshLymanSwagger · 06/12/2024 12:31

SerendipityJane · 06/12/2024 12:30

Is being a cunt enough ?

For Nigel, not really.

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:31

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:27

Because they're also susceptible to this kind of brain washing and easily manipulated. They are typically less educated white men with a sense of entitlement who want to blame the mysterious "them" instead of taking personal responsibility for their lives. They don't actually care who they blame, as long as it gives them a reason not to blame themselves. They get a kick out of controlling women because it makes them feel like they have a sense of power rather than facing the reality of being woefully inadequate.

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Some sure.

But I do think these matters need to be to up for discussion. We are increasingly hell bent on killing the poor, old, vulnerable, unwell and unwanted. When we end up in a very bleak place, it's worth having the records of how we got here.

Startinganew32 · 06/12/2024 12:32

CitizenZ · 06/12/2024 10:56

I am staunchly pro abortion, but access right up to the birth is a madness! I couldn't condone that.

You can do that now in the case of severe disability

HardenYourHeart · 06/12/2024 12:32

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:28

Harden your heart indeed.

Why not immediately after birth then?

Because then it's not an abortion anymore, obviously.

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:36

HardenYourHeart · 06/12/2024 12:32

Because then it's not an abortion anymore, obviously.

This is precisely why people vote for Reform. Not because they want them in power but just because they are wolves in wolves clothing rather than the wolves dressed as sheep the alternatives offer. This is such a disingenuous response to a valid question. You might have had a response with some authority, if you did you would share. But you don't, so you resort to these games instead.

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2024 12:37

Ladamesansmerci · 06/12/2024 12:00

To add on to other discussions in this thread, I don't think the vast majority of people will advocate for full term abortion. However, the only people likely to be aborting in those circumstances will be very desperate women or girls. Or parents where something happens and the baby is likely to be born in lots of pain/significantly disabled in a life limiting way.

Also, what about a scenario in cases of severe abuse, for example wherein something like a homeschooled 14yo has been the victim of incest in her family, and the pregnancy has been hidden with no access to ante-natal care. Or something like trafficked/exploited women who have been forcibly impregnated.

I'm not sure you can argue it's truly more ethical to force women to have babies in these situations, either for the woman or the baby. People can talk about adoption, but the vast majority of adopted and care experienced children grow up with significant trauma and are far more likely to be mentally unwell, enter the criminal justice system, etc. Imagine growing up finding out you were born under those circumstances.

Your average woman isn't going to be seeking abortion late on in pregnancy.

I think aborting a baby at term would cause more trauma

Ladamesansmerci · 06/12/2024 12:38

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2024 12:37

I think aborting a baby at term would cause more trauma

I'm not necessarily even in agreement with it, but I think there are very specific circumstances where an argument can be made.

RingoJuice · 06/12/2024 12:38

Startinganew32 · 06/12/2024 12:32

You can do that now in the case of severe disability

it’s crazy people want to push this point. It’s like … a gift to your opposition tbh.

Becauze like abortion bans, where it’s inevitable that someone is gonna die from lack of access, you are going to have a situation where someone purposely kills a healthy full-term baby. In fact, hasn’t this already happened wrt self-administered abortion pills?

Honestly just preserve what you have.

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2024 12:38

CookieMonster28 · 06/12/2024 12:24

Go Nigel

Why is everyone assuming he has ill intention without knowing the full story?!

What's the possible 'good' intention?

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:39

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:27

Because they're also susceptible to this kind of brain washing and easily manipulated. They are typically less educated white men with a sense of entitlement who want to blame the mysterious "them" instead of taking personal responsibility for their lives. They don't actually care who they blame, as long as it gives them a reason not to blame themselves. They get a kick out of controlling women because it makes them feel like they have a sense of power rather than facing the reality of being woefully inadequate.

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Eh? Is it just white uneducated men you hate? Does uneducated make them evil?

Startinganew32 · 06/12/2024 12:40

In countries where abortion is permitted up to birth for any reason, nobody actually does that. No woman carries a pregnancy to 39 weeks and decides it would be fun to have an abortion for no reason other than not wanting the baby.

We do allow termination up to birth already for severe disabilities and where the condition is incompatible with life. People don’t seem too fussed about those babies though.

Just because it is possible to survive at 22 weeks doesn’t meant that should be the cut off. Usually a baby born at this stage would have life long issues and would only survive due to serious medical intervention. Without this they would die. Anyway very few abortions take place at this stage unless there are feral abnormalities.

I bet you any money that if Nigel or Donald got a woman pregnant that they weren’t married to, it would be a completely different issue with regard to the sanctity of life and they would happily pay for an abortion.

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:40

Hoardasauruskaren · 06/12/2024 12:28

My DM is a devout Christian who tentatively believed in the right to choose and saw abortion rights as a necessary means to prevent back street abortion. She has now been brainwashed by the American right who are pushing the belief that abortions are happening right up to birth. She also believes the Deemocrats are pushing for post birth abortion! it’s all Right wing propaganda to change the beliefs of those who aren’t 100% supportive of abortion rights. I doubt any country would ever legalise abortion up to birth. We should all be careful what we read and not fall for propaganda!

Not yet anyway. But after a few decades of euthanising the elderly, the poor, vulnerable, and the unwell we'll be quite used to this level of "care" and it would be cruel not to extend this kind of healthcare to neonates.

https://jme.bmj.com/content/39/5/261

"Abstract
Abortion is largely accepted even for reasons that do not have anything to do with the fetus' health. By showing that (1) both fetuses and newborns do not have the same moral status as actual persons, (2) the fact that both are potential persons is morally irrelevant and (3) adoption is not always in the best interest of actual people, the authors argue that what we call ‘after-birth abortion’ (killing a newborn) should be permissible in all the cases where abortion is, including cases where the newborn is not disabled."

https://jme.bmj.com/content/39/5/261

CookieMonster28 · 06/12/2024 12:41

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2024 12:38

What's the possible 'good' intention?

Having more choice duh

Babyboomtastic · 06/12/2024 12:41

user1471516498 · 06/12/2024 11:29

So Farage is discussing bringing down the limit of abortion to 22 weeks, using viability as his argument. However, in practice, the only pregnancies that are terminated at this stage are ones where there is a severe risk to the life of the mother, or where the baby is facing massive disability if survival is even feasible. This is nothing to do with the sanctity of life,or even fetal viability. This is just unspeakable cruelty.

The "ones where there is a severe risk to the life of the mother, or where the baby is facing massive disability if survival is even feasible" have a current limit of birth, not 24 weeks.

Reducing the limit to 22 weeks will put no restrictions on abortions for those reasons. It would reduce the time people can just 'choose' to have an abortion, but given you think that mindset is basically zero, it wouldn't actually restrict anyone. In reality a small number of people do choose late term abortions, who would be affected by this. He is right though that 22 weeks is much more the liability line than 24 these days.

Startinganew32 · 06/12/2024 12:41

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2024 12:37

I think aborting a baby at term would cause more trauma

Which is why nobody would choose to do that unless it genuinely is the only option.

MagicSteaks · 06/12/2024 12:42

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WildFigs · 06/12/2024 12:43

it’s crazy people want to push this point. It’s like … a gift to your opposition tbh

Agree with this. I can't think of anything more likely to jeopardise abortion rights in the UK than people trying to argue that pro-choice should mean pro-abortion up to term.

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2024 12:44

HardenYourHeart · 06/12/2024 12:31

It's shocking the number of women willing to remove choices for other women, just because it's not something they would want to do themselves.

Thankfully I am close to menopause, I'll be so relieved if I'd never need an abortion in the first place. Also really glad I never had children, because if I had girls it would break my heart to see what world they have to grow up in.

And make no mistakes about it. Musk is a pro natalist, because he needs more cannon fodder for his shitty factories. Of course he would fund politicians like Trump and Farage. Who is he going to exploit if people actually had the choice of getting a job with a living wage over the poverty salaries he is paying his workers.

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Women make choices about all sorts of things

Other women don't have to agree with them

Startinganew32 · 06/12/2024 12:45

WildFigs · 06/12/2024 12:43

it’s crazy people want to push this point. It’s like … a gift to your opposition tbh

Agree with this. I can't think of anything more likely to jeopardise abortion rights in the UK than people trying to argue that pro-choice should mean pro-abortion up to term.

It’s fine at 24 weeks - I was just pointing out that we already do abort babies up to term where they will be severely disabled. This has been interpreted to include club foot and cleft palate. Not just where the condition is incompatible with life.

ByMerryKoala · 06/12/2024 12:46

WildFigs · 06/12/2024 12:43

it’s crazy people want to push this point. It’s like … a gift to your opposition tbh

Agree with this. I can't think of anything more likely to jeopardise abortion rights in the UK than people trying to argue that pro-choice should mean pro-abortion up to term.

Maybe that's Farage's angle?

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2024 12:47

Startinganew32 · 06/12/2024 12:32

You can do that now in the case of severe disability

If the disability is that severe then most women would have had that picked up at earlier scans wouldn't' they?

RingoJuice · 06/12/2024 12:47

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:39

Eh? Is it just white uneducated men you hate? Does uneducated make them evil?

She’s only allowed to voice hatred of white men. She’s not allowed to voice her annoyance at other groups of men.

I would bet if you take surveys and tracked by ethnicities, males from other groups would be more disapproving (for religious reasons). But she won’t call them out at all.

anniegun · 06/12/2024 12:47

Farage is just following the right wing US playbook and this is one of their strategies. Controlling women is one of the themes that goes down well with their male supporters.

thepariscrimefiles · 06/12/2024 12:49

Craftymam · 06/12/2024 11:04

I do think your onto something there @SunshineOceanAndOranges

For them I think they see it as essential to stop the halt of 'white' birth rates lowering.

With the news a few days ago about the top name being Muhammad etc.

I think they see this as a card to play in their race/ culture war - for want of a better phrase.

Basically fuck that. This is a hill I'm willing to die on.

A couple of the few things that I always thought distanced the UK from the right-wing evangelical madness of US politics was that no UK parties were advocating for the removal of abortion rights and the promotion of gun ownership. Enter bloody Nigel Farage...

Julia34 · 06/12/2024 12:49

I think that about abortions should only women discuss in their reproductive years not men or old grandmas who cannot be pregnant anymore. Personally I will not do abortion if I am pregnant but is everyone own choice what they gonna do with their bodies with all the consequences

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