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Reform and abortion

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Craftymam · 06/12/2024 10:41

Just a public service announcement as I missed this last week and find it quite shocking that coverage was so low.

Nigel Farage has said he wants to ‘open a new discussion’ on abortion rights.

Considering everything that’s gone on in America, the rise in popularity of reform and this alleged 100 Million donation from Elon musk; I felt I had to bring this to everyone’s attention.

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tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 06/12/2024 12:14

He is a man so if there to be any conversation he can fuck the fuck off as it's fuck all to do with him

#MyBodyMyChoice

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:15

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:10

You should try to understand... you don't have to agree, but you should try.

All you need to understand is that he will say whatever it takes to get headlines. If you think anything other than that, unfortunately you're very susceptible to being manipulated by people like this and should start questioning that a little more.

Nigel Farge doesn't give two shiny shits about any policies he puts forward, it's all about attention-seeking.

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:15

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:13

Sounds reasonable, that was the point of my post.

I thought it sounded reasonable too. I was hoping someone would come along and tell me what’s so unreasonable about it 🤷‍♀️
And thank you, I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who didn’t think it unreasonable 👍

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:16

AlertCat · 06/12/2024 12:09

If men want to restrict abortion more, then they also need to open a conversation about male behaviour within relationships and in the context of becoming fathers and being fathers. They also need to have the discussion about childcare and the motherhood penalty. Let’s talk about why women want fewer children. Then maybe we will get a fuller, more honest discussion.

Edited

I agree with this. Men shirking their responsibilities should come with far higher penalties.

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:16

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:15

All you need to understand is that he will say whatever it takes to get headlines. If you think anything other than that, unfortunately you're very susceptible to being manipulated by people like this and should start questioning that a little more.

Nigel Farge doesn't give two shiny shits about any policies he puts forward, it's all about attention-seeking.

Edited

The same could be said for anyone who still believes what Starmer says too.

Viviennemary · 06/12/2024 12:17

LittleBitAlexisLaLaLaLaLa · 06/12/2024 11:13

He’s so fucking predictable. Odious bastard. I think as you say OP, it’s something he would be willing to use in his culture war and as someone else said upthread, his funding is probably coming from the same evangelical nutcases that Trump is getting money from. Or he’s hoping to suck up to them.

There needs to a better push back against Farage and his way of thinking. I don’t mean banning him from platforms or ignoring him and hoping he goes away, I mean debating him more effectively, proving him wrong every single time, showing him up to be a really terrible option to get behind. He’s not going anywhere any time soon. He’s the ultimate shit that won’t flush.

I agree. I'm not in favour of abortion. I wouldn't like it banned but would like the limit lowered except in the case of very serious circumstances.

Viviennemary · 06/12/2024 12:18

Wrong quote. Sorry.

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:18

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:16

The same could be said for anyone who still believes what Starmer says too.

Anyone who gets into politics has a power addiction, that is fundamentally the reason why the people who would make the best decisions are never found in that space.

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:19

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:15

All you need to understand is that he will say whatever it takes to get headlines. If you think anything other than that, unfortunately you're very susceptible to being manipulated by people like this and should start questioning that a little more.

Nigel Farge doesn't give two shiny shits about any policies he puts forward, it's all about attention-seeking.

Edited

I do understand this. I'm suggesting you look further to investigate why these statements prove popular with many people.

SerendipityJane · 06/12/2024 12:20

MrRobinsonsQuango · 06/12/2024 10:42

Why is wanting to have a discussion?! He’s male so literallly nothing to do with him

Because when Farage debates, things happen. Just take Brexit.

He's also a very modest man. He never once has claimed any credit for all of the good things that Brexit has brought us.

Ohnonotmeagain · 06/12/2024 12:20

I wonder if people like dot jones think the 24 week limit is absolute?

24 weeks is choice. After that termination is still done for risk to maternal/foetal health.

with advances in medical technology I could be persuaded that the line should be moved to 22 weeks.

poetryandwine · 06/12/2024 12:22

Craftymam · 06/12/2024 11:18

I'm happy with the law as it currently stands.

It's a good compromise. No doctor is going to want to take a less than 24 week baby out and see if they can survive or not. There's a big gulf between alive and dead and currently medical science is not at a stage where they can continue to grow babe in a pod. So that's not even up for debate to me at this stage. Because it doesn't happen.

90% of abortions are before 10 weeks. The remaining majority shortly after (likely due to delays to accessing services/ receiving treatment/ getting counselling).

Very few baby's are being aborted at 24 weeks and near none for no reason.

I don't think it is a discussion that should be reopened because it's not a moral, state, religious or any other framed question to me.

This is a healthcare service and should be between a woman and her doctors.

Well said, OP.

A late termination for medical reasons is a hugely difficult situation I would never judge. Otherwise, I think a viable fetus does have have rights and if these are at odds with a woman’s the state must balance them carefully. The current laws do a pretty good job at the moment.

HardenYourHeart · 06/12/2024 12:23

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 06/12/2024 10:51

You think a woman should be able to terminate a healthy pregnancy at term?

There are almost no jurisdictions in the world where that is legal.

You think a woman should be able to terminate a healthy pregnancy at term?

Yes.

There are almost no jurisdictions in the world where that is legal.

So what? That's piss poor argument for any discussion

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:23

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:18

Anyone who gets into politics has a power addiction, that is fundamentally the reason why the people who would make the best decisions are never found in that space.

The people who make the decisions don’t seem to live in the real world either 🤷‍♀️

TheLimeHedgehog · 06/12/2024 12:24

@Craftymam When posting maybe you should actually post the whole quote and context.

Responding to questions about the assisted dying bill, which he will vote against, Farage said parliament should be allowed more time “to debate things that people at home talk about”.
“Is 24 weeks right for abortion given that we now save babies at 22?” he said. “That to me would be worthy of a debate in parliament but should that be along party lines? I don’t think so.”

NEWSFLASH~ Nigel farage an elected politician has an opinion and suggested it may be worth a debate! 🙄

CookieMonster28 · 06/12/2024 12:24

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:00

“Is 24 weeks right for abortion given that we now save babies at 22?” he said. “That to me would be worthy of a debate in parliament but should that be along party lines? I don’t think so.”
NF

Go Nigel

Why is everyone assuming he has ill intention without knowing the full story?!

HardenYourHeart · 06/12/2024 12:25

SerendipityJane · 06/12/2024 12:20

Because when Farage debates, things happen. Just take Brexit.

He's also a very modest man. He never once has claimed any credit for all of the good things that Brexit has brought us.

That's because there are no good things that came from Brexit.

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 12:27

CookieMonster28 · 06/12/2024 12:24

Go Nigel

Why is everyone assuming he has ill intention without knowing the full story?!

Agreed. Its just a thread to put Reform down as a party and to start calling their supporters derogatory names.

allthatfalafel · 06/12/2024 12:27

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:19

I do understand this. I'm suggesting you look further to investigate why these statements prove popular with many people.

Because they're also susceptible to this kind of brain washing and easily manipulated. They are typically less educated white men with a sense of entitlement who want to blame the mysterious "them" instead of taking personal responsibility for their lives. They don't actually care who they blame, as long as it gives them a reason not to blame themselves. They get a kick out of controlling women because it makes them feel like they have a sense of power rather than facing the reality of being woefully inadequate.

Annabella92 · 06/12/2024 12:28

HardenYourHeart · 06/12/2024 12:23

You think a woman should be able to terminate a healthy pregnancy at term?

Yes.

There are almost no jurisdictions in the world where that is legal.

So what? That's piss poor argument for any discussion

Harden your heart indeed.

Why not immediately after birth then?

JoshLymanSwagger · 06/12/2024 12:28

When Farage grows some ovaries, I'll listen to him.

NO MALE should have a say over this.

Hoardasauruskaren · 06/12/2024 12:28

My DM is a devout Christian who tentatively believed in the right to choose and saw abortion rights as a necessary means to prevent back street abortion. She has now been brainwashed by the American right who are pushing the belief that abortions are happening right up to birth. She also believes the Deemocrats are pushing for post birth abortion! it’s all Right wing propaganda to change the beliefs of those who aren’t 100% supportive of abortion rights. I doubt any country would ever legalise abortion up to birth. We should all be careful what we read and not fall for propaganda!

SerendipityJane · 06/12/2024 12:30

JoshLymanSwagger · 06/12/2024 12:28

When Farage grows some ovaries, I'll listen to him.

NO MALE should have a say over this.

Is being a cunt enough ?

LlynTegid · 06/12/2024 12:30

There is only a few MPs at most who would support restrictions on abortion other than maybe changing from 24 to 22 weeks. I'd guess that public opinion is very different from the U.S on this too.

HardenYourHeart · 06/12/2024 12:31

It's shocking the number of women willing to remove choices for other women, just because it's not something they would want to do themselves.

Thankfully I am close to menopause, I'll be so relieved if I'd never need an abortion in the first place. Also really glad I never had children, because if I had girls it would break my heart to see what world they have to grow up in.

And make no mistakes about it. Musk is a pro natalist, because he needs more cannon fodder for his shitty factories. Of course he would fund politicians like Trump and Farage. Who is he going to exploit if people actually had the choice of getting a job with a living wage over the poverty salaries he is paying his workers.