To think DH did nothing wrong here?

[Challas]

On my way to do the school run in the dark I nearly slammed into a little black car that was broken down just around a blind on our very rural 60 mile an hour road. I noticed a woman alone sitting in the car. I called DH and asked him to go at least put cones around the car but also to offer to the woman for him to stay with her (in his car) or come stand on our drive so she didn't get killed sitting in the car. He went up to her and she politely declined (all fine but he was legitimately afraid for her). He did then drive back around the bend and sat there with his hazards on to slow any cars coming down. Eventually the recovery van came for her and all was well until a few hours later we had the police at the door saying this woman reported DH for having made her feel threatened!? He's now said in the future he just won't even offer help if he's in the same position again. The police were fairly aggressive with wanting to know exactly what he said and did so clearly she was very uncomfortable.

I have no idea what the hell you are talking about. I was quoting the recent sm question where women chose bear over man.

I didn't @ you three times it is aggressive.

She wasn't a victim. Someone else could have been, though, since she didn't even think to put her hazards on sitting there in the dark in a broken down car. It's idiotic and dangerous.

Well I disagree and obviously the police did as they made a visit!

No, I don't agree he could have rang the police let them know and retreat.

She just have been very scared to have rang them and then waiting with him behind her

You disagree with what, that his common-sense behaviour may have prevented a collision, or that a collision, which may have injured or killed people, was preferable to him hanging around? We don’t know what the woman who broke down told the police, she may well have embellished the facts.

Instead of phoning DH to faff around with cones etc you should have just called the police and informed them of the breakdown creating a dangerous hazard in the road.

I'd count your posts too if I CBA which I can't. Hilarious.

Quoting another person's posts is normal. Aggressive, no.

The police are very stretched these days, and it was a rural location, so they may have taken some time to respond. A collision could happen in moments.

I disagree with his offer to share a car and inflict fear.

Making a visit means nothing.

In fact it's surprising that they even bothered their arses.

I disagree with every single one of your posts.

He didn’t offer to share a car. Can you really not grasp this simple fact?

So she was probably in shock and had to add in weighting up her safety with a strange man!

It's well known if you are in that situation you need to get out the car and wait at the side of the road. My sister broke down late at night once. Luckily for her the car rolled and she managed to pull into a layby in front of a food trailer. She did have the sense to put her hazard lights on.

She wouldn’t be shocked for long if someone ploughed into the back of her and killed her. Fortunately this man’s actions prevented such a thing happening, yet somehow he’s in the wrong? You need to give your head a wobble.

Personally I'd have been more afraid of being broken down on a bend on a country road in the dark, but you do you.

(how many posts is that now?! pml!)

So? The police obviously didn't if they warranted a visit!

Aw bless, I can send you some numeracy links if you are struggling.

...gets out the tiniest violin...

Really but the police decided it needed a review, it ain't my head that needs a wobble,

You are the one counting not me rofl. I'm not struggling at all - you are the one making a fool of yourself!

There's always one....

Was it you in the car then?

You okay Hun ?

I am in a different country sweetie but I wouldn't be getting into any car with a strange man