If your Dh owned this coat, would you make it mysteriously ‘Disappear’

[Cantbearsedwiththosepeskyelves]

I hate it!

He has lots of lovely clothes, new coat this winter, but always pulls this horror out. A hillbilly, scruffy, donkey jacket.
I realise it’s up to him what he wants to wear and he’s a grown man and it would be wrong for it to mysteriously‘Disappear’

But…would you make this coat mysteriously disappear?

The difference is OP only dislikes one item who is quite funny, you just don't like how your partner dresses.

Once someone starts making clothes disappear, what's next?

In this case one coat which isn't actually going to disapear.

Nothing.

This is not a donkey jacket it's a biker jacket. No I think you need to leave him decide what he does or doesn't wear.

A wise woman. 🤣

@Dinkydo12 It’s not a biker jacket I don’t think?

@ivegoneswimming Exactly! 🤣🤣

Yep I’d bury it deep in the wardrobe .

I'm not sure what kind of bikers you hang out with but that is not a biker jacket

I'm trying to picture the local hells angels (yes we do still have them around here) cosplaying as Del Boy on their Harleys 😅.

No, definitely not, but I can't promise that I wouldn't mock him unmercifully.

Do you think its a donkey jacket. Its just a leather jacket. Get over yourselves. 😂

I have a jacket similar from Principles of all places lol 😂

Not Donkey, Not Denim, Not Leather.

It's a sheepskin Del Boy jacket

Stop trolling get a life.

How is that trolling?

I’ve no idea what the Del Boy jacket style is called tbh but be glad it’s not a donkey jacket - made of treated wool to be warm and water resistant, very very ugly with the added complication that they reek when they get wet!

Lol this msg cracked me up!!! Your description of it 😂😂 My best mate’s husband had some awful glasses that turned to shades and she couldn’t bear them. They were a v odd shape. One day a high wind/wave took them out to sea while he was paddling. Maybe wear it out in these high winds. In all seriousness you could tell him, I’m so sorry love but I love you but I hate that jacket. He might start wearing some of the ones you love! Then at least he’d know 😂 good luck either way

A reply which, ironically, is both abusive and dramatic....

I keep misreading this title as 'If your DH had a boat, would you find it mysterious?'

A (modern) textbook definition of gaslighting.

But your comparison is not a comparison - he did not dispose of your belongings without your consent. YOU chose to dispose of them. He seemingly didnt even ask you to; but you got to choose what happened with your property.

TBF if DH managed to buy a boat on his salary it would definitely be a mystery.

A dinghy, maybe.

(No offence intended to DH btw, he has a very worthy job but definitely not paid well enough to buy a yacht 😆)

Unless you’re happy for your DH to dump any of your clothes he doesn't like, I’d leave it be 🙂