Need a hand hold -Part 3

[Imbluedalale]

Hi spoonies , welcome to new thread , thank you so so much for supporting me .

That's crap. Have you told your parents, so they can support you?

Well all here for you ❤️

So sorry to hear this my lovely, we are all here for you. This time you are not alone, You have a whole tribe of Spoonies rooting for you, praying for you and cheering you on, every step of the way. Sending you massive hugs 🤗 x

Thank you @spoonfulofmustard , feeling abit sorry for myself this evening but I keep telling myself it’s just another dip in the road and I’ll try and stay strong and get through it xx

We're all here for you @Imbluedalale - make sure you lean on your parents and SIL for support.

Thank you very much @Nottogetapenny, I’m just not looking forward to all the extra hospital appointments and scans that come with it . I’ve got a phobia of hospitals since this year .
Thank you for being there, at least I can come to terms with it in a safe place from now xx

Thank you @nornironlady , I hope you got home ok. I’m so glad I have all you spoonies with me, I never had that before so I’m going to get ready to battle knowing that I have friends cheering me on. I don’t think I’m going to tell my children as ex will find out and he’ll love it xx

Hi @Munchyseeds2 , I hope you’re ok?
Yes you’re right they are on the case I honestly cannot fault the nhs they have been amazing but I just want a break from it all you know?xx

Hi @Apolloneuro , yes I’ve told my parents , my mum was the first person I called. And I’ve told my sister she wanted to come and see my but she’s had a really long day so I told her not to come as I didn’t want her driving in the dark when she’s tired xx

Thank you lovely xxx

@Imbluedalale I'm back in my dressing gown and just finished a cuppa.
I understand where you are coming from on sharing your news. I expect with the ongoing appointments you have, it shouldn't be hard to just not mention this news to the children.
Spoonie Brigade will be marching behind you all the way x

Thank you so much @AdmittowearingCrocs , that truly means a lot. I hope you’ve had a nice day. Big hugs xx

Awww thank you so much @kittylion2 , I will definitely lean on them and not push them away this time. Just I sometimes feel like I do today ‘for gods sake give me a break’ xx

I’ve put my dressing gown on over my clothes it’s a Winnie the Pooh one and it’s lovely and warm. I’m just not going to mention it to them until I know for sure what’s what and also don’t want to worry them so near Christmas but I’m wondering what to say when I have to go to hospital for day a week on Monday and my leg will be all bandaged up xx

@Imbluedalale the last 2/3pages have been about when to tell the truth to people as it would upset them more to find out you hid it later on.... i dont want to sway you in a decision but you are allowing your parents to be there once more and if you need /want them its your choice xx

and god trust me, I know how hard it to start allowing people back in and putting yourself first xxxx but you're worth it, and equally your choice xx

I don’t think I’m going to tell my children as ex will find out and he’ll love it

What an absolute abhorrent sorry waste of a skin he sounds. He'd soon sing a different tune if all us spoonies descended on him and bashed him with a load of spoons. Great big heavy spoons.

Just checking in with you to say I'm sorry today has been bad. Tomorrow will be better and I'm in the Spoon-Army xxx

Sorry for being absent and not being as active in replying as what most of you are, I do read as frequently as I can but it’s been harder whilst I was on holiday

i’m so sorry for the not so good news today. I reiterate what others have said, it’s different for you this time as you’ve got an army of spoons scooping you up and getting you through xxx

I'm so sorry for your bad news today. I keep up with your thread every single day and check to see how you are; one of the more invisible Spoonies in the background. I am thinking of you in your Winnie the Pooh dressing gown, and remember what Pooh had to say: "You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." All the very best to you, Laura.

@Imbluedalale
A hug for you lovely xx

I’m so sorry that it wasn’t good news at the hospital @Imbluedalale . Bloody hell, the universe needs to give you a break at this point! Sending a big hug. I’m glad your parents and sister are there for you and you have all of us behind you.

Also think it’s crazy that you could get fined. I think the head will surely waive it. Sorry to hear also that you didn’t have a very good chat with him due to dickhead ex.

Thats so lovely that you can just be 100% honest. Hilarious that he went to school and revealed all. I wouldn’t have been annoyed if I was another parents, it’s just one of those things. You never know how long your child will believe for. One of DS’s friends told him he’d found all his little teeth in his mums desk so the tooth fairy didn’t exist and I think they worked out from there that Father Christmas was probably fake too.

I’m so sorry to hear that news Laura. Sending you buckets of love and support and a massive hug. I’m so glad you have your mum and dad and sister in your corner now, that’s huge compared to where you were 6 months ago. They will help you get through it. And all of us from afar.

It’s so clear from all your posts what a lovely caring thoughtful person you are, and how lucky anyone would be to be your friend.

Thank you @spoonfulofmustard . I’ve had a good cry and then fell asleep but I’ve had a word with myself and dusted myself off and decided I’m going to be strong and not crumble this time. I’ve got through the last 2 months of absolute hell so I can get through this and now I have a full army of spoonies where we are all there for each other. And spoons are strong and resilient xx