Dh has walked off and left me alone at 1am in the street. 2 miles from home

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Just that really. We were out with friends, going back to theirs. Dh refused to back to theirs but I don't know why. The others left in a cab. I couldn't leave dh alone in the pub. I I said I'm going home. He said OK. Followed me out in a fit and angry, cos he felt obliged to follow me. He's walked home. I'm 2 miles away from homre and sitting in the cold shivering
He messaged me to ask if I got an uber home. I said no, he said good we've spent £x on uber tonight.

He's walked home and I'm sitting on the kerb, 2 miles away in the dark, cold.

Having visions of sloshed OP lying on the kerb outside the pub listening to lonely by Akon 😂

People keep saying it takes 30-40 mins to walk two miles, but that would be a pretty fast walking speed of 3-4 mph - fast for an average height female. It would take me an hour, easily. Two miles is quite a long way, especially if you're the worse for wear.

Yelling at passersby about how her husband abandoned her and now she has to sleep on the streets.

op I really hope you are at home or at least en route. yes your husband was a dick for leaving you on your own vulnerable in the middle of the night but he has. hes gone home and safe in bed now I sincerely home you are by now too but if not please get off the curb and just get a taxi home or at least to your friends. have it out with dh in the morning.

He might not be asleep - he might be watching tv and waiting for his kebab to be delivered.

Eh? Why aren't you just walking home?!

So she sits there shivering and posting on mumsnet 😂

Well said. I can’t believe all the mean comments on this thread

You either drunk or a drama queen.

3-4mph is a bang average walking speed. A 20 minute mile is considered a fairly leisurely pace.

Are you safe now OP. Please can you update to let us know.

I understand how you would see it as an issue If you are also unable to get yourself home from a night out and choose to lie on the ground if a man isnt there to escort you.

Get a taxi you weirdo

Lord I'm 50 with a 14 year old. No way in hell am I sleeping on the curb much less have enough energy for all the drama lol

Even if there isn’t a big strong man around to protect you outside the pub that was safe when you were inside but has suddenly become a hive of villainy and treachery now you’ve decided to lounge on the pvement? 😂

You’ll have certainly have taught him a lesson. He’s at home in a warm bed and you’re sat shivering on the curb.
😉😁😁.

I walked home. V cold ! And dark

At least your safe and your Dh respects your wishes

Good I’m glad you’re home. This is something to talk about. Preferably in the afternoon or even Sunday when you’ve both completely sobered up and the hangover has gone.

So glad you are safely home OP. Your DH shouldn’t have left you on your own.

You know, I actually thought for moment that this was a troll, and it might well still be one; thing is that there are people around that are ACTUALLY this utterly mad.

"I'll stay out all night in the cold that'll learn im!"

This all sounds a bit dramatic. Just walk home or get a taxi.

Dark at 1am? Who'd have thought

You could have walked home with him, or if not actually "with" him you still could have followed him home. YABU.

People don’t always act in the most logical or sensible manner. If you look at the other recent post by the OP, it is clear that she is struggling with her life at the moment so it wouldn’t kill other people to show her a bit of empathy instead of piling on to berate her actions.