Dh has walked off and left me alone at 1am in the street. 2 miles from home

[Boopadoop90]

Just that really. We were out with friends, going back to theirs. Dh refused to back to theirs but I don't know why. The others left in a cab. I couldn't leave dh alone in the pub. I I said I'm going home. He said OK. Followed me out in a fit and angry, cos he felt obliged to follow me. He's walked home. I'm 2 miles away from homre and sitting in the cold shivering
He messaged me to ask if I got an uber home. I said no, he said good we've spent £x on uber tonight.

He's walked home and I'm sitting on the kerb, 2 miles away in the dark, cold.

Yeah, I don’t understand a damn thing that’s happening here. I’m sure as fuck not going to sit on a kerb when Uber exists

Honestly they sound as bad as each other on the whole but I think she's just tipped the scales tonight.

He didn't want to do what she wanted to do. Who knows why, maybe he never wanted to go to her mates house, maybe they're annoying dicks. Maybe he is.

She then decided she couldn't possibly leave him in the pub alone (why, who the fuck knows) so she stayed.

Then she played the 'well I'll walk home by myself then if you won't leave' card to force him to come when he obviously wanted to stay in the pub..

Then not satisfied with his response to that, ie, he followed her out of the pub out of duty, not genuine care, she then refused to walk home with him, testing him to see if he'd come back and mollify her...

And he didn't.

So instead of growing the fuck up and going home, she sits on the pavement in the dark and cold by herself doing the 'woe is me' act, moaning about it on MN as there is no one else to moan to.

I don't understand. Why didn't you go home, either walk with him or get a taxi. Why seat on the kerb. Hope your home now

But I wasn't going to leave him alone in pub at 11.45pm

why not?

Why couldn't you just leave him in the pub? Are you insecure? Do you not trust him? You are acting like a damsel in distress tbh! Hope you went home.

its an irresponsible thing to do whether or not you've got kids!

Muhammed's post above or the OP's?

Bit of a daft question - of course she’s drunk! Why else would she be sitting on the floor in the middle of a cold night?

Glad you're home safe. Please don't do this again.

muhammed just wanted op to have something to do whilst she was lying om the pavement

You sound like a right martyr you could have been home a lot sooner if you'd started walking instead of sitting on a kerb or called an Uber

People were punning!

I can see from your updates you're home but was your safety really worth it to cause drama? You saw him walking and chose not to follow, to sit there vulnerable saying you'd sleep on the kerb. Can you not see how immature and dangerous this could have been? but to prove a point you supposedly sat there updating MN whilst berating DH.
Your DH may have behaved badly, you definitely did.

If he walked home why did you not just follow him?

Firstly sitting on the pavement on her phone is more dangerous then just walking home. Secondly It's very rare for people to be harmed by strangers. The majority of crimes against women are by people they know.

Wowser. Just finished reading this. OP must be sleeping like a log now she's (finally) home.

Don't do this again @Boopadoop90 to make a point, you won't 'win'

I don’t understand why you didn’t just get yourself a taxi or an Uber? You made this all worse for yourself just to prove a point… doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship & like you both had too much to drink to act like adults

At least it was a full moon last night …

Why didn't you just get an uber or walk with him? Stupid really

Well this changes it

Last place I would be is updating Mumsnet. Seriously some people

your husband didn’t leave you alone, you chose to stay out alone. You said you were leaving , fine but then you surely thought yourself capable of making your own way home. The whole situation was ridiculous

Exactly ridiculous isn't she

Between kerbgate and the airfryer divorce you can sure tell it was a full moon last night.

The maddest thing about all of this, is that your first thought was to post on mumsnet about what was happening.
I mean that is a weird thing to do.
Your friends had gone home probably feeling pissed off because it was planned for you to go back to theirs with them.
Your husband has walked home without you.
You're freezing cold in the street feeling upset.
And the first thing you think is "I know what I'll do, I'll sit on the kerb and post about this on mumsnet instead of going home".
Weird!