Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To say she simply cannot be turning 40?!

182 replies

Downtownonsaturdaynight · 15/11/2024 18:40

I'm a big fan of Gemma Atkinson. Always had her down as a young mum. Yet i just read she is turning 40 tomorrow!!!

OP posts:
Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 21:44

But maybe people have the wrong idea of what 40 looks like.

I'm 40. If I ever tell anyone they say "oh my God you look 30".

People seem to expect women at 40 to look like grey shrivelled up prunes for some reason. They don't. Lots of women look amazing well into their forties.

It is people's concept of what 40 looks like that needs to change.

Disturbia81 · 15/11/2024 21:46

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 21:44

But maybe people have the wrong idea of what 40 looks like.

I'm 40. If I ever tell anyone they say "oh my God you look 30".

People seem to expect women at 40 to look like grey shrivelled up prunes for some reason. They don't. Lots of women look amazing well into their forties.

It is people's concept of what 40 looks like that needs to change.

This!

TigerDroveAgain · 15/11/2024 22:01

But maybe people have the wrong idea of what 40 looks like.

I'm 40. If I ever tell anyone they say "oh my God you look 30".

People seem to expect women at 40 to look like grey shrivelled up prunes for some reason. They don't. Lots of women look amazing well into their forties.

It is people's concept of what 40 looks like that needs to change.

Exactly! I've never heard of her but on googling she looks like a (well-preserved) 40 year old.

MustWeDoThis · 15/11/2024 22:07

Downtownonsaturdaynight · 15/11/2024 18:40

I'm a big fan of Gemma Atkinson. Always had her down as a young mum. Yet i just read she is turning 40 tomorrow!!!

How old are you to be thinking that 40 is old? Women still have babies at this age. -80- is old.

pollyglot · 15/11/2024 22:09

Sunscreen and a hat from babyhood! DD is 41 and looks 30. Has never baked in the sun.

PolkaDotOlgaDaPolga · 15/11/2024 22:12

Good genes, diet, skincare regime, non smoker or are combination of all of these perhaps?

leccybill · 15/11/2024 22:13

Can't believe people haven't heard of her - maybe Mumsnet isn't my demographic anymore!
I think of her as being very famous - listen to her every day on the radio going home from work, remember her in Hollyoaks and Emmerdale, all her lads mags stuff and Strictly, of course.
Hope she has a brilliant party on Saturday night! I assume Gorka will be hotfooting it there straight from Blackpool?!

BananaNirvana · 15/11/2024 22:13

Bogginsthe3rd · 15/11/2024 19:41

She's basically a boomer

I’m 53 and I’m not old enough to be a boomer 😂🙄🤦‍♀️

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 15/11/2024 22:24

She's a couple of years younger than me I remember her from FHM etc. I never looked like her though! She's married with a family I don't see how it would be surprising.

I really like her her.

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 22:26

How old are you OP?

Softpersimmon · 15/11/2024 22:26

I thought she was older. Not in looks - she’s gorgeous. Just thought she was nearer my age (mid 40s)

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 22:27

Concept of age definitely changes depending on our own age.

I remember when I was 30, I house shared with two forty year old women. I thought they were quite old

Now I'm forty myself and I feel so young and vibrant. And really in my prime!

It's because you have no concept of what it's like really until you get there.

fashionqueen0123 · 15/11/2024 22:30

She looks like a normal 40 year old to me? She was in Hollyoaks such a long time ago I actually thought she was a couple of years ago but knew she was around my age.

SavageTomato · 15/11/2024 22:33

Four questions: yeah, and, so, what?

SabreIsMyFave · 15/11/2024 22:34

TigerDroveAgain · 15/11/2024 22:01

But maybe people have the wrong idea of what 40 looks like.

I'm 40. If I ever tell anyone they say "oh my God you look 30".

People seem to expect women at 40 to look like grey shrivelled up prunes for some reason. They don't. Lots of women look amazing well into their forties.

It is people's concept of what 40 looks like that needs to change.

Exactly! I've never heard of her but on googling she looks like a (well-preserved) 40 year old.

I think women in their 40s - even early 40s, looked somewhat older some years ago than they do now. Many 40 y.o. I see now can pass for 28-30. (At first glance that is, they look more like mid 30s close up - most of them.) They rarely look more than mid 30s. Even at 42-43.

Inexplicably, Jean Alexander who played Hilda Ogden in Coronation Street was 38 when she started in Coronation Street. 2 years YOUNGER than Gemma Atkinson is now. She was 38 here. The difference in her and Gemma is phenomenal! 😆

To say she simply cannot be turning 40?!
Areolaborealis · 15/11/2024 22:35

Lets see what she looks like in 3 - 5 years. From life experience it seems many people can maintain a fairly youthful appearance until 40 and then it goes downhill rapidly thereafter😬.

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 22:35

SabreIsMyFave · 15/11/2024 22:34

I think women in their 40s - even early 40s, looked somewhat older some years ago than they do now. Many 40 y.o. I see now can pass for 28-30. (At first glance that is, they look more like mid 30s close up - most of them.) They rarely look more than mid 30s. Even at 42-43.

Inexplicably, Jean Alexander who played Hilda Ogden in Coronation Street was 38 when she started in Coronation Street. 2 years YOUNGER than Gemma Atkinson is now. She was 38 here. The difference in her and Gemma is phenomenal! 😆

Yeah we have a lot of better health care and better skin products now

Softpersimmon · 15/11/2024 22:36

Four questions: yeah, and, so, what?

@SavageTomato you do realise that’s not even 2 questions, let alone 4 right?

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 22:36

Shakira is I'm her forties and looks like she is 20.

I just saw a video of Shania Twain. She is in her 60s. She looks absolutely stunning

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 22:38

I'm really wondering how old the OP is.

She's not likely to be early twenties, as Gemma Atkinsons prime era was about ten years ago.
But OP is still shocked that Gemma is 40, so OP must be younger than 40.

I deduce that OP is early 30s!

jaimelesoleil · 15/11/2024 22:41

NonPlayerCharacter · 15/11/2024 19:36

Well now you have, and you have chosen to enter a discussion about her, so say thank you to OP for introducing you to something that interests and engages you.

Well said 😉

SabreIsMyFave · 15/11/2024 22:41

Case in point. These 2 women (both holding a bottle,) are in their early 40s. This was the mid 1960s.

To say she simply cannot be turning 40?!
Animatic · 15/11/2024 22:42

Googled to check, she could be anywhere between 35 and 45 judging by her looks:)

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 22:42

SabreIsMyFave · 15/11/2024 22:41

Case in point. These 2 women (both holding a bottle,) are in their early 40s. This was the mid 1960s.

They don't look old.

The one on the right has great skin

SabreIsMyFave · 15/11/2024 22:49

Lisanoonan · 15/11/2024 22:42

They don't look old.

The one on the right has great skin

They don't look like 40 year olds do now. 😆 Like with Hilda Ogden, the difference between them and Gemma Atkinson is phenomenal!