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I didn’t leave the left. The left, left me.

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GenerativeAIBot · 11/11/2024 14:09

Stop me if you have already heard this the last few days, I am trying to make sense of how I feel about Trump and other right leaning wins:

“Woke” issues being pushed to where they have been, has empowered the right by giving them something real and legitimate to campaign against. Something more than their usual transparently false bogeymen.

In general, Authoritarianism, compelled speech, no debate. Specifically men in women’s sports, in women’s changing rooms, unfettered immigration, being asked to ignore the evidence in front of our eyes.

This is happening across the world, Italy, France, Germany, USA, UK.

I remain entirely committed to progressive taxation, a social safety net, collective bargaining, workers rights, public schooling and health services as well as the rights of everyone to live contented, unmolested lives.

I reject identity politics in their entirety. For example, I consider terms like “Woman of colour” to be the epitome of divisive, racist, sexist thought patterns that seeks to infantilise people and move their locus of control from internal to external. Disempowering people and making them victims.

I didn’t leave the left. The left left me.

Reasonable?

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Sawlt · 11/11/2024 18:04

Opentooffers · 11/11/2024 17:53

Lol, this thread just shows a lot of people tend to swing further right the older they get, because people like change less as they age. Always been the case, nothing to do with parties leaving.

Corbyn is really old, looks like a dirty old perv. Has he got more Right with age??

I think he’s got more wrong.

EasternStandard · 11/11/2024 18:06

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 17:53

Rawanda better strategy than “legal” state supporting drowning. Unless the not-drowning is a hurdle on the path to citizenship.
Insulting to Rawanda to say it’s bad place to settle.

It seems the pp overlooks the drowning part. It's Labour's policy after all so all good.

username7891 · 11/11/2024 18:06

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 11/11/2024 17:54

NO YOU WERE NOT.

Look back at the posts at the times I said above SWEETIE!

The OP at 17.32 and YOU at 17.41. It's there is black and white. You're embarrassing yourself SWEETIE!

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No no no sweetie. Stop getting so upset. I was responding to this post:

GenerativeAIBot · Today 17:26
I've aged, but I don;t believe my positions have changed at all. I believe the left as a whole has moved towards identity politics and victim culture.
I object to "women of colour" for so many reasons it hurts but...
It reduces us to gross appearance
it paints coloured people as victims
it presumes only coloured people receive racism
What colour?
What shade?
North African's (say Egyptians?)
South Africans?
Australians?
No. What it really means is "not north european" and it comes with an implied layer of guilt and shame for being so, and it completely omits every other "white" person who also receives a lot of racism, Eastern Europeans for one obvious example.
Identity politics is wrong. Always. We are more than our skin colour.
The left leaning into identity politics and victim culture is why I'll vote for Kemi if I get the chance.

To which I responded:

Many people don't like the term 'coloured people' OP. I'm surprised you don't know this.

Artistbythewater · 11/11/2024 18:07

The left do not support basic democracy. They are prone to silencing and using insults to do so, and degrading other views. The absolute refusal to even hear another view. The chummy club that supports this echo chamber whilst complaining about nepotism. The hypocrisy about expenses, access for cash and all the rest. The horrendous blatant disregard of women and girls. The insistence of making anyone that isn’t British a victim to pity. Ditto calling wealthy young economic migrants ‘refugees’ therefore conflating the two and making it even harder for those genuinely in need. I am utterly sick of them. They seem outdated, left behind.

FuckMiniBabybells · 11/11/2024 18:10

As a "coloured person" I'm so glad you've come along to tell me what language I should use to describe myself so as not to make you uncomfortable ❤️

Puzzledandpissedoff · 11/11/2024 18:11

Rollercoaster1920 · 11/11/2024 14:21

There are some very noisy people to the left, also to the right. There is a quiet majority in the middle. It has always been like this, and is part of how society works with the balance of view points.

Beautifully put, Rollercoaster1920
If the extremists of every stripe stopped shouting even briefly they might just notice that "quiet majority", but they seem to prefer telling everyone else how stupid they are so it still comes as a surprise when the majority speak up

GenerativeAIBot · 11/11/2024 18:11

Tangobag · 11/11/2024 15:48

You don’t sound like you were ever reasonable enough to have been on the left in the first place

Like to know who this was directed at and why?

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username7891 · 11/11/2024 18:16

FuckMiniBabybells · 11/11/2024 18:10

As a "coloured person" I'm so glad you've come along to tell me what language I should use to describe myself so as not to make you uncomfortable ❤️

You're most welcome ❤

WhoLetTheCatIn · 11/11/2024 18:18

User37482 · 11/11/2024 17:26

It’s the authoritarianism that really gets me. The level of coercion to have the “right” set of beliefs or you are not just wrong, you are literally a nazi. Theres no debate, theres a lot of mocking and shaming. A lot has been lost by people not being able of willing to put together a coherent argument. When the right say “look you can’t actually change sex and sex based differences persist” they aren’t wrong. I think part of the problem is the left has adopted a set of positions that cannot be easily rationally argued for. So they fall back on screaming at people instead.

I’m brown (I don’t care if someone says woman of colour or whatever to describe themselves) I think having reasonable controls on immigration flows is sensible. Yet thats enough to be accused of pulling the ladder up behind me. It means the only position that is really acceptable is if I believe in open borders. Which to my mind is bloody stupid. What that really says to me is “you can never be british if you are an ethnic minority, not really, you must always define yourself by the colour of your skin, you must always accept a victim status.

I’m a centrist but I am well and truly sick of the racism directed at right wing ethnic minority women and Jewish people by people on the left (and yes we do notice the ripping down hostage posters and attacks on Jewish people and think….but they are british Jews, you aren’t attacking Israel, you are attacking them because they are jewish).

There is no real consistent moral universal compass, it’s just a constant assessment of hierarchies of oppression.

This. The rise of anti Semitic hate is truly concerning, thank you for acknowledging it.

Seasmoke · 11/11/2024 18:19

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 18:04

Corbyn is really old, looks like a dirty old perv. Has he got more Right with age??

I think he’s got more wrong.

Members of both Labour and Tory parties are the most radical ( although admittedly some of the Radical Left have gone to the Greens under Starmer). The demographic of both party memberships is overwhelmingly White men over 65.

IAmNotAMorningPerson · 11/11/2024 18:20

If you find yourself agreeing with a lot of right wing positions on social matters, then you are right wing in terms of social issues. I'm not sure why so many people on this thread find that hard to accept about themselves, and why this basic truth must mean that it's "left politics" as a whole that is defective. You are just not socially progressive. That's fine. I thought we were all about not stigmatising right wing views, and, unlike the extremist lefties, accepting that they are valid and civilised? So why are you outraged to admit you are socially right wing yourselves? Weird.

In my view, left-right is a pretty simplistic view of political positions anyway. There is a libertarian to authoritarian axis, there is an axis from reactionary to progressive, social and economic issues are not grouped together necessarily in how people position themselves, and so on. Most people's views are a mixed bag.

FuckMiniBabybells · 11/11/2024 18:22

username7891 · 11/11/2024 18:16

You're most welcome ❤

I was talking to the op ❤️

EasternStandard · 11/11/2024 18:24

IAmNotAMorningPerson · 11/11/2024 18:20

If you find yourself agreeing with a lot of right wing positions on social matters, then you are right wing in terms of social issues. I'm not sure why so many people on this thread find that hard to accept about themselves, and why this basic truth must mean that it's "left politics" as a whole that is defective. You are just not socially progressive. That's fine. I thought we were all about not stigmatising right wing views, and, unlike the extremist lefties, accepting that they are valid and civilised? So why are you outraged to admit you are socially right wing yourselves? Weird.

In my view, left-right is a pretty simplistic view of political positions anyway. There is a libertarian to authoritarian axis, there is an axis from reactionary to progressive, social and economic issues are not grouped together necessarily in how people position themselves, and so on. Most people's views are a mixed bag.

'Socially progressive' to the left might be in the wrong direction, eg harmful to women and girls

So you might want progress but not that

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 18:24

Seasmoke · 11/11/2024 18:19

Members of both Labour and Tory parties are the most radical ( although admittedly some of the Radical Left have gone to the Greens under Starmer). The demographic of both party memberships is overwhelmingly White men over 65.

Oh that explains nothing. Very on point.

username7891 · 11/11/2024 18:26

FuckMiniBabybells · 11/11/2024 18:22

I was talking to the op ❤️

I assumed you were another outraged from Tunbridge Wells. Coloured people WTAF?

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 18:27

WhoLetTheCatIn · 11/11/2024 18:18

This. The rise of anti Semitic hate is truly concerning, thank you for acknowledging it.

100%

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 18:28

Artistbythewater · 11/11/2024 18:07

The left do not support basic democracy. They are prone to silencing and using insults to do so, and degrading other views. The absolute refusal to even hear another view. The chummy club that supports this echo chamber whilst complaining about nepotism. The hypocrisy about expenses, access for cash and all the rest. The horrendous blatant disregard of women and girls. The insistence of making anyone that isn’t British a victim to pity. Ditto calling wealthy young economic migrants ‘refugees’ therefore conflating the two and making it even harder for those genuinely in need. I am utterly sick of them. They seem outdated, left behind.

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100%

Menopausalsourpuss · 11/11/2024 18:32

Seasmoke · 11/11/2024 18:19

Members of both Labour and Tory parties are the most radical ( although admittedly some of the Radical Left have gone to the Greens under Starmer). The demographic of both party memberships is overwhelmingly White men over 65.

Yes, i think I read somewhere that alot of young people support Reform as they have utilised Tiktok etc alot more. I think the way forward is to ditch the old parties esp labour and tory as they have made our life worse and the country poorer/more in debt for the last 20 years so what theyre doing isnt working. We need new parties (not an advert for Reform as I support the SDP).

FuckMiniBabybells · 11/11/2024 18:32

username7891 · 11/11/2024 18:26

I assumed you were another outraged from Tunbridge Wells. Coloured people WTAF?

Dunno wot the world is comin to carnt even call ppl coloured anymore

TempestTost · 11/11/2024 18:34

FOJN · 11/11/2024 17:25

You are not alone OP. I've been politically homeless for 8 - 9 years. Some of the posts about Trumps win have been ridiculous. I think many people have pointed out that the lefts contempt for anyone who doesn't agree with them is not the way to win hearts and minds but I've reached the conclusion that self righteousness and a misplaced sense of moral superiority are like drugs that the left has been taking for so long they've become detached from reality and are incapable of hearing the feedback.

The obsession with identity politics is alienating when people want to be able to pay their bills and have functioning public services.

I think the left as it stands is a lost cause and we have to just wait out a swing to the right before some balance is restored. I've given up worrying about it and have decided to view the entire western political landscape as reality TV. I'm optimistic that sanity will prevail within the next decade.

I have started to think the likelihood is that the right, or conservatives specifically, are the most likely to really take up workers rights positions in the next few years.

Right wing parties seem more and more to be looking at policies that benefit workers. Reducing immigration is of course the one we saw first, traditionally a left wing policy. Also things like tariffs or encouraging local industry more strongly - not always in the most effective way, IMO, but clearly these are the kinds of policies that are traditionally meant to protect workers.

Outside of the UK there have been some indications of right parties in some places being more favorable to union types of legislation. - in Canada the Tories there last year declared support for unionization in their policy declaration, for example.

username7891 · 11/11/2024 18:37

FuckMiniBabybells · 11/11/2024 18:32

Dunno wot the world is comin to carnt even call ppl coloured anymore

Political correctness gone maaaad I tell ya.

Littlemissgobby · 11/11/2024 18:38

I used to wonder how Hitler managed to persuade a bunch of Germans to tell on their Jewish and gypsy etc neighbours to actively be on with them going to concentration camps but now I don't need to wonder any more.
It seems to me. There's quite a lot of people that would probably watch Star Wars and route for darth vader while most of us route for the rebels gone over to the dark side have you mmmm
No there is absolutely nothing g and I mean nothing that woukd get me siding with trump or his disgusting maga lot. The same goes for those that like the new conservatives, oh, shall I say. Reform?Because ultimately, they are now going so far to the right?It's unbelievable.
So you cite all this is because of what you believe is happening because of transgender issues, except for isn't it? Funny that many gender critical types seem to be okay now.With donald trump, except for look at the policies he's doing to women, women are literally dying in texas. That state decided to ban abortions under his last term if putting extra republican judges in supreme court.
I am 44 and I don't side with hate and I woukd take a ping hard look at myself if I became so dam socially conservative that I side with those that vote against gay marriage, against realising that equality isn't there yet. Wow

EasternStandard · 11/11/2024 18:39

Artistbythewater · 11/11/2024 18:07

The left do not support basic democracy. They are prone to silencing and using insults to do so, and degrading other views. The absolute refusal to even hear another view. The chummy club that supports this echo chamber whilst complaining about nepotism. The hypocrisy about expenses, access for cash and all the rest. The horrendous blatant disregard of women and girls. The insistence of making anyone that isn’t British a victim to pity. Ditto calling wealthy young economic migrants ‘refugees’ therefore conflating the two and making it even harder for those genuinely in need. I am utterly sick of them. They seem outdated, left behind.

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They seem outdated, left behind.

Add celebrities and all the Democrat stuff, plus just ignoring anything like drownings weekly for some reason as pp did, just because it's by Labour

Barrenfieldoffucks · 11/11/2024 18:40

Usnone · 11/11/2024 14:29

Couldn't agree more. It's shocking to find myself agreeing with some Tory views just because the left has lost it. I am not an "ignorant far right bigot" or whatever the Labour Party would call me now. I'm left / middle of the road but sex is binary & unchangeable and I'm not voting for anyone who thinks biological fact can be bent to their will.

Agreed.

However my 14 year old daughter tells me her form tutor has been telling them all that he is a Trump supporter, that his win is a win for common sense etc and that anyone who says otherwise is "playing the man not the ball" and not thinking it through etc . (We are in UK)

This pains me.

Littlemissgobby · 11/11/2024 18:40

TempestTost · 11/11/2024 18:34

I have started to think the likelihood is that the right, or conservatives specifically, are the most likely to really take up workers rights positions in the next few years.

Right wing parties seem more and more to be looking at policies that benefit workers. Reducing immigration is of course the one we saw first, traditionally a left wing policy. Also things like tariffs or encouraging local industry more strongly - not always in the most effective way, IMO, but clearly these are the kinds of policies that are traditionally meant to protect workers.

Outside of the UK there have been some indications of right parties in some places being more favorable to union types of legislation. - in Canada the Tories there last year declared support for unionization in their policy declaration, for example.

Absolute bull shit under trumps last term his tax breaks benefited the rich. Rupert murdoch who you know big media mogul demonising unions over here. Trump didn't even go to a union factiry in his last term When union workers found that out, they didn't vote for him.
Apparently if uou r in an union uou r not a worker according to the torys

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