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I didn’t leave the left. The left, left me.

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GenerativeAIBot · 11/11/2024 14:09

Stop me if you have already heard this the last few days, I am trying to make sense of how I feel about Trump and other right leaning wins:

“Woke” issues being pushed to where they have been, has empowered the right by giving them something real and legitimate to campaign against. Something more than their usual transparently false bogeymen.

In general, Authoritarianism, compelled speech, no debate. Specifically men in women’s sports, in women’s changing rooms, unfettered immigration, being asked to ignore the evidence in front of our eyes.

This is happening across the world, Italy, France, Germany, USA, UK.

I remain entirely committed to progressive taxation, a social safety net, collective bargaining, workers rights, public schooling and health services as well as the rights of everyone to live contented, unmolested lives.

I reject identity politics in their entirety. For example, I consider terms like “Woman of colour” to be the epitome of divisive, racist, sexist thought patterns that seeks to infantilise people and move their locus of control from internal to external. Disempowering people and making them victims.

I didn’t leave the left. The left left me.

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crackofdoom · 11/11/2024 16:16

GenerativeAIBot · 11/11/2024 16:10

Sounds an awful lot like what Bernie said last week. However - you may find that in the last 7 years, the transgender and immigration issue has got a lot bigger in peoples minds. Every time a nurse or a school girl is forced to share a room with a male - or an asylum seeker attacks someone, it gets bigger,not smaller.

What about when someone attacks an asylum seeker? 🤔

Weird to conflate two issues that have very little to do with each other.

Funny that you think things have changed, because AFAIK Starmer's Labour (although they don't align entirely with my values) campaigned on the economy, renationalising the railways, Great British Energy, the economy, the NHS, law and order, investing in infrastructure, the economy again...

EverythingAllatOnceAllTheTime · 11/11/2024 16:19

Tangobag · 11/11/2024 16:12

That’s a shame for you

No shame here.

Eraserbread · 11/11/2024 16:23

GenerativeAIBot · 11/11/2024 16:09

Tricky, but, failing to meet net zero is a lack vision and action as far as I can see. China, bizarrely will reach it way before we do because they run a dictatorship (no I don't want one at all). The fundamental intent of NetZero, is a positive one, I can plainly see Climate Change is real, and we are the cause, getting to Net Zero seems the only way of slowing things and wholesale planetary engineering the only way of fixing it.

For example, the price of solar panels and electricity storage has plummeted by more than 95% in the last 20 years. We are perfectly capable of utilising that price technology, yet we are not.

But I feel this is taking us off subject somehow!

Also campaigned for Corbyn, very much concerned about the erosion of women's rights as are most people I know.

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 16:24

GenerativeAIBot · 11/11/2024 16:09

Tricky, but, failing to meet net zero is a lack vision and action as far as I can see. China, bizarrely will reach it way before we do because they run a dictatorship (no I don't want one at all). The fundamental intent of NetZero, is a positive one, I can plainly see Climate Change is real, and we are the cause, getting to Net Zero seems the only way of slowing things and wholesale planetary engineering the only way of fixing it.

For example, the price of solar panels and electricity storage has plummeted by more than 95% in the last 20 years. We are perfectly capable of utilising that price technology, yet we are not.

But I feel this is taking us off subject somehow!

Solar panels, in my experience, barely barely make a difference and that’s on a very small house. I’m in the tariff for solar panels and “savings” is nothing.

NotSayingImBatman · 11/11/2024 16:25

If you think the right cares about women of any description, I'm afraid you're in for a bit of a shock. Identity politics might win elections, but it won't run a country.

oakleaffy · 11/11/2024 16:33

It will be “interesting “ to see if Trump can get a handle on illegal immigration- Seems U.K. cannot, despite the disaster that is Brexit.
Brexit was entirely won on fears of illegal immigration- and now there are higher numbers than pre Brexit.

What will Trump do , exactly to stop it?

The “mass deportations “ will probably be like UK’s Rwanda idea- an expensive load of hot air.

HermioneWeasley · 11/11/2024 16:35

GrannyWeatherwaxsHatpin · 11/11/2024 15:26

I completely agree. I always thought of myself as a bit of a lefty but I look around at those who'd call themselves progressive and liberal, and just how fucking awful they are to anyone who disagrees with them, who dares be even fractionally right-of-centre (apparently there is an entire spectrum of left-wing views but on the right of centre there is only a yawning maw of fascism...), who dares go against the Correct View on whatever subject is at hand. There is no plurality of view or nuance, just good people and the unspeakably bad who deserve everything they get.

I also intensely dislike the left's determination to treat people as victims. There is never any sense of anyone having to take responsibility, own their choices and make a bit of an effort. Nope, it's should be permanent hand-outs and endless pandering.

I believe in a state that looks after its weaker members and gives them a decent, dignified standard of living with autonomy and respect. A good education and a good healthcare system should remain free to everyone. Those who slip through the cracks in life should be helped back up.

But the welfare state safety net should be a trampoline, not a hammock. State housing should be for those who need it but only for as long as you need it, not winning the "home for life for you and your descendants" bingo. If you behave in an anti-social way, you will be warned then removed from your housing. You can come back any time you agree to behave well.

Not got a job? Fine, here's all the help you need and we'll be realistic about what we expect from you. But you HAVE to get a job and if you don't, your benefits will be tapered off. Breaking the law? We will try to rehabilitate you but if you don't engage or change then it's a long spell in prison for you.

And so on because there has to be an element of personal responsibility. Likewise, there has to be an understanding that someone is not a monster because they have a different point of view. I am SO FUCKING TIRED of all the wokery and demonisation of anyone who dares not "be kind".

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Applause. This, all of this,

ByMerryKoala · 11/11/2024 16:35

We save a bloody fortune with out solar panels. Between the free generated electricity, export tariffs and using the home battery so we import and store cheap electricity at 6.5p/kWh each night, we run an electric car and run a busy home for five for peanuts each day.

LadyGabriella · 11/11/2024 16:36

Indeed. Much agreed.

EverythingAllatOnceAllTheTime · 11/11/2024 16:36

oakleaffy · 11/11/2024 16:33

It will be “interesting “ to see if Trump can get a handle on illegal immigration- Seems U.K. cannot, despite the disaster that is Brexit.
Brexit was entirely won on fears of illegal immigration- and now there are higher numbers than pre Brexit.

What will Trump do , exactly to stop it?

The “mass deportations “ will probably be like UK’s Rwanda idea- an expensive load of hot air.

Once again - the Brexit ‘disaster’ negates those who voted for it.

This haughtiness is what has landed the Trump bashers, what they most feared.

A little humility from the left might go a long way.

BunfightBetty · 11/11/2024 16:37

crackofdoom · 11/11/2024 16:08

Yet again..."the Left" this, "the Left" that.

Well, I'm "the Left", to the point that I went out door knocking for Corbyn in 2017 and 2019, and neither I or anybody else had any interest in- or even, to my recollection, raised- the question of rights for trans people, pronouns, any of what you'd term "woke nonsense". Because nobody cared.

On the doorsteps we talked about stuff like renationalisation of public utilities, making sure large corporations paid their taxes, benefits, the NMW, the economy, second homes, the economy, green issues, the NHS, and the economy again.

Outside your bizarre right-wing bubble, nobody gives a shit about your "woke trans nonsense". It's utterly fabricated outrage.

Of course it didn’t come up 5 years ago. At that point there was very little reporting of all the problems with gender woo in the media. The only real conversation was on Twitter and that was dominated by TRAs angrily shouting ‘bigot’ at anyone having the temerity to raise a query about the obvious risks and harms to women and children.

At that time, apart from die-hard activists and earnest young people desperate to ‘be kind’, the average punter on the doorstep, in the main, would either have not heard about self ID and/or were unaware of the problems it inevitably causes. And if they had heard about it, they in no way foresaw the lunacy that would ensue, because who would have thought that mainstream political parties would think it ok to deny reality.

username7891 · 11/11/2024 16:43

oakleaffy · 11/11/2024 16:33

It will be “interesting “ to see if Trump can get a handle on illegal immigration- Seems U.K. cannot, despite the disaster that is Brexit.
Brexit was entirely won on fears of illegal immigration- and now there are higher numbers than pre Brexit.

What will Trump do , exactly to stop it?

The “mass deportations “ will probably be like UK’s Rwanda idea- an expensive load of hot air.

By 'illegal immigration' do you mean immigrants who come to the UK for work or do you mean asylum seekers?

It's absolutely impossible to stop all immigration, no matter what politicians say. That's because we need people to work in the UK and we have a falling birth rate.

Brexit was created by a complex set of issues, one of which was cheap labour coming from Eastern Europe which kept wages down. After Brexit the government are importing cheap labour from outside Europe.

Trump said whatever he needed to say to get elected. In his acceptance speech he claimed that he was going to fix everything wrong with America.

ByMerryKoala · 11/11/2024 16:46

BunfightBetty · 11/11/2024 16:37

Of course it didn’t come up 5 years ago. At that point there was very little reporting of all the problems with gender woo in the media. The only real conversation was on Twitter and that was dominated by TRAs angrily shouting ‘bigot’ at anyone having the temerity to raise a query about the obvious risks and harms to women and children.

At that time, apart from die-hard activists and earnest young people desperate to ‘be kind’, the average punter on the doorstep, in the main, would either have not heard about self ID and/or were unaware of the problems it inevitably causes. And if they had heard about it, they in no way foresaw the lunacy that would ensue, because who would have thought that mainstream political parties would think it ok to deny reality.

Five years ago there was a wall of no debate. The changes that we see today were being legislated for quietly, were being lobbied silently, were being implemented through the back door and out of sight. Whistleblowers were punished, figures fudged, the media was muzzled.

It's taken brave women, tarred with the shame brush, fighting back in law courts, bringing it to media attention, mobilising to make people aware of what was happening in the institutions that their taxation pays for, putting women and girls at risk in all of them.

TempestTost · 11/11/2024 16:51

Clearly lots of people feel like you OP. Trump did as well as he did in large part because of Democrat voters who chose not to vote at all.

There are plenty of high profile examples of people who have traditionally been progressive/liberals who have been completely alienated by the left.

But more than that, the workers, who the left is supposed to be about, have largely abandoned them.

The various leftist parties have become dominated by elites, the professional middle classes, academics, doctors, lawyers, etc. So it's to be expected their policies and ideology would reflect that.

They keep themselves feeling morally comfortable by imagining they represent the oppressed and workers. You't think the fact that Trump has now won the largest cross-racial vote since the 1960s, and the fact that Harris voters were united mainly by their high incomes, might pierce that armour, but I am doubtful.

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 16:52

Rawanda was supposed to stop the boats …

personally, am sick about the bodies dead or alive being pulled from the sea.

Rawanda as a deterrent, and a “processing centre” is a strategy. And supporting another economy smart as well.

Just letting people get in boats and try their luck is not a strategy.
If you made a free shuttle service to uk … then they could all walk on the rainbow crossings.

LlynTegid · 11/11/2024 16:54

There are a lot of people who are politically homeless, or whose vote counts for little in our UK voting system, and the OP is not alone.

username7891 · 11/11/2024 16:55

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 16:52

Rawanda was supposed to stop the boats …

personally, am sick about the bodies dead or alive being pulled from the sea.

Rawanda as a deterrent, and a “processing centre” is a strategy. And supporting another economy smart as well.

Just letting people get in boats and try their luck is not a strategy.
If you made a free shuttle service to uk … then they could all walk on the rainbow crossings.

Rwanda was illegal and a complete waste of money.

What strategy do you suggest?

LlynTegid · 11/11/2024 16:55

Sawlt · 11/11/2024 16:52

Rawanda was supposed to stop the boats …

personally, am sick about the bodies dead or alive being pulled from the sea.

Rawanda as a deterrent, and a “processing centre” is a strategy. And supporting another economy smart as well.

Just letting people get in boats and try their luck is not a strategy.
If you made a free shuttle service to uk … then they could all walk on the rainbow crossings.

Stopping the many unofficial ways of earning money which can be found in the UK but are much less to be found in France and some other EU member states would be much more effective than sending 1% of unofficial migrants to Rwanda.

BunfightBetty · 11/11/2024 16:56

ByMerryKoala · 11/11/2024 16:46

Five years ago there was a wall of no debate. The changes that we see today were being legislated for quietly, were being lobbied silently, were being implemented through the back door and out of sight. Whistleblowers were punished, figures fudged, the media was muzzled.

It's taken brave women, tarred with the shame brush, fighting back in law courts, bringing it to media attention, mobilising to make people aware of what was happening in the institutions that their taxation pays for, putting women and girls at risk in all of them.

Absolutely 💯

Daysleeperagain · 11/11/2024 17:01

I've seen it on other threads as well as this one saying not to vote on a single issue. Well with the trans issue, I will vote on a single issue as when politicians are trying to gaslight you and talking about something which is clear that most don't believe in themselves that is indicative of who they are and I won't be voting for a lying, spineless party

Helleofabore · 11/11/2024 17:02

I think you have got it in one with your OP, @GenerativeAIBot

Helleofabore · 11/11/2024 17:04

It cannot be said often enough that if you cannot trust a party when they tell you what a woman or girl is, how can you trust anything else that they say.

Menopausalsourpuss · 11/11/2024 17:05

For me the left think they're righteous but are not, they support men in women's sport, soft on criminals, soft in drugs which affect the poor and want anyone to be able to waltz into the country without a passport often from the most misogynist places on earth. Then they go on about how they're the intelligent ones rather than the ones that live in a cosseted bubble. To me the left just represent public sector workers, the unemployed and academics, all of whom have elements who are freeloading off the rest of us and I would never vote Labour as I am working class.

hairbearbunches · 11/11/2024 17:09

The genuine left have always been more socially conservative but firmly left wing fiscally. What a lot of people describe as left is actually liberal, a very different beast altogether. Starmer's lot are not left. Not remotely. They are liberal and liberals love identity politics because it allows them to ignore the much bigger problem of class and the lack of equal opportunity, here in the UK anyway.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 11/11/2024 17:12

Beemo456 · 11/11/2024 16:14

In the words of the absolute legend, John Lyndon...

"I never thought I'd live to see the day when the right wing would become the cool ones, giving the middle finger to the establishment, and the left wing becoming the snivelling self-righteous twatty ones going around shaming everyone".

I think that about sums it up for me OP.

Yep this. ^

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