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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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user1484745101 · 06/11/2024 10:04

MargotwithaT · 06/11/2024 08:44

This misses the main issue in this election-the economy. Americans voted for the person they thought could reduce their grocery bill. A lot of them believed it was Trump and held their nose as they voted. Issues like Gaza were nothing compared to people wanting to put food on the family table.

How is Trump going to reduce the grocery bills?

NettleTea · 06/11/2024 10:04

I think it comes down to people being poor and scared.

And angry that since 2008 their standard of living, which was pretty damn good, has slid off into a distance so far that many people dont even remember a time when it was good.

Its the same as here. Its the same as many many places in Europe, and probably worldwide (but Im not up to par on the world news)

people see that their children have less opportunities than they had, and are being saddled with huge debts before they even start, and costs of living that are eyewatering, and likely to stay at home for years due to property skyrocketing.

They see services cut to the core

When people are scared for their own survival its easy to pitch them against 'others' who may appear to be getting something that they dont get, be that financially or even in attention and 'special status'.

It was always going to happen, because its the natural consequence of really successful unregulated market forces.

D23456789 · 06/11/2024 10:04

Listening to the radio and input from the US, it seems the economy was the major driver. This isn't to say issues such as abortion, immigration and foreign affairs weren't important but that the priority for many voters was the economy. Neither does it mean he's liked but that he is seen as the more trusted one on the economy. I am a Brit and not in a position to judge the Americans for who they voted for and I have to respect their democratic decision. I am not a fan of Trump however and I do think the Democrats should take a hard look on why they've failed to capture enough support.

Veryoldandtired · 06/11/2024 10:04

It’s the tide rn in the western politics tbh. We might have our turn with Reform UK at some point, considering how many people actually voted for them this past election. You can’t call fed up people stupid all the time. Actually, we voted Brexit didn’t we? Trump obviously has a great PR team. He’s the man who invented the term ‘fake news’ so he can get away with almost anything he says. He’s endorsed by Elon Musk ffs. So imagine the scale of campaign? Elon has been giving away $1m to Trump supporters. Democrats were easy opponents to pick apart. For those who say that it’s racially motivated - think Obama.
ah, I miss the days when good old Barack was in the office…

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 10:06

alottobedone · 06/11/2024 09:47

It can be a thing, and adults can decide they want to be a different gender. But to try to confuse and rewrite everything by removing the concept of gender from society just in case someone is one of the small minority you refer to is affected rather than dealing with the small minority you refer to differently, and to teach children they can choose gender and to confuse them with the inevitable and inappropriate sexual orientation concepts which run hand in hand when talking about these issues, and all the other woke bonkers is not alright.

I don't think biological males should be allowed to compete in women's sports. I think that vulnerabilities should be handled differently to protect everyone at a balance, and to be aware of development research in relation to children - which is not the case right now.

Do you know when binary gender became a cultural norm…with the Victorians. Before that with humoral medicine, gender was on a spectrum. Cross dressing was pretty common at the Jacobean Court. Women were seen as lustier than men, and orgasm was seen as essential to reproduction. There are cultural norms to gender and sexuality, and they change.

There are a few transgender people, but they are here, and children do need to know that, just like they need to know there are gay or bisexual people. It doesn’t have to be confusing or fearful. I learned about this stuff in basic biology classes. It is O level stuff.

What are inappropriate sexual orientation concepts? Ones you define?

There are a few people who present as female, as my thread explained, but they are genetically male. They may not even know they are male. So, all transgender people need to be banned from sport? Should we ban anyone from sport who has any genetic edge then?

bulb34 · 06/11/2024 10:06

Scirocco · 06/11/2024 07:37

I'm really concerned about how far things have swung not just in the US but globally.

People are concerned about immigration? Ok, but there's a difference between people being concerned about immigration and people trying to set fire to buildings containing innocent people, open racism, and people referring to other people and other countries as "garbage".

People are concerned about the economy? Ok, so why vote for candidates who made many people substantially worse off, have relied on family wealth to bail them out, have been convicted of crimes linked with business practices, etc.?

People are concerned about foreign policy? Ok, but why do some people then vote for a party or candidate that has been actively prejudiced against and harmful to groups/nationalities/faiths to which they belong?

People are concerned about women's rights and the safety of their daughters? Then why vote for candidates with histories of sexual misconduct or even sexual assault, who promise to roll back women's rights even further?

People are concerned about healthcare? Well, votes for people who advocate for the removal of key elements of public and individual health such as reproductive healthcare and vaccination programmes seem somewhat counterintuitive... And drinking or otherwise ingesting bleach remains a terrible idea.

People are concerned about democracy and justice? Ok, then why vote for convicted criminals, people who actively undermine democratic principles, and people who take a 'might equals right' approach?

This.

IMBCRound2 · 06/11/2024 10:06

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 09:55

What the fuck are you talking about? Who wants to kill a tiny baby?

Are you talking about Trump saying that babies were being aborted 'after the birth'? If you believe that you need medical help.

Anyway, RFK is going to ban vaccines so there will be loads of infant deaths from preventable diseases so will you be crying about those deaths? I very much doubt it. Like most people who are anti-abortion, they only care about the babies in the womb but couldn't care less about them once they've been born. As George Carlin said, 'if you're pre-born you're fine, if you're pre-school you're fucked'.

sorry bit too emotional -will try edit it to be more clear - I meant trump who will undoubtedly end escalating the wars in Gaza and Ukraine and people dying as a result, climate change being denied and worsening climate crisis, that utter nut job being in charge of vaccination programmes and children dying of entirely preventable illnesses, refugees dying crossing the border, abolition of LGTBQIA* rights which we know will lead to increase in suicide and self harm in the community….

if I could single handily bring back Roe v Wade, I would. I can’t believe there will be so many children growing up without their mummies because they couldn’t access healthcare.

Magnastorm · 06/11/2024 10:06

Blueblue92 · 06/11/2024 10:03

It astonishes me that anyone thinks there will be any significant difference

If you truly think this, then you haven't been paying attention.

Trump is a facist and is absolutely going to do his level best to change the US and the world beyond recognition. This is the 21st century's equivalent of Germany voting for hitler.

Onley · 06/11/2024 10:07

The catastrophising is very tedious. Happens with every major world event.

Trump has been president before, this mantra that “he’s going to destroy the world” doesn’t exactly hold true now does it. Stop falling for all the scare mongering. Quite frankly it’s pathetic.

Recentgradneedingachance · 06/11/2024 10:07

Women who voted for Trump ☹️
Turkeys voting for Xmas

Drfosters · 06/11/2024 10:08

budgetday · 06/11/2024 09:58

"she was shockingly inarticulate and came across as quite ill educated given the positions she has held. "

Is Trump articulate?

She is 'ill educated' but has more degrees than him?

Is he more qualified for political office than someone who has worked in politics for years?

FFS

at no point did I mention Trump. What had he got to do with anything I said?

I am allowed to have my opinion on a candidate just like anyone else and I don’t have to form it in relation to anyone else. This is what I mean with these threads- someone has a different opinion to you and you basically come out all guns blazing! I personally think she was inarticulate and didn’t present herself well!. She might have a billion degrees but doesn’t mean I felt she can across that way. I have quite a few qualifications myself but I know I’d come across as a bit of an idiot if I put myself up for election. If you like her then great- We live in a democracy. We can from our own options about people without being told we are awful.

I don’t personally think either candidate was the best the US had to offer. I hope that given the next election it will be 2 completely new and well qualified people who will reset and give the country a real and genuine choice.

IMBCRound2 · 06/11/2024 10:08

Won’t let me edit but just to be incredibly clear - I meant trump supporters voting for policies that will end in children’s deaths!

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 10:08

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 10:06

Do you know when binary gender became a cultural norm…with the Victorians. Before that with humoral medicine, gender was on a spectrum. Cross dressing was pretty common at the Jacobean Court. Women were seen as lustier than men, and orgasm was seen as essential to reproduction. There are cultural norms to gender and sexuality, and they change.

There are a few transgender people, but they are here, and children do need to know that, just like they need to know there are gay or bisexual people. It doesn’t have to be confusing or fearful. I learned about this stuff in basic biology classes. It is O level stuff.

What are inappropriate sexual orientation concepts? Ones you define?

There are a few people who present as female, as my thread explained, but they are genetically male. They may not even know they are male. So, all transgender people need to be banned from sport? Should we ban anyone from sport who has any genetic edge then?

Males who lie about being female aren't being banned from all sport. Just female sport.

And gender is bunkum. Sex is what matters.

bulb34 · 06/11/2024 10:08

NewstartOct2024 · 06/11/2024 07:38

I guess if he withdraws all support for Ukraine and says to Outin keep what you have then Ukraine have effectively lost. Poor 🇺🇦 Ukraine.

And not just Ukraine - do people really think Putin will stop there? This is just terrible.

Lovelyview · 06/11/2024 10:08

Lentilweaver · 06/11/2024 07:39

The UK better learn from this or Farage will be in office in 4 years. He's already gloating at Mar-A-Lago. The Dems ran a terrible campaign,:IMO.

Right wing fascists winning everywhere from the US and Russia to India and Europe. So depressing.

I agree it's most urgent that Labour learn lessons very very quickly from this. The main mistake the Democrats made was to focus on how bad Trump is rather than having a vision for the country. Also, it may seem a niche issue on here but transgender ideology poisons everything it touches and the Democrats were utterly invested in it. They ignored women's rights to female only spaces, sports, prisons and rape crisis centres. They - especially Walz - supported the medicalisation of gender distress in children which resulted in thousands of children receiving hormones and surgery. The Republicans found it easy to position themselves against this idiocy. Once a political party abandons sanity to this extent they will have great difficulty convincing the electorate that they are capable of making informed decisions about anything. I loathe Trump but the Democrats are responsible for losing this election. Labour need to listen to voters on immigration especially and stop shutting down debate. I despair of how the left dismiss people as bigots rather than make a case for their policies.

HellsBalls · 06/11/2024 10:08

How is James O’Brien going to come to terms with this today?

Veryoldandtired · 06/11/2024 10:09

bulb34 · 06/11/2024 10:08

And not just Ukraine - do people really think Putin will stop there? This is just terrible.

What makes you think that Putin won’t stop there?

biscuitandcake · 06/11/2024 10:09

Veryoldandtired · 06/11/2024 10:04

It’s the tide rn in the western politics tbh. We might have our turn with Reform UK at some point, considering how many people actually voted for them this past election. You can’t call fed up people stupid all the time. Actually, we voted Brexit didn’t we? Trump obviously has a great PR team. He’s the man who invented the term ‘fake news’ so he can get away with almost anything he says. He’s endorsed by Elon Musk ffs. So imagine the scale of campaign? Elon has been giving away $1m to Trump supporters. Democrats were easy opponents to pick apart. For those who say that it’s racially motivated - think Obama.
ah, I miss the days when good old Barack was in the office…

You can't and the left needs to row back from that where they have done it. Unfortunately I think that you can reach a stage where even if regular politicians are genuinely trying to listen and not talk down to regular people, there is so little trust that people just don't want to engage or are starting from the mindset that the other person hates them. That is really hard to deal with because you can't persuade people that you don't dislike them especially in the teeth of hostile social media and outrage algorythms. You can end up accidentally stoking misplaced grievances more by the reassurance that people are indeed right to be aggrieved

HellsBalls · 06/11/2024 10:10

Calling people right wing facsists and Nazis is how we got here.

D23456789 · 06/11/2024 10:10

Lovelyview · 06/11/2024 10:08

I agree it's most urgent that Labour learn lessons very very quickly from this. The main mistake the Democrats made was to focus on how bad Trump is rather than having a vision for the country. Also, it may seem a niche issue on here but transgender ideology poisons everything it touches and the Democrats were utterly invested in it. They ignored women's rights to female only spaces, sports, prisons and rape crisis centres. They - especially Walz - supported the medicalisation of gender distress in children which resulted in thousands of children receiving hormones and surgery. The Republicans found it easy to position themselves against this idiocy. Once a political party abandons sanity to this extent they will have great difficulty convincing the electorate that they are capable of making informed decisions about anything. I loathe Trump but the Democrats are responsible for losing this election. Labour need to listen to voters on immigration especially and stop shutting down debate. I despair of how the left dismiss people as bigots rather than make a case for their policies.

Spot on.

Cnon · 06/11/2024 10:11

Harris winding up with 261 electoral college votes is presuming that the rest of those go to Harris.

Tiswa · 06/11/2024 10:12

it Isn’t hard to see though however awful we see Trump how if you are disenfranchised (and the Biden administration has hardly set the world alight) small town Christian American who worries about the economy and immigration would vote for Trump - loathe him or not when he is in flow he has what my teenagers call aura.

it is how Hitler came to power (because after all the Nazis were voted in) it is how if Reform got a decent leader (and it isn’t Nigel Farage) they could come into power in the UK - Boris Johnson has it as well

but I agree with Trisha in Lorraine he has to remain fit and in power because dear god if a Trump administration makes you scared a Vance one is goddamn awful

Driedonion · 06/11/2024 10:12

RedToothBrush · 06/11/2024 09:19

I think there's two things here.

The US population has long been indoctrinated into believing any kind of even mild socialism is bad.

This is on top of the quality of life for Americans now being lower than their parents.

This can't be ignored.

By that you’re implying all those who voted for Trump are deluded/thick etc
Far better to start looking at WHY they voted this way. Trump won a big portion of the Latino vote. Why do you think that was?

Navyblue214 · 06/11/2024 10:12

casepoint · 06/11/2024 07:04

I'm not a trump supporter, but isn't it best that we stay out of the Ukraine conflict now ? We are just asking for trouble by staying in it. I don't want to get nuked.

Well, the US has stayed out of things as an isolationist in the past, and it always ended badly. If they had supported Chiang Kai-shek in the Chinese Civil War, China would not have become a communist country.

Ponoka7 · 06/11/2024 10:13

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 10:06

Do you know when binary gender became a cultural norm…with the Victorians. Before that with humoral medicine, gender was on a spectrum. Cross dressing was pretty common at the Jacobean Court. Women were seen as lustier than men, and orgasm was seen as essential to reproduction. There are cultural norms to gender and sexuality, and they change.

There are a few transgender people, but they are here, and children do need to know that, just like they need to know there are gay or bisexual people. It doesn’t have to be confusing or fearful. I learned about this stuff in basic biology classes. It is O level stuff.

What are inappropriate sexual orientation concepts? Ones you define?

There are a few people who present as female, as my thread explained, but they are genetically male. They may not even know they are male. So, all transgender people need to be banned from sport? Should we ban anyone from sport who has any genetic edge then?

Biological born men, who have more muscle mass, thicker bones etc shouldn't compete with Biological women. Biological men, shouldn't be able to strip search women and girls. People who have penises and have used them to sexually assault people, shouldn't be in Biological women's prisons. It really is simple. We can't do everything we want because we protect children. Biological men don't get to do everything they want, to protect us all, but especially women and girls. Again, it's really simple.

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