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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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SugarIsHardtoAvoid · 06/11/2024 09:53

Horrified to see the news this morning. Had convinced myself that there would have been a narrow Democrat victory. Trump terrifies me.

NettleTea · 06/11/2024 09:53

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 09:50

He kept calling America a 'garbage can' at his rallies so that was hardly patriotic.

Im assuming that he was referring to what it had become under Biden. Although TBH he says all kinds of shit. He literally opens his mouth and it falls out.

Im certainly no fan of his, I am appalled by the results Im just trying to understand the mindset of why people would have voted that way

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 09:54

budgetday · 06/11/2024 09:52

@SpudleyLass I wasn't commenting on anything you said.

You responded to my original comment.

Fair dos, though, if I misinterpreted anything.

HebburnPokemon · 06/11/2024 09:55

FfsBrian · 06/11/2024 09:30

It’s a protest vote - and we will likely have Farage as our next PM.

Democrats are our Labour. They will just not listen to the people who are voting. They think we are stupid & gullible.

Look at what’s been found out about Ed Milliband.

We will end up with a hard right government and I could see this years back.

Look at what’s been found out about Ed Milliband

What?

notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 09:55

lifeturnsonadime · 06/11/2024 08:51

I have to say I fundamentally disagree.

I didn't want Trump to win but for ages I have been saying that the Democrats have been too complacent. They are not engaging with the reasons people are dissatisfied with them. The Democrats are not perfect.

So no I'm not I'm not disappointed with Trump voters. They have the right in a democracy to vote for who they wish.

Being smug and righteous, doesn't win hearts and minds. You'd think they have learnt that by now.

So you think it's a good use of your vote to 'get at' those you disagree with rather than what you think is best for you and yours?

That's what disappoints me.

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thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 09:55

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What the fuck are you talking about? Who wants to kill a tiny baby?

Are you talking about Trump saying that babies were being aborted 'after the birth'? If you believe that you need medical help.

Anyway, RFK is going to ban vaccines so there will be loads of infant deaths from preventable diseases so will you be crying about those deaths? I very much doubt it. Like most people who are anti-abortion, they only care about the babies in the womb but couldn't care less about them once they've been born. As George Carlin said, 'if you're pre-born you're fine, if you're pre-school you're fucked'.

HellsBalls · 06/11/2024 09:56

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 06:47

Democrats need to field better candidates.

And stop insulting the electorate

This is 2016 all over again - they just refused to listen to what people were telling them.

This. In a nutshell.

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 09:56

Ponoka7 · 06/11/2024 09:42

What do you think about the Democrats opinion that there's no such thing as a woman? Anyone can be a woman, it's a feeling. Bearing in mind that strip searches are the norm on arrest, so biological female officers are no longer needed. Is that not misogyny?

Gender dysphoria can be caused by testosterone exposure in the womb, and by genetic elements. Look for my post upthread for some links to some scientific papers and to the Mayo Clinic.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 06/11/2024 09:57

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 06:47

Democrats need to field better candidates.

And stop insulting the electorate

This is 2016 all over again - they just refused to listen to what people were telling them.

Yes, they need to read the room and realise that people care about immigration and not just ignore it.

Until the do that the likes of Trump will keep being elected and the whole world will suffer.

RoseAndRose · 06/11/2024 09:57

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster

Yes, one of this first acts in his first presidency was to withdraw US from the Paris Accord (and one of Biden's first was to re-enter it).

I expect he'll pull them out again early next year

budgetday · 06/11/2024 09:58

Drfosters · 06/11/2024 09:51

@Mulhollandmagoo its interesting as I thought she was shockingly inarticulate and came across as quite ill educated given the positions she has held. Genuinely I had chats with people about this and many agreed and whilst she clearly is a lovely person I found it hard to believe she would have got the nomination if they had gone through a better process.

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"she was shockingly inarticulate and came across as quite ill educated given the positions she has held. "

Is Trump articulate?

She is 'ill educated' but has more degrees than him?

Is he more qualified for political office than someone who has worked in politics for years?

FFS

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 09:59

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 09:30

Ok, I’ll get flamed for this, but I am going to say this. Transgenderism in nature is a thing. Not a common thing, but a thing. Many species of slugs are hermaphroditic…you know how they mate…and maybe you’ve seen them hanging from trees with a ring of slime and two protuberances. These are their penises…yup they are both transgender, boy girl meets girl boy. They hit each other with their dicks, those protuberances you see to force the other to be the girl.

In humans, one in 15,000 males is born and grows up as a girl. And neither these girls nor their parents know it. These girls do not discover anything different until puberty. Girls born with XY chromosomes are genetically boys but for a variety of reasons – mutations in genes that determine sexual development – the male characteristics are never expressed. They live their lives as girls and then women, and a few can even give birth. But genetically they are male.

Morris syndrome is now called 46,XY DSD: androgen insensitivity syndrome. These people have an extremely high level of testosterone and other male sex hormones, but the testosterone does not affect the foetal cells that usually develop into male sexual organs because of a mutation in the androgen receptor gene. These people therefore have male chromosomes but are women socially and in external appearance. They do not have internal female sexual organs, and they form testicles that remain concealed in the abdominal cavity

There are people who have gender dysphoria as well. We think this has to do with the level of hormones they are exposed to as a foetus, particularly testosterone. There is also a genetic factor as indicated above. In XY animals, it has been shown that environmental endocrine disruptors, through their anti-androgenic activity, induce a female identity.

Not all transgender people have gender dysphoria. This is not hooey I am making up. You can go to the Mayo Clinic website and read about it.

here are some papers
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/transgender-facts/art-20266812

https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/104/2/390/5104458

https://www.mdpi.com/2039-4713/14/1/10

www.mdpi.com/2039-4713/14/1/10

This small percentage of people have been used as scapegoats and terrorised to reinforce traditional gender roles for political reasons, as a dog whistle for the right. Women’s rights in the USA are going to decrease sharply…they already have with the overturning of Roe v Wade due to a Trump nominated Supreme Court. And, fascistic states have promoted pronatalism historically.

Respectfully, I am aware of DSDs.

They should not be conflated, however, with men who know what they are or somehow believe they are something for which they have no frame of reference, taking sports places and single sex spaces from women and girls.

GhosterPoster · 06/11/2024 09:59

HebburnPokemon · 06/11/2024 09:55

Look at what’s been found out about Ed Milliband

What?

Funding his own ‘independent research’ and passing it off as independent support as to why he can pass the policies he wants to.

For the people who whine about X, this is why it’s important. You never hear about this stuff anywhere else.

Shakeoffyourchains · 06/11/2024 09:59

rainingsnoring · 06/11/2024 08:36

It's not rhetoric at all @Shakeoffyourchains. It's an accurate explanation of what has happened on several occasions. Not say that the left are not to blame for anything is very naive. I do agree with you re the right's nasty, divisive, racist tones though.

An accurate explanation of what's happened, time and again, would be this: capitalism, by its nature, is right-wing. It doesn’t seek to improve the lives of all, but rather to concentrate wealth in the hands of the few. Its need for growth means it must constantly find new people to exploit.

This was fine in its infancy, when the exploited were out of sight and out of mind. But as time goes on, its greed expands ever upward, and those who once benefited from capitalism's advances are now being consumed by it. Working-class people's lives aren't getting harder because migrants have moved here. They’re getting harder because those in power refuse to invest in public infrastructure or innovation that doesn’t create profit.

People lending their support to the right because they “don’t feel heard” by the left on immigration or economic prosperity are, frankly, deluded. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh, but there's no other word for it. They’re handing power to people whose sole purpose is to make sure wealth doesn’t “trickle down” and to keep them at the base of the pyramid, to be exploited even further.

This is the root of the issue, a country cannot have both a strong economy, with plentiful resources for all, and be insular and homogenous, and until people on the right are willing to accept this they will always be angry.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 06/11/2024 10:00

cardibach · 06/11/2024 09:34

Those commenting about 'the left' demonising Trump and his supporters and not understanding the issue, how do you explain how many Republicans either endorsed Harris or said Trump wasn't fit to be President - up to and including his last VP?
It's not just the left who worry about him.

Anyone with a brain worries about him, but until the Democrats realise that people don't like their extreme left wing ideologies, the likes of Trump will keep being elected.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/11/2024 10:01

notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 09:55

So you think it's a good use of your vote to 'get at' those you disagree with rather than what you think is best for you and yours?

That's what disappoints me.

On an economic level people genuinely believe they will be better off under Trump. If they genuinely believe that why shouldn't they vote for him?
The stock markets have responded very favourably to the election result.

A lot of women have become fed up with the impact of identity politics under the Democrats. They no longer have single sex sport. If this issue is important to them why shouldn't they vote for him?

Generally some people are fed up with the Democrats position on an ideology that isn't based in material reality and harms women and children, if that is important to them why shouldn't they vote for the party they feel best aligns with their views?

I mean honestly are you so blinkered that you can't see ANY reason that any person would prefer Trump?

This result isn't close, he's likely to win the popular vote as well as the electoral college.

So maybe stop being so patronising to people with different views to yours and start engaging wtih them?

BTW if I had the vote in the USA I think I would have voted Harris.

QuantumPanic · 06/11/2024 10:01

Parker231 · 06/11/2024 09:30

Even more reason now for the rest of the world to support Ukraine. Do you think Putin would stop there?

What do you think will happen if Trump stops USA funding to Ukraine?

  1. Negotiation. Ukraine cedes territory.
  2. Ukraine cannot maintain and abandons lost territory. Putin continues to try to take the remainder of Ukraine (??), EU continues to support Ukraine. Conflict for several more years. Maybe some kind of negotiation/treaty after that time. Or maybe Russia somehow takes Kiev, in which case they now have the entirety of Ukraine to incorporate, a disgruntled population and possibly mass emigration from Western Ukrainian regions. Are they financially and demographically able to press on (and what reason do they have for doing so?*) or are they more likely to form a new treaty with the EU or border nations?

*"Putin is power hungry!" Sure, maybe. But power hungry enough to decimate Russia in order to invade an EU member state that he would have trouble seizing (even assuming NATO do not get involved), let alone holding onto long term?? Like it or not, there are certain parts of Ukraine that don't object to being incorporated into Russia. The same is not true of Poland, Czech Republic, etc. They would be an eternal economic drain.

housethatbuiltme · 06/11/2024 10:01

The only mild positive of this is that once these next 4 years with the Muppet is over he then can't run again as he will have had his two terms so this whole circus will hopefully have an end date in sight (unlike in the UK where people can run indefinitely).

lifeturnsonadime · 06/11/2024 10:02

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 09:56

Gender dysphoria can be caused by testosterone exposure in the womb, and by genetic elements. Look for my post upthread for some links to some scientific papers and to the Mayo Clinic.

Well that's all very sad but humans still are either male or female and there are times when that matters.

friendlycat · 06/11/2024 10:02

The economy mainly. Under Biden they had inflation, rising prices etc.

Trump talked about the economy. Harris didn't talk about much at all and just attacked opponents.

Biden certainly hasn't been a success. Suddenly the VP was presented as their candidate without sufficient time to get the message across as to what she stood for. Just a big mess all round really.

LadyGabriella · 06/11/2024 10:02

American voters are not stupid, they saw right through Harris’s facade. She was always grossly incompetent and would have been a dangerous POTUS.

Stressedafff · 06/11/2024 10:02

I think personally this is a sign of how desperate people are. It’ll happen here too I assume
People in the USA have seen billions going to Ukraine whilst their standard of living gets more and more dire. Then a man comes in promising to stop it all and make their lives better, of course they’ll vote for him.

I wouldn’t be suprised if Farage does end up as PM. People don’t want £3bn for Ukraine and only £230m for homelessness.

MillyMichaelson · 06/11/2024 10:03

JeremiahBullfrog · 06/11/2024 08:56

Trump is a moral monster. That means the Democrats really should think properly about why so many people would still prefer him over them. (They should have been thinking about this for 8 years, but apparently haven't.)

US politics is all about posturing though. It's not clear what policies Trump actually wants to enact and even less clear he will actually be able to enact them. Part of the Democrats' problem is no doubt that they have spent 4 years doing nothing, but that's mostly just a feature of the American system. However, Trump will not necessarily reflect the system ...

Calling Trump "fascist" probably hasn't helped. Lazy Nazi analogues (which the right loves to make about leftists too) are unhelpful and just get in the way of nuanced analysis of all the bad things about Trump and his movement - some of which resemble Hitler and Mussolini, but actually many don't.

It wasn't the Dems who called him facist though. It was military leaders who had previously worked with him.

And people still went 'yay, that's me decided, off to the ballot box I go'.

Fucking insanity.

Blueblue92 · 06/11/2024 10:03

It astonishes me that anyone thinks there will be any significant difference

CaveMum · 06/11/2024 10:04

I recommend people listen to the latest TRIP Leading podcast, an interview with writer Michael Lewis (Moneyball, The Big Short, The Fifth Risk). He had an interesting take on why people support Trump.

This is an excerpt from the transcript:

ML “My take is that they don't actually think that he's going to solve their problems.

They've given up on their problems being solved, and what they want is their anger to be stoked. They want to feel that someone feels something like they feel. Very oddly, and this is why I think Trump is just like personally critical to this movement.

If that bullet had taken out Trump, I think they would not be someone who stepped in and replaced him and the movement would move on just the way it is.

AC: What has he got that nobody else has got?

A genuine anger, a genuine kind of psychopathic anger at the world that comes from a chip on his shoulder from the way he was raised by his dad, from being a second or third tier New York real estate guy who was looked down upon by the first tier ones, by the culture of New York in which he was raised, which sort of rewarded this sort of this.

AC: But you've also got to have talent. Surely, you've got to have talent to be able to weaponize that, mobilize that.

ML: The fact that he doesn't have talent sort of makes it easier for people to relate to him, I think. What you see as deficiencies, I think probably are great strengths with his audience. So he's sincere in some way.

Even when he's faking it, he's sincere. At some deep level, he feels all that awfulness and they like it. I think that they like that.”

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/leading/id1665265193?i=1000675378702

Michael Lewis: Donald Trump, Sam Bankman-Fried, and the future of the USA

Michael Lewis: Donald Trump, Sam Bankman-Fried, and the future of the USA

Podcast Episode · Leading · 04/11/2024 · 51m

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/leading/id1665265193?i=1000675378702

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